In recent years, there has been a trend of "not marrying" in the marriage market. Behind this phenomenon is a change in social attitudes and an increase in family pressure. It is no longer just because the man does not have a car or a house that the man chooses not to marry, but more and more women believe that if the man has a son, married life will face more difficulties and challenges.
First of all, the traditional concept of family makes the woman need to take on more family responsibilities after marriage. In many families, women are still seen as housewives and are responsible for childcare, household chores, and other chores. And if the man has a son, the woman also needs to take care of the grandchildren after marriage, which undoubtedly increases the pressure on the woman's life.
Secondly, with the development of society, the status of women has gradually improved, and more and more women have begun to pursue their careers and personal values. However, if the man has a son, the woman may need to give up her career and devote herself to the family wholeheartedly. This is unacceptable for many women who pursue independence and self-worth.
In addition, the tension between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also an important reason for the trend of "not marrying". In many families, the contradictions and conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have always been a difficult problem to solve. If the man's family has a son, the woman needs to face a more complicated mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship after marriage, which undoubtedly brings more trouble to married life.
Finally, economic pressure is also a reason for the "no-marry" trend. With rising housing prices and the increasing cost of living, many young people are already burdened with a heavy financial burden before marriage. And if the man has a son, the woman may need to bear more financial pressure after marriage, which is why many women are reluctant to choose to marry into a family with a son.