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Married for 16 years, 3 babies are not biological, the husband is no longer raised, wife: he is too heavy on blood, and the livestock is not as good

author:Half-born arbor

In 2022, Jiangxi Chen Zhixian posted on the Internet that the entire incident process of "three daughters" were not his own, and it was immediately rumored.

He has been working outside for 16 years, just wanting to make his wife and daughter's life better, thinking that he can "husband and wife are of the same heart, and their profits are broken", but he didn't want to, his wife had already betrayed him.

Married for 16 years, 3 babies are not biological, the husband is no longer raised, wife: he is too heavy on blood, and the livestock is not as good

He has raised daughters for so many years, but none of them are his own, and he refuses to continue to pay child support, but his wife says: "Is blood so important?

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Chen Zhixian was born in 1977 in an ordinary rural family in Shangrao City, Jiangxi Province, and his mother left him when he was very young, and to make matters worse, his father suffered from heart disease for a long time.

Soon reached the age of marriage, but because of family reasons, he has not been able to find a partner, he thought that he would fight to the end, but he didn't want to meet Yu Xia under the introduction of a friend in 2007.

Married for 16 years, 3 babies are not biological, the husband is no longer raised, wife: he is too heavy on blood, and the livestock is not as good

After getting married, they also had a happy time, however, the reality was so cruel - neither of them had any education level and could not find a suitable job at home.

As the breadwinner of the family, Chen Zhixian decided to go out to work, and at that time, their eldest daughter had just been born, and Mr. Chen left her at home to take care of the elderly and children in order to prevent his wife from running around for a living.

With a newborn daughter and a long-ailing elderly father, family life becomes more complicated. Chen Zhixian is well aware of his wife's difficulties, and every time he receives a salary, he will send home most of the income, leaving only a little for himself to live.

It is said that distance produces beauty, and Chen Zhixian firmly believes that his love for his wife is not estranged because of distance, but on the contrary, it will increase day by day because of the beauty of distance.

The first thing I do after work every day is to send a video to my wife, and each call lasts for hours. For Chen Zhixian, during the years of working outside, this was the time when their husband and wife had the strongest relationship.

Married for 16 years, 3 babies are not biological, the husband is no longer raised, wife: he is too heavy on blood, and the livestock is not as good

In order to make a little more money, he is usually reluctant to ask for leave.

Only during the Chinese New Year can he go home to reunite with his father, wife and daughter, and Chen Zhixian will stay at home for a while before leaving.

More than ten years have passed, and his wife has also given birth to three lovely daughters. Despite the family's busy life and constant separation and reunion, their life is still happy and happy.

However, then Chen Zhixian began to feel that something was wrong, and he found that his wife's attitude towards him became more and more cold.

Whether it's on video calls or when he's at home, the wife doesn't seem to be as close as she used to be.

This change made Chen Zhixian feel confused, could it be because the marriage had been long and the relationship had gradually faded? He was puzzled by this.

Married for 16 years, 3 babies are not biological, the husband is no longer raised, wife: he is too heavy on blood, and the livestock is not as good

What worries him even more is that his wife seems to be trying her best to stay away from him. She was no longer as intimate as she used to be, and even made excuses not wanting to share a bed with him.

Chen Zhixian began to wonder if his wife was having an affair with him, a speculation that has been bothering him. He was reluctant to doubt his wife easily, but signs of reality seemed to force him to consider the possibility.

To confirm his suspicions, Chen Zhixian began to pay close attention to his wife's every move and even track her whereabouts.

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That day, he gave out a bonus, and happily dialed Yu Xia's video as soon as he got off work, but as soon as he said a few words, his wife hurriedly hung up his video.

What's even more outrageous is that she often shuts down her phone, and such a change makes Chen Zhixian always feel a little strange in his heart.

Once the seeds of doubt are planted, they take root and grow in the heart.

Married for 16 years, 3 babies are not biological, the husband is no longer raised, wife: he is too heavy on blood, and the livestock is not as good

Starting in March 2022, he used his phone's location function to track his wife's real-time location until one time, his phone showed his wife showing up at a hotel. At this moment, his heart was like a piece of ice, completely cooling his whole person.

In order to decide to find out the truth, he secretly bought a ticket home, found the hotel where his wife was, and waited outside all night.

The next morning, he saw his wife walk out of the hotel door with a man in her arms. This scene made him feel like he was being poured from head to toe by a basin of cold water, and the whole person was cold.

Married for 16 years, 3 babies are not biological, the husband is no longer raised, wife: he is too heavy on blood, and the livestock is not as good

He had to admit that the marriage he had held on to had failed.

The fact that his wife cheated was in front of Chen Zhixian, which was a huge blow to his heart. He rushed over desperately, his eyes were red, he clenched his fists tightly, and tried his best to restrain the desire to hit someone, but he didn't expect Yu to show panic, but calm, and said to his lover gently: "You go first, here I am!"

Chen Zhixian only felt that the world was spinning, and his legs could not support himself to stand up. He trembled and asked his wife, "Why are you doing this? Where am I sorry for you?"

But Yu Xia replied coldly: "If you see it, you see it, and if you can't accept it, you will divorce." Then he left without mercy.

Married for 16 years, 3 babies are not biological, the husband is no longer raised, wife: he is too heavy on blood, and the livestock is not as good

Chen Zhixian hugged his headache and cried, his heart was like a knife, not only because of his wife's betrayal, but also because of his daughter's guilt, he didn't know how to explain all this to his children.

It took him a few days to calm down and try to find a way to keep his marriage and family alive. He doesn't want to divorce, firstly, for the sake of the children, and secondly, he still has feelings for Yuxia.

But Yu Xia insisted on divorce, she left her second daughter to Chen Zhixian, and she wanted to take her eldest daughter and younger daughter away.

However, misfortune seems to have befallen Chen Zhixian one after another. He often heard his neighbors say in his ear: "Three daughters are not like you!", these rumors were originally people's after-dinner rumors, but at this moment they sounded the alarm bell in his heart.

So, he took his youngest daughter for a DNA test to try to dispel the disturbing thoughts. However, reality brutally shattered his expectations. A few days later, the test results came back, and the youngest daughter was not related to him in the slightest.

Married for 16 years, 3 babies are not biological, the husband is no longer raised, wife: he is too heavy on blood, and the livestock is not as good

The result was like a bolt from the blue, and he then conducted DNA tests on his other two daughters, and finally the truth also surfaced, and the test results showed that the DNA of the three daughters did not match Chen Zhixian, and they were not his biological children.

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In the face of such a result, no man can accept it, Chen Zhixian said that he would not pay child support anymore, but he didn't want Yu Xia to say bluntly:

"Are you still human? The children raised by others are well taken care of, how can you not do this, is blood so important?, you have been called your father for so many years because of the child, it is really not as good as a beast. ”

After saying that, he hung up the phone and pulled him into the blacklist.

Married for 16 years, 3 babies are not biological, the husband is no longer raised, wife: he is too heavy on blood, and the livestock is not as good

I couldn't contact Yu Xia, so I could only come to my mother-in-law.

Unexpectedly, as soon as he came to his mother-in-law's house, Chen Zhixian was beaten out by his mother-in-law with an umbrella, but he didn't want to be slippery just after the rain, and the old lady fell down all of a sudden, squeaking in pain.

Yu Xia's sister's sister saw her mother fall and quickly called the police, saying that Chen Zhixian had deliberately injured her mother.

Married for 16 years, 3 babies are not biological, the husband is no longer raised, wife: he is too heavy on blood, and the livestock is not as good

Chen Zhixian was dragged back to the police station by the police, and he cried bitterly, but he didn't expect that he, the victim, was now unreasonable.

After 16 years of marriage, he has nothing, and now he has to face accountability. But even so, his sad life is not over.

In the early morning of May 28, 2022, with a popping sound, Chen Zhixian was scared awake in his sleep, only to find that the glass in his home had been shattered and the door had been blown open.

He hurriedly ran to his father's house to check on his father's condition, and found that his father had an accident because his father had a heart disease, and he hurriedly sent his father to the hospital.

The doctor said, "If you come a little later, the consequences will be unimaginable." ”

Chen Zhixian didn't understand, he hadn't offended anyone, who would do the thing of blowing up his house?

In the investigation, the police found that it was Yu Xia and her lover who came to Chen Zhixian's house in the early morning of May 28 and carried a large number of fireworks.

They first placed two 36-round flash mines in front of the door and tied them together with duct tape, and then placed a large number of firecrackers in front of the window of Chen Zhixian's house, and made an extension cord out of mosquito coils.

Married for 16 years, 3 babies are not biological, the husband is no longer raised, wife: he is too heavy on blood, and the livestock is not as good

In the end, Yu and her mistress were convicted of damaging property and administratively detained for 8 days.

Although it was only a short 8 days, it left a record forever, which is also a big lesson for them.

Married for 16 years, 3 babies are not biological, the husband is no longer raised, wife: he is too heavy on blood, and the livestock is not as good

After his wife was released, he shamelessly came to Chen Zhixian to ask for child support.

"You have to give it, and if you don't give it, you have to give it, otherwise I will keep making trouble. ”

Chen Zhixian couldn't bear what Yu Xia did, and he decided to make this insurmountable matter public.

In July 2022, he officially told his story on the public platform. As soon as it was fermented, it resonated with people, and they all complained about him and scolded Yu Xia for being immoral.

Married for 16 years, 3 babies are not biological, the husband is no longer raised, wife: he is too heavy on blood, and the livestock is not as good

In a later interview with reporters, Chen Zhixian looked lonely and said disheartenedly: "Now, I really have nothing......

Brief summary:

Chen Zhixian has now lost his job due to various matters, and in his own words: "Now there is nothing left......

Yu Xia always felt that she was pursuing her own happiness, and she was not wrong! But she should not betray her marriage, let alone build her happiness on the pain of others, after all, marriage is not child's play, at least to maintain the most basic loyalty.

It is said that marriage is a safe haven for every wandering person, and in the past 16 years, he has tried his best to let his wife and children live a good life, but in the end it has become a bubble and a joke.

Now I only hope that those three children can grow up healthily, and I also hope that Chen Zhixian can get out of this shadow as soon as possible and regain his own life trajectory!