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Xiao Ming and I were high school classmates, and we got together smoothly after college. After eight years of dating, we finally entered the palace of marriage. I remember that at our wedding, our friends prepared a surprise blessing video for us, and our parents were also excited to tears. While helping me arrange the long skirt of the wedding dress, Xiao Ming said to me gently, "Baby, we will be happy." ”
After the honeymoon, we moved into Xiao Ming's house in his hometown. Xiao Ming's parents also live here. At first, my parents-in-law were kind to me, but I always felt that there was dissatisfaction hidden behind their smiles.
One day after dinner, my mother-in-law said to me, "Xiaoyan, your cooking is too light, you should put more salt next time." We old people are not used to the light taste of your young people. ”
I smiled awkwardly, and my father-in-law also chimed in: "Yes, Xiaoyan should consider our tastes more when cooking in the future, and don't always take care of yourself." ”
I felt a little unhappy, but I still said gently: "Okay parents-in-law, I'll pay attention next time." ”
Xiao Ming watched us from the sidelines, but didn't say anything.
A few days later, my mother-in-law was picky about my dress and said, "Xiaoyan, your clothes are too eye-catching, like going to a nightclub." Our family is a serious family, and it is not suitable for you to wear such ostentatious clothes. ”
I was just wearing an ordinary red dress, and my face turned red when my mother-in-law said that. "I'm sorry, mother-in-law, I'll pay attention next time. "I had to swallow my anger again.
In the days that followed, my in-laws' pickiness of me began to increase significantly. No matter what I did, they didn't seem satisfied. I was often told by my mother-in-law that cooking was not delicious, that I couldn't clean it, and that I didn't dress properly. My father-in-law often said at the dinner table that people like me don't understand the rules and are not filial enough. I bit my lip and endured it, just begging myself not to lose face in front of my husband.
One day, my in-laws said to me, "Xiaoyan, the son of the old Liu family is back tonight, and we are going to hold a small party to welcome him." You go buy some groceries and remember to dress formally in the evening. ”
I didn't want to go to any party, but I had to say yes. I wore a lilac dress and helped my mother-in-law prepare a few home-cooked dishes.
In the evening, Lao Liu's family came, and everyone sat in the living room to chat after eating. I was about to find a chance to go back to my room, when my mother-in-law suddenly said, "Let's play a game, let's play the game we used to play, what do you think?"
My face changed suddenly, and I hurriedly said, "Mother-in-law, my head hurts a little, don't play, you can play." ”
My mother-in-law insisted that I participate in this game, and my face was ugly and I felt very uncomfortable. The father-in-law also said on the side: "Xiaoyan, you can play one, this is our family Xi, you should also abide by it." ”
I still want to shirk it again, but Lao Liu has already coaxed: "Xiaoyan is newly married Yan'er, it's normal to play a game, don't ruin our fun." ”
There was a commotion in the room. I glanced at my husband wryly, hoping that he would help me speak, but he just smiled and didn't object.
"What is not Xi, we are not outsiders, Xiaoyan don't be shy." The mother-in-law said immediately.
I looked at my husband, his face was a little ugly, but he still nodded and said, "Just play once, don't take it too seriously." ”
I gritted my teeth, and amid the coaxing of everyone, I hugged Li Lei awkwardly. Li Lei also took the opportunity to slap me hard in the back, and I was ashamed to death.
Immediately after the game, I went back to my room. My husband came to persuade me, but I was so angry that I yelled at him directly: "You are too disrespectful!
The husband smiled bitterly: "They are just joking, don't take it to heart." This is our family Xi, you have to learn to adapt. ”
"What Xi? I'm married to you, not your whole family!" I said angrily.
My husband said helplessly: "They are a little harsh on you, but they are also kind, you have to learn to be tolerant." ”
"I've never seen a mother treat her daughter-in-law like this!" I couldn't help but say loudly, "And you, and never help me speak, I really misjudged you!"
After saying that, I left without looking back, leaving my husband alone in the room and sighing.
At lunchtime, I said to my mother-in-law, "Mother-in-law, I was embarrassed by what happened last night. I can't live here anymore and I'm moving back to my parents' house today. ”
The mother-in-law said in surprise: "Xiaoyan, don't be angry, we are just joking, is it necessary to be so atmospheric?"
I said coldly: "It's not just a matter of jokes, it's a matter of respect." I am your daughter-in-law, but I am also a dignified person. Since you don't respect me, then I have no choice but to leave. ”
My father-in-law and mother-in-law panicked and persuaded me to stay.
Seeing my in-laws begging me to stay, I was unusually calm in my heart. "My decision will not change. I will return the dowry house and savings to you, and it has nothing to do with you from now on. I said firmly.
My mother-in-law was so anxious that she stomped her feet, and my father-in-law's face turned red, and they all knew that my dowry was very rich. My mother-in-law took my hand and begged me: "Daughter-in-law, don't be angry, we will all listen to you in the future, look at your husband, everyone is about to cry." ”
I coldly withdrew my hand, "My decision will not change." Please respect me. ”
At this time, my husband also knelt down and looked at me with teary eyes: "Baby, it's all my fault, but please give me a chance to mend my ways, I promise you that I will only listen to you in the future and always stand on your side." ”
I looked at my husband and in-laws who were kneeling on the ground crying and begging me, but there was no sign of softening in my heart. I said coldly, "I gave you a chance, but you failed me again and again." I can't trust your promises anymore. Let's wrap it up. ”
With that, I turned and went upstairs and started packing. My mother-in-law saw that I was really leaving, so she hurriedly asked my husband to persuade me. My husband followed me upstairs and watched me pack up my clothes and cosmetics one by one, and he was very distressed: "Baby, are you so determined to leave me?"
Without looking up, I said, "I don't have anything more to say, you get out of the way, don't stop me from packing up." ”
My husband hugged me and choked up: "Give me a chance, I know it's wrong, I'll change it, please believe me again." ”
I coldly pushed him away: "Believe in you? If I believe in you men again, then I will really live my life in vain! From today onwards, I will live my own life and no longer be at the mercy of you and your parents!"
With that, I picked up the box and walked out. My husband knelt on the ground and hugged my legs, crying loudly to keep me. I shook my foot, shook off his hand, and left the home I thought would be happy without looking back.
When I returned to my parents' house, my mother and father felt sorry for me and had been wronged. "Girl, we will always support you in the future. Mom hugged me and said. I wept bitterly in my mother's arms, swearing that I would never trust any man easily again.
I returned all the house and savings to my husband's family and cut off contact with them. I heard that my husband wants to die, and he borrows alcohol every day to kill his sorrows, but I have no sympathy at all. I started working to support myself and live a free life.
After the divorce, I worked hard and my life got better and better. When my husband heard that I was doing well, he was even more remorseful and kept trying to contact me, hoping that I could forgive him. I directly blocked all his contact information, and I never wanted to see this negative man again.
After the divorce, I lived a very full life. No longer bound by my husband and his family, I found a job I loved, and I hung out with my friends a lot. Occasionally I would meet my husband on the street, and he would always look at me stupidly, his eyes full of pleading. I looked away coldly and walked away without looking back.
One day, I suddenly received a call from my husband. I was about to press it when I heard his choked voice: "Please, just give me five minutes, let me apologize to you, and then I promise not to disturb you again!"
I hesitated, but agreed to see him one last time at the coffee shop.
Seeing my haggard husband, I sat down with a cold face: "If you have anything to say, say it quickly, I'll leave in five minutes." ”
"Baby, I've had a really miserable few months, and I know I've broken your heart. My husband burst into tears, "I figured it out, I shouldn't stand on my parents' side, and I shouldn't let you suffer a little grievance." I'm so selfish that I only think about my parents and ignore your feelings. Please give me a chance to start over, and let me make it up to you with my life!"
I said coldly, "Do you think a few words will make me forgive you? I gave you a chance, but you didn't cherish it." It's too late to say that now. ”
"Baby, I really know that I was wrong, you see, I have made my parents through this time, they know that they have done wrong, and now they regret their attitude towards you every day. "My husband took out his phone and showed me his chat history with his parents.
I sneered, "Do you think I'm going to be tempted by this? I'm doing well now, and I don't need you guys." ”
My husband knelt down and hugged my legs, crying heartbreakingly: "Please give me one last chance!
I coldly pushed him away: "My time is up, goodbye." ”
With that, I left the coffee shop without looking back. I know that my heart is dead and will never cry for these men again. No matter how my husband pleaded, there was no fluctuation in my heart.
I began to devote myself to my work, and there was a colleague in the company who pursued me, Xiao Zhang. He was very good to me, and I gradually accepted his pursuits.
One day, Xiao Zhang suddenly knelt down and proposed to me, and I looked at his expectant eyes and finally nodded. Maybe I can really give love a new chance.
After being with Xiao Zhang, my life became happier and happier. Zhang was very considerate to me and often took me out on dates to fulfill all my little wishes.
One day, Xiao Zhang came up to me and said, "Baby, I have good news for you, guess what?"
I smiled and said, "What's the good news so mysterious? ”
"I asked the company, and they agreed to transfer me to your department, and we will be colleagues from now on!" Xiao Zhang said happily.
Surprised and moved, I happily hugged him. Working with Xiao Zhang, I feel that life is full of sunshine.
I hesitated, but agreed to see my in-laws one last time.
When I came to the ward, my in-laws looked quite weak. When they saw me, their eyes were full of remorse. The father-in-law said: "Daughter-in-law, we are old and confused, please forgive me for everything we did at the beginning." We just want you to live happily and stop holding grudges against us. ”
The mother-in-law also shed tears and said, "We owe you too much, so you should fulfill our last wish and forgive our unfilial in-laws." ”
Looking at their weak appearance, my heart suddenly softened. I was silent for a while, and finally said, "I forgive you." Let the past pass. ”
When the in-laws heard this, they burst into tears and kept saying "thank you". I patted their hands lightly and turned to leave.
When I got out of the ward, my husband chased me out and wanted to keep me. I waved him and left the hospital without looking back.
A few days later, my husband called and told me that my in-laws had passed away one after another. They left a will and wanted me to attend their funeral. I thought about it and decided to go anyway.
At the funeral, I stood in front of the tomb and put down the white flowers in my hands. The in-laws can finally rest in peace. My husband looked at me with grief in his eyes, and I knew he would always remember this painful lesson.
After cutting off contact with my husband, I started a new life. I married Xiao Zhang, and we lived a simple and happy life. I never contacted my husband again, I just wanted him to live well. The pain of the past has been diluted by time, and I enjoy the happy life I have now, and I have also learned to forgive and be grateful.
After marrying Xiao Zhang, I lived a peaceful and happy life. One day, an unexpected person suddenly appears.
"Baby, I'm back to see you. "Pushing open the door, standing in front of me is my ex-husband Xiao Ming.
I looked at him in surprise and said coldly, "How did you find here? ”
Xiao Ming smiled bitterly: "I've had a miserable life in the past few years, and I always miss you." I happened to hear from a friend that you had remarried, so I came to see if you were doing well. ”
"I'm living a good life right now, and I don't need you to care. I don't want to see you again, so please leave. I said firmly.
"Baby, please give me a chance to start over, you see that I have now rectified and will not repeat the mistakes of the past. As long as you are willing to change your mind, I will spend the rest of my life to compensate you. Xiao Ming knelt down and begged me.
At this time, Xiao Zhang came back, and when he saw Xiao Ming kneeling on the ground, his face immediately changed: "Who are you? Why are you harassing my wife?"
Xiao Ming stood up in disdain, and Xiao Zhang stood in front of me to protect me: "I warn you again, don't come to disturb us, leave me immediately!"
"Baby, please give me a chance, let's get back together!" Xiao Ming still wants to keep it.
I said coldly: "I am already married to Xiao Zhang, I am very happy, I don't need you, please leave immediately, and don't come to me again." ”
Xiao Ming saw that I was resolute and had no choice but to leave. Xiao Zhang said angrily: "This man is too shameless, I will send you to and from work in the future, and I can't let him harass you again!"
I touched Xiao Zhang's head: "It's okay, I'm sure he won't come again." In the future, let's live a good life and don't let the past affect the present. ”
Xiao Zhang held me in his arms: "Don't worry, with me, I will never let you suffer a little more grievances!"
I was moved to tears in Xiao Zhang's arms. With him, I really felt the dignity and happiness that a woman should have.
In this way, more than a year passed, and my relationship with Xiao Zhang got better and better. One day, Xiao Zhang ran over excitedly and said that he was going to take me to a place.
I followed Xiao Zhang to a beautiful garden, and suddenly, he knelt down and took out the ring: "Baby, over the past year, you have given me unprecedented happiness and made me understand what love is. I really love you very much, would you like to marry me again?"