Recently, a shocking news was exposed in Hangzhou, Zhejiang: a woman named Wei Xuejie, under the pseudonym of "Hu Meimei", used marriage agencies and dating websites to date more than 20 single men, and committed fraud in the name of "marriage and love", defrauding others of more than 770,000 yuan worth of property. This Wei Xuejie took advantage of her "good looks, high education, high income" and other conditions to choose middle-aged and elderly men with average economic conditions as the target of fraud. Whether the other party is an ordinary worker or an online car-hailing driver, as long as the monthly salary is a few thousand yuan to 10,000 yuan, she is blind. When dating a blind date, Wei Xuejie always carries a bag with several POS machines, so that she can cash out through the POS machine and some company collection codes when the other party swipes the card. In order to make herself more attractive, she packaged herself as a descendant of Hu Xueyan, a financial planner with a high degree and a high income, and dated more than 20 men at the same time. She took advantage of these men's marriage and love needs and inferiority complex to defraud them of money for various reasons, including cashing out credit cards and borrowing from Ant Huabei. In just two years, Wei Xuejie defrauded hundreds of thousands of yuan from an ordinary worker, Lao Zhang, until he squeezed out all his savings. After the trial, Wei Xuejie was finally sentenced to 11 years in prison and fined 110,000 yuan.
This news can't help but make people think deeply, the female sea king incarnated as a descendant of Hu Xueyan and dated more than 20 men to defraud more than 770,000 yuan, exposing the psychological and realistic needs of some men in Chinese society in terms of marriage and love. On the one hand, this reflects the loneliness and longing for love of some middle-aged and elderly men. These men may be having problems in their married life or have been single for a long time and are eager to make up for the gap in their relationship through marriage. On the other hand, it also reflects some social phenomena where some people take advantage of this need of others to commit fraud, damaging the property and emotions of others.
However, we must also see that this does not mean that all marriage and love relationships are fake, nor can the entire matchmaking industry be denied because of the behavior of individual people. Love is beautiful, marriage is sacred, but both are based on sincerity and premise, and it is very important to maintain the necessary rationality. For marriage and love, we need to be more careful in choosing our partners, and don't be carried away by "sweet words".
Finally, this incident also reminds us that society needs to pay more attention to the mental health and marital needs of middle-aged and elderly people, and at the same time, it is also necessary to strengthen the prevention and crackdown on marriage and love fraud. Only by establishing a sound system and legal protection can we better protect people's legitimate rights and interests.