Introduction to Wang Xueqi
In the winter of 1946, when it was snowing lightly in Beijing, Wang Xueqi cried in the cold wind and reported his arrival. Parents look at the baby and hopefully imagine that he will have a good future in the future.
Xiao Wang Xueqi is lively and cheerful, and often follows his mother to jump in the yard. He was especially fond of chasing falling leaves and humming songs that were out of tune. Neighbors looked at Wang Xueqi's innocent and lovely appearance, and often said that he would definitely grow up and make achievements in art in the future.
After going to school, Wang Xueqi's artistic talent was initially revealed. In music lessons, he can easily memorize simple tunes played by his teacher and perform them for everyone to enjoy. After Chinese class, Wang Xueqi would dance in front of his classmates, and his movements were very coordinated.
Teachers and classmates loved this versatile lad.
At the age of 14, Wang Xueqi joined the army excitedly, and he could finally give full play to his artistic talent without being disciplined by his parents. On the day of enlistment, his eyes lit up, and he walked briskly into the gate of the barracks.
The strict training in the army did not wear out Wang Xueqi's enthusiasm for art, and he actively participated in literary and artistic activities, and performed eye-catching in theatrical performances many times.
When he was 23 years old, his parents were anxious about Wang Xueqi's marriage and told him about a family. The subject's name is Sun Changning, and she is a well-mannered intellectual woman. Wang Xueqi has no love for Sun Changning, but in the face of his parents' simple expectations, he still carefully reads the other party's information and pretends to be seriously considering.
In the end, Wang Xueqi took a deep breath, nodded, and agreed to marry Sun Changning.
After marriage, Wang Xueqi practiced various musical instruments day and night, and he dreamed of one day showing his skills on Xi the stage. Sun Changning felt snubbed, but she did not give up, secretly learning Xi Wang Xueqi's best dulcimer, hoping to close the distance between the two.
Leave the army and start cohabitation
In 1970, Wang Xueqi had to leave the army and began to live with his wife Sun Changning. For this sudden change, Wang Xueqi was inevitably a little depressed.
In the early days, Wang Xueqi always locked himself in the house, practiced Xi played various musical instruments, and turned a blind eye to his wife's courteous care. Sun Changning was full of enthusiasm for housework and prepared hearty meals, hoping to impress this cold man.
However, Wang Xueqi still went his own way and did not react to his wife's feelings.
Watching Wang Xueqi playing the dulcimer in a distracted manner, Sun Changning had an idea and began to secretly Xi learn this skill. During the day, she would sneak into the piano room and watch the sheet music laboriously practice Xi fingering.
At night, when Wang Xueqi was asleep, she gently took out the dulcimer and repeated the day's practice Xi.
After months of hard work, Sun Changning was finally able to play some music fluently. One day, she sat down next to Wang Xueqi with refreshments and asked him to play, and then she tried to play the same tune.
When the music of the ensemble sounded, Wang Xueqi looked at his wife in surprise, this was the first time he had looked at her.
In 1973, their son Wang Daqing was born. Sun Changning gently picked up the baby and waited for Wang Xueqi's joyful reaction. However, Wang Xueqi just nodded lightly, and then continued to read his score.
Sun Changning sighed in disappointment, it seemed that the man's inner world would never open up to her.
Wang Xueqi chases his acting dream
In 1978, Wang Xueqi was admitted to the Kongzheng Repertory Troupe, and officially took the first step in the long-awaited acting career. At first, he could only play small roles, busy on the edge of the stage.
Even if there are only a few lines, Wang Xueqi is fully engaged, for fear that the audience will be disappointed in him as a newcomer.
Three years later, the repertory troupe was going to perform a big play, and Wang Xueqi was finally promoted to the second male lead. After receiving the good news, he was so happy that he couldn't sleep, and he memorized all the lines overnight.
On stage alone as a supporting actor for the first time, he was so nervous that his whole body trembled, but he still tried his best and successfully completed his part. After the performance, Wang Xueqi shed tears of excitement.
In the mid-80s, the opportunities in the drama industry were limited, and Wang Xueqi decided to switch to the film and television industry. The beginning was very difficult, and Wang Xueqi had to interview dozens of film and television companies to get his first small role.
At first, he could only play a few out-of-the-box roles, but Wang Xueqi was not discouraged and regarded every scene as a valuable acting opportunity.
In 1997, Wang Xueqi finally ushered in the first actor nomination in his life, which was the role of the abdominal muscle man he played in "Red Suit". That night, he wore a tailored suit and walked up to the podium with trepidation.
When the host read out his name, Wang Xueqi was so excited that he couldn't speak, and could only bow to the audience with tears, and at this moment he finally won the highest honor as an actor.
At this time, Sun Changning was rarely at home, and her career development made her live abroad. She would send home a postcard with only a simple greeting on it, and it was impossible to renew the relationship.
Wang Xueqi knows that the distance between him and his wife is expanding day by day, but he has no time to take care of it on the way to chase his acting dream.
He filed for divorce for the first time in 2010
In 2010, the 64-year-old Wang Xueqi's career reached its peak and won the award of Best Actor. However, at this moment, he filed for divorce. There was an uproar from the outside world, speculating whether this was caused by derailment.
For these rumors, Wang Xueqi did not respond positively, but silently moved forward on his own path.
At first, Wang Xueqi only went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to inquire about the divorce procedures, but his wife Sun Changning did not know. It wasn't until she received a summons from the court that Sun Changning realized in a daze that her husband was going to divorce her.
She couldn't believe that things would come to this, and her heart was like a knife. Faced with his wife's pleading, Wang Xueqi was expressionless and had made up his mind.
After the failure of the first round of divorce proceedings, Wang Xueqi did not give up. He sat on a bench outside the courtroom all night, staring at the whitening sky. When dawn came, a flash of determination flashed in his eyes, and he wanted to continue the fight for his new life.
A year later, Wang Xueqi filed for divorce again, and his tone was firmer than last time.
In court, Wang Xueqi stated word by word the rupture of the relationship between him and Sun Changning. They are merely husband and wife in the legal sense, and their relationship has broken down many years ago.
This empty marriage has long existed in name only, and it is a kind of bondage to each other.
Sun Changning cried and begged to remarry, but Wang Xueqi had made up his mind. He believes that life will give him new opportunities, and leaving this failed marriage relationship is a better choice.
In order to be reborn, you need to be open-minded, and Wang Xueqi chose to free himself.
Filing a divorce lawsuit for the second time
After filing a divorce lawsuit for the second time, Wang Xueqi behaved more firmly than the last time. He sorted out all the materials needed for the divorce, and his words were resolute. For media interviews, he just said lightly, "This is my personal choice."
However, for Sun Changning, this time the blow was even bigger. She thought that the failed first divorce would make Wang Xueqi reconsider, but she didn't expect him to resolutely file a lawsuit again.
Friends persuaded her to accept the reality, but Sun Changning still cried in court and begged for a remarriage.
Just when the two sides were at a stalemate, his son Wang Daqing wrote a letter to his father. He said earnestly that he would always support his father's decision and be his strong backing.
After reading the letter, Wang Xueqi's eyes were red, and he felt the injection of strength.
With the efforts of the judge, the two parties finally reached an agreement and the divorce ended in a voluntary divorce. Wang Xueqi offered to pay a breakup fee of 200,000 yuan, but Sun Changning refused to collect it, she just wanted to leave memories of the two.
Wang Xueqi nodded sadly, turned around and left the courtroom.
Stepping out of the courthouse, Wang Xueqi breathed a long sigh of relief. He stared at the blue sky and white clouds, determined to start a new life. This time, he wants to live for himself, no longer bound by anyone or anything.
Wang Xueqi raised his head, smiled at the sun, and strode into the future.
The state of life after the divorce
After the successful divorce, Wang Xueqi was much more relaxed. He no longer has ties and can devote himself to his acting career. When filming a new TV series, the director praised Wang Xueqi's performance in excellent condition, not at all like an old man who has passed the age of sixties.
Wang Xueqi also gave some interviews to share his views on relationship and marriage. He cheerfully said that it was the right choice to break out of a failed marriage, and now he can live a life that is truly his own, which is the state he dreamed of.
In his spare time, Wang Xueqi will arrange some father-son time with his son Wang Daqing. They go hiking, camping, and enjoying nature together.
In the evening, the father and son crowded around the fire to roast the fire, and Wang Xueqi would tell his son interesting stories when he was young, and the two laughed heartily.
Wang Xueqi also actively participates in some public welfare activities, teaching acting courses for many young people who are chasing their dreams. The students said that they had learned a lot from the old artists, and that a simple and simple heart was the most valuable.
Wang Xueqi also sincerely feels that he is helping others realize their dreams.
Now Wang Xueqi is in a peaceful state of mind, and he feels that everything is back to the starting point. He has no regrets, but is glad that he has achieved a new life in his marriage and career.
Wang Xueqi is looking forward to the next journey of his life, looking into the distance, the sun is reflected on his face.