The first meeting between the two: marriage is destined
Beijing, autumn 1999. The warm sunshine is sprinkled on the campus of the Chinese Academy of Drama, and in the blink of an eye, it is a good time for the golden autumn to be cool.
On this day, Xia Yu was playing basketball on the playground, devoting himself to the fun of sports without distraction. Suddenly, his gaze caught a figure, a passing girl attracting his full attention.
Xia Yu was stunned, he saw a pair of eyes as clear as spring water, Xia Yu's whole person fell into that spring-like gaze, unable to move. It turned out that the target of dumping sentient beings was actually the campus goddess Yuan Quan, who was one year younger than Xia Yu.
Lao Ziyun: "Those who know me, their hearts are certain; Those who do not know me will have their hearts. Xia Yu thought to himself that he and Yuan Quan must be destined to marry. In this life, he has found a soulmate and must not let go.
From that day on, Xia Yu began to pursue Yuan Quan frantically, showing his sincerity and love without reservation. He would suddenly send a bouquet of flowers to the place where Yuan Quan appeared to express his heart; He would wait at the door of the classroom and send her back to the dormitory when Yuan Quan was in class; He would silently watch Yuan Quan when he was Xi, for fear of missing any moment related to her.
Xia Yu's actions caused the other suitors to flee, and he was the only one left in Yuan Quan's world. But Yuan Quan, who was calm and self-controlled, didn't feel anything about Xia Yu's passionate pursuit at first.
However, if love burns for a long time, it will gradually melt into ice and snow. Under Xia Yu's long-term overtures, the steady Yuan Quan was finally moved by his sincerity. She began to accept Xia Yu's pursuit and gave him a positive response.
In this way, the two hearts came together in the golden autumn season. They stepped into the palace of love and began a sweet first love.
Since then, Xia Yu and Yuan Quan's names have been called together, and they have become a pair of beautiful people who dump all beings on campus. All those who heard the news that the "campus golden boys and girls" were together were happy for them, and sincerely wished the couple to grow old together and be united forever.
Cooperative filming: love is heating up
In 2003, Xia Yu and Yuan Quan co-starred in the movie "Police Appointment" for the first time. This is the first time that the two have changed from lovers on the screen to off-screen couples since they established their relationship.
At that time, the atypical pneumonia virus was spreading across the country, and in the busy filming process, in order to better present the role, she neglected her protection, accidentally contracted a cold, and had a high fever that did not go away.
When Xia Yu learned about this, he was so anxious that he didn't care about the work matters, and hurried to Yuan Quan. Seeing her weak appearance, Xia Yu was distressed.
He fetched hot water and a towel, wiped it lightly for her, and kept saying "It's okay, it'll pass", as if to comfort himself. Then, he carefully covered her with a quilt, prepared hot porridge and water, and put it on her forehead to test the temperature, for fear that she would suffer a little grievance.
Xia Yu regularly delivered food and water to Yuan Quan every day, and took care of her daily life diligently. Later, he even moved her to his aunt's house to recuperate. My aunt was very happy that the two were in love, and she also took care of Yuan Quan carefully until she recovered and was discharged from the hospital.
In this "sharing weal and woe", Yuan Quan was moved by Xia Yu's meticulous care. She knows that the person she loves will appear when she needs it most, and take care of her with her heart.
This sincere love warmed her heart.
The relationship between the two is also heating up in this "test". Yuan Quan's love for Xia Yu is no longer the original youth and innocence, but has turned into a deep and firm family affection in the precipitation of time and experience.
She is determined to go through every stage of her life with Xia Yu, whether it is through thick and thin or in good weather. So, after the filming, Yuan Quan said what was in her heart to Xia Yu - she hoped to marry him and spend her life together.
Xia Yu was excited, he hugged his bosom friend, and his heart swelled with incomparable happiness and satisfaction. He agreed to her, and the two looked at each other and smiled, their eyes full of beautiful visions for the future and the courage to work together.
Scandal-ridden: Nightmarish questioning
However, just when the relationship between the two was as sweet as honey, the scandal in the outside world was like a thunderbolt from the sky, shattering their love sky.
In 2005 and 2006, negative news such as "Xia Yu's split leg scandal" and "Yuan Quan's Xia Yu's feelings changed" spread in the entertainment industry.
In particular, Xia Yu's scandals with the popular Huadan Fan Bingbing and Xiaosheng Gao Yuanyuan were exposed, which was even more shocking. In the photo, the picture of Xia Yu and Fan Bingbing talking secretly at the event was exposed, and the photo of him and Gao Yuanyuan holding hands is even more direct.
In an instant, public opinion was in an uproar, questioning Xia Yu's emotional position. This was a huge blow to Yuan Quan, and she couldn't believe that the person she loved would be so hypocritical behind her back.
Day after day, Yuan Quan's whole person is in extreme vulnerability and grief. She has insomnia, lost food, and seems absent-minded when filming. Friends persuaded her to break up and leave this negative man, but she was reluctant to give up this relationship.
She always believes that they have loved each other deeply and experienced so many bits and pieces. Xia Yu won't hurt himself, this must be some kind of misunderstanding.
So Yuan Quan chose to believe in Xia Yu and their love. No matter how turbulent the public opinion is, she will go through this nightmare hand in hand with Xia Yu.
With the comfort and encouragement of friends and netizens, Yuan Quan gradually walked out of the shadow of emotional sadness. She told herself that people who truly love each other will eventually come together again, and she will use her soul to wait for the day when Xia Yu changes her mind.
So, Yuan Quan chose to be tolerant and tolerant, and continued to believe in this man and this feeling. Because true love is impeccable, after the storm, the rainbow will come.
Broken mirror reunion: sincerity finally understands
Love is like a mirror, broken after being ravaged by wind and rain, but as long as both parties have the same heart, they can still be reunited.
Later, those chaotic scandals finally came to light. It turned out that Xia Yu and Gao Yuanyuan were just a normal relationship during the drama cooperation in early 2006, and they had nothing to do with Yuan Quan's breakup.
After learning the truth, Yuan Quan exhaled easily. She understands that love will not be smooth sailing, but sincerity will eventually be understood. The two came together again, met frankly, and relieved their old suspicions.
The lessons of this separation have only strengthened the relationship between the two, as they have learned to be tolerant and tolerant. In 2009, they finally got married and held a simple but timeless wedding at the China Academy of Drama in Beijing.
That night, the two walked hand in hand on the familiar campus, where every bit of their love was recorded. The teachers and students of the college also came to send their sincere blessings to the couple.
The following year, their daughter "Shahaha" was born. The advent of a new life makes the small family more warm and happy. In the process, Yuan Quan also helped Xia Yu improve the relationship with his parents. Xia Yu finally unloaded the misunderstanding of his parents, and the rift in the family was bridged.
Today, they have grown old together for 14 years. Over the years, the relationship between the two has been stable, and there has never been negative news, becoming a model for young people to learn from Xi.
Looking back on that year, Xia Yu sighed a lot: "If it weren't for you, I wouldn't be able to become my current self." With you by my side, I can bravely face the ups and downs of life and become a better person.
Yuan Quan said gently: "Me too, my dear, we were born to be a couple. Only by nourishing love with tolerance and trust can it bloom with the most beautiful brilliance. ”
Comment on the love between the two
If you summarize the love between Xia Yu and Yuan Quan in one sentence, then "From school uniforms to wedding dresses, they live the best love look" could not be more appropriate.
This golden boy and girl used their 24-year love story to interpret what is true love with a clear goal and unswerving heart.
Their names are a reflection of this love. When the summer rain is pursued, it is enthusiastic and unrestrained, like the summer rain falling suddenly; Yuan Quan's response was continuous, like a natural spring.
At first, the calm and self-controlled Yuan Quan had no special feelings for Xia Yu, who pursued impulsively. However, after getting along for a long time, Xia Yu's sincere feelings touched her. Love is like a piece of ice, which needs to be warmed and melted with your heart.
After the two officially got together, they went through many tests. For example, when cooperating in the filming of a movie, Yuan Quan was injured, and Xia Yu's meticulous care made her truly experience love.
Love is not a one-sided giving, it needs to be cared for by two people. Later, all kinds of scandals from Xia Yu had a huge impact on this love. However, Yuan Quan still chooses to understand and trust. Love also needs to be forgiving, because life will not be easy.
When the truth is revealed and the two are reunited, this relationship is even stronger, because it has withstood the baptism of wind and rain. It resembles a broken mirror, and the reflection after restoration is clearer and more moving.
Today, 10 years later, they have grown old together and become the benchmark in the industry. This stems from the consistent true feelings in the hearts of the two, as well as the tacit understanding tempered with time.
Love is not the blooming of flowers on the first day, but the cycle of the four seasons. From the two holding hands and strolling at the wedding scene of the Chinese Opera campus, to now having a happy family and a bumper career, they have achieved happiness with perseverance and dedication.
In life, Yuan Quan warmed this feeling with a tolerant heart. She understands that to love someone is to love the whole person, and to love his past. Xia Yu also grew up under her influence, from a reckless teenager to a stable man.
They supported each other, polished each other, and won the long-distance love run with unreserved sincerity. Now Xia Yu and Yuan Quan have become the most loving pair in the eyes of the public. And this is all due to the fact that they have not changed their original intentions and always cherish the people in front of them.
Love takes time to settle. There is a need for trust, there is a need for understanding, and there is a need for tolerance. Xia Yu and Yuan Quan used their own stories to tell the world that people who truly love each other will eventually come together and withstand the baptism of wind and rain. In their best state, they live out the true meaning of love.
summary
Xia Yu and Yuan Quan's 24-year love has become a "model couple" in the eyes of the public with its stability and classicism.
Their story teaches us that true love doesn't require vows, it just goes with your heart. Choosing someone who understands you, trusts you, and supports you is the key to staying together.
They trust each other and understand each other; They are friendly and give each other space; They advance and retreat together, hand in hand. Use this mature and steady attitude to maintain the relationship, so that it can be true for a long time.
Love will never be smooth sailing, and both parties need to stick together to resolve the bits and pieces of life. If all newlyweds could emulate their inclusive attitude, how many divorces could have been avoided.
Xia Yu and Yuan Quan's mature state manages their emotions, rather than doing what they want; They choose to communicate to solve problems rather than compromise and compromise; They value quality of life over material comforts.
Because of this, their relationship can stand the test of time.
Don't lose your mind because of a small mistake on the other side, learn to be tolerant; Don't give up easily, the relationship also needs long-term care from both parties. Xia Yu and Yuan Quan have been together for 14 years, which is worth learning Xi from every couple.
Thanks to them for using their real experiences to explain what true love is for everyone. I sincerely wish all my loved ones to grow old together like them, with yellow hair and eyebrows, and go to the peak of life together.