"I value my reputation more than my life"
When Wang Xueqi finished saying this, many people felt that Wang Xueqi was a good man with a sense of responsibility and responsibility.
However, after many years, he hit himself in the face.
In the summer of 2011, Wang Xueqi and his wife of 40 years went to court, this is not the first time the two have faced off in court, Wang Xueqi once said:
"Although we have been married for 40 years, we are each busy with our careers, and our feelings are gradually fading, and this marriage has long existed in name only"
It is not difficult to hear from the words that Wang Xueqi has long had the idea of divorce, and this time Wang Xueqi finally divorced as he wished.
You know, at that time, Wang Xueqi was already over the age of Huajia, a person who was almost 70 years old, why did he think about divorce? Is there a third party that can't do it?
Sure enough, it didn't take long for Wang Xuexi to really spread the lace news.
At that time, a photo of Wang Xueqi and Fan Bingbing suspected of holding hands was spread all over the world, is it really because of Fan Bingbing, Wang Xueqi divorced his wife?
Why does an old drama bone who values reputation more important than life insist on divorcing his wife who has been married for 40 years in his later years?
01
In 1946, Wang Xueqi was born in an ordinary family in Beijing, when he was a child, Wang Xueqi's mother would sing to him every day, and Wang Xuexi was also particularly interested in music when he was a child.
In that era, it was not easy to solve the problem of food and clothing for the family, and although Wang Xueqi was very interested in music when he was a child, he did not receive professional training.
Until he was 14 years old, Wang Xueqi enlisted in the army and became a literary and artistic soldier, and he had the opportunity to contact various musical instruments in the army, and during this period Wang Xueqi also began to contact the performing arts.
The performing arts are more like opening the door to a new century for Wang Xueqi, who found that he liked the performing arts very much, which made him usually spend more time on the performing arts while contacting musical instruments.
But an era has a trend of the times, and that era is a boom that belongs to the workers.
In 1969, Wang Xueqi ended his military career, and after returning from the army, Wang Xueqi followed the trend of the times and came to work as a workshop worker in a factory in Beijing.
At this time, Wang Xueqi was 23 years old, and the people in the family began to worry about his marriage. Just one day, Wang Xuexi received a notice from a relative, saying that he had met a good little girl.
Originally, Wang Xueqi was still working, but his relatives said that he would let him push off his work and go home quickly.
The family was in a hurry, and the helpless Wang Xuexi could only push off his work and rush home non-stop.
As soon as he returned home, Wang Xuexi saw Sun Changning sitting in the living room, and the two of them quickly lowered their heads shyly.
Seeing this, the relative next to him thought that "eighty percent is a drama", so he said to the two:
"Come to Changning, introduce you to this is the Wang Xuexi I mentioned to you, Xueqi, this girl is Sun Changning." You guys come to get to know each other, and I think you two are also very suitable. ”
This made the two already shy young people even more embarrassed, but Wang Xueqi was still very active as a man when he met someone he liked.
Gradually, the two also became acquainted, and the two were very satisfied with each other, and naturally confirmed their relationship.
After two years of communication, the two got to know each other better, and felt that the time was almost ripe, and the two began to discuss marriage.
In July 1971, the two officially became husband and wife after a wedding, and at this time, both of them had relatively stable working hours.
It's not so busy, and the two of you can enjoy their two-person world after work.
After a long time, the two also had the idea of wanting children, so two years later, the crystallization of their love came to the world and named him "Wang Daqing"
Wang Xueqi thought that he would live his life in such a plain way, and his performance dream would probably be buried in this ordinary time.
However, a chance opportunity changed Wang Xueqi's life, when the factory was preparing to rehearse a play, and the leading actor was accidentally injured when everything was ready.
At that time, the time was short, and there was an accident when it seemed that the performance was about to be performed, and when the person in charge of the play was full of anxiety, someone mentioned to him:
"Wang Xueqi used to be a literary and artistic soldier, and he has some research on performance. Or let him try? ”
When the person in charge heard the joy in his heart, he couldn't care so much, so he directly asked people to call Wang Xueqi over to replace him.
And Wang Xueqi did not disappoint everyone, and the performance was very successful.
After that, he was even invited by director Wang Ping of Bayi Factory to star in "We Are All the Eighth Route Army", and Wang Xuexi also gladly accepted the invitation.
And this performance completely ignited Wang Xueqi's already silent heart of performing arts.
In order to pursue his dream, Wang Xuexi resolutely signed up for the exam when he heard about the enrollment of the Air Politics Repertory Theater.
In 1978, Wang Xuexi was admitted to the Air Politics Repertory Troupe as he wished, and became colleagues with Li Xuejian, Pu Cunxin and others.
02
After joining the drama troupe, Wang Xueqi began to become more and more busy, because of the needs of performances, and Sun Changning's career was also thriving, and she also traveled to various countries as the cultural counselor of the Ministry of Foreign Affairs.
This led to the two people having to be separated in two places for a long time, and Wang Daqing could only be taken care of by his grandparents and grandparents.
However, the road of the performance industry is not so easy to take, what is needed is opportunity, otherwise it is difficult to play even if you have strength.
Wang Xueqi belongs to the kind of person who has strength but no opportunity, and Li Xuejian and Pu Cunxin are also pitiful.
The three of them can only occasionally run tricks in the drama troupe, and in their spare time, the three sit together to discuss the experience of running tricks.
Over time, the three have also become very good friends, and they have been jokingly called the "dragon set trio" because they have been running tricks.
But none of them gave up because they kept running the trick, and the three of them encouraged each other.
If you can't get a good role, then your acting strength is not enough, and it proves that you still need to sharpen.
In this way, the three comforted each other, admonishing each other that "the blade of the sword is sharpened, and the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from the bitter cold." "As long as you keep sticking, you will one day get a formal role and prove your worth."
Running tricks for a long time and playing small roles has allowed Wang Xueqi to accumulate a lot of experience.
The performance details of various characters are very well handled, just like some actors can only play one type of role fixedly, but Wang Xueqi can easily grasp the essence of various roles.
Maxima is common, but Bó Lè is not often. Finally, Wang Xueqi's efforts were seen by director Chen Kaige.
In 1984, Wang Xuexi was invited to star in "Yellow Land" and "Forced Takeoff", and began to emerge in the film and television industry.
The road to acting is always full of ups and downs, Wang Xuexi has always been very low-key, and will not hype himself.
This has also led to his works being popular but not popular, and most of the casting in the film and television industry gives preference to famous actors.
In the following years, Wang Xueqi did not get many roles, and he was not much famous.
But as the so-called thick and thin hair, powerful actors cannot be buried after all.
In 2008, director Chen Kaige planned to shoot the movie "Mei Lanfang", but the role of "Thirteen Yans" in the film made him difficult.
Because although "Thirteen Yan" is only a supporting role, it has particularly high requirements for actors. It's easy to find someone to play "Thirteen Yans", but it's not simple to play well.
Just when he was in trouble, director Chen Kaige suddenly thought of Wang Xueqi and quickly contacted him.
Wang Xueqi, who first got the script, also muttered in his heart, he had not been exposed to Peking Opera before, and "Thirteen Yan" is a master of Peking Opera.
Wang Xueqi doesn't know if he can play this role, but he still wants to challenge this role very much in his heart.
In order to better integrate into the role, Wang Xueqi began to study Peking Opera and asked the seniors for advice.
The more he went deeper, the more Wang Xueqi discovered the breadth and depth of Peking Opera, and the mystery contained in it was endless, and he knew that simple imitation could not make him understand the essence of it.
For this reason, Wang Xueqi found Mr. Li Shu, and asked for a door, starting from the most basic singing, reading, doing, fighting, and learning, until he understood it, he dared to officially star in "Thirteen Yan".
It is precisely because of Wang Xueqi's professionalism that we can see a vivid "Thirteen Yan".
As soon as the movie "Mei Lanfang" was released, it brought great shock to the audience, and Wang Xuexi also won the "Golden Horse Award for Best Supporting Actor".
Not only that, many directors in the circle also saw in Wang Xueqi, the cultivation that a professional actor should have.
The following year, Wang Xuexi received an invitation from director Chen Desen to star in the movie "October Siege" "Li Yutang", and this time the cast can be described as a big coffee gather, very luxurious.
And this time Wang Xueqi won the "Best Actor at the 4th Asian Film Awards" among many superstars.
Many people say that Wang Xuexi became famous in old age, but they don't know that he "sharpened a sword for ten years". And these honors are only well-deserved for him.
However, Wang Xueqi, who has won many honors, is not proud of this, and he still maintains that humble heart.
In daily life, he still lives a simple and low-key life like ordinary people.
However, such a conscientious good actor is very lonely in his heart. Outside, he is a big star with infinite scenery, but at home he is just a lonely old man.
03
In 2011, 65-year-old Wang Xuexi did something that put him on the cusp of the storm - filing divorce proceedings with the court.
Many people are very curious, after so many years, why did they suddenly choose to divorce?
In fact, this is not the first time Wang Xuexi has filed for divorce, as early as 2010, Wang Xuexi had filed a lawsuit with the court.
And all this has to start with his wife Sun Changning, since Sun Changning became the cultural counselor of the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, he often travels abroad, and every business trip will stay abroad for a long time.
Every time Wang Xueqi returned home, he only faced an empty house, and could not feel the shadow of home.
The two people often quarrel because of their disagreements in personality and opinions, coupled with a long period of separation, so that the original husband and wife have long existed in name only.
And the main reason why it was delayed until the near end of the year is Wang Daqing.
Wang Xueqi is very guilty of his son, because of work, he has not been able to take good care of Wang Daqing, and Wang Daqing's growth himself has not participated much.
And the damage caused by divorce to the children is very huge, so he can't bring mental pressure burden to Wang Daqing.
Everything needs to wait for Wang Daqing to grow up and understand the decision made by his father before choosing to divorce.
And Wang Daqing also understands his father very well about this, and he also knows that the relationship between his parents has long existed in name only, leaving only quarrels.
However, shortly after Wang Xueqi's divorce, he was rumored by intentions, and an affair with Fan Bingbing was reported. Wang Xueqi did not pay attention to this, but this only bred their arrogance.
As the party concerned, Fan Bingbing also spoke up: "It's okay to insult me, but I can't let the respected old-timers suffer grievances with me." ”
Now 11 years have passed, Wang Xueqi is still alone, and the rumors that were originally broken have naturally been broken.
And Wang Xueqi, who is nearly 80 years old, in addition to his beloved acting career, will also spend more time with his grandson and enjoy his happy leisure time.
Marriage is not a pilgrimage of one person, marriage is the practice of two people, connecting people who originally lived in two worlds, and what is needed is to accompany each other, grow together, and foam at each other.
Love to the depths is to remember, love to the depths is companionship.