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Preface
"Although I have no hands or feet, I still have the self-motivation of a normal person and hope to support this family by my own efforts. ”
Yuan Lidong, a man born without limbs, is like a meat ball, but he still lives tenaciously with his mouth and a pair of chopsticks, not only marrying a wife and having children, but also becoming the pillar of the family.
Therefore, people who learned all this admired Yuan Lidong, called him "Brother Chopsticks" and "King of Strong Mouth", and watched him fight against this unfair fate with an optimistic attitude.
Now that many years have passed, what kind of life does the chopsticks brother who was popular all over the Internet live?
1. Born with a disability and almost gave up
In 1986, Yuan Lidong was born in a small village in Liaoning Province, perhaps because his parents did not attach much importance to prenatal checkups, and when he was born, the family knew that this was a child without hands and feet.
At that moment, Yuan's mother felt that the sky was falling, and after taking Yuan Lidong to the hospital, she learned that her son was suffering from a rare disease - congenital seal limb disease, and his hands and feet were missing and could not be cured.
The child is still so young, how should he live in the future, Yuan Lidong's parents collapsed and made a ruthless decision - to give up the child.
They threw Yuan Lidong on the northeast kang to fend for himself, and for three consecutive days, Yuan Lidong's cries resounded throughout the house.
In the end, Yuan's mother relented, and took her son over to breastfeed, thinking that no matter how hard it was, she would raise the child.
In this way, under the careful care of his parents, Yuan Lidong gradually went to primary school, although he was born with a disability, but he had an optimistic heart, not only facing the eyes of others, but also Xi learning the skills of self-care in life.
He can pick up the clothes with his mouth, twist his body to put them on, he can use his mouth to thread a needle for his mother and stand there, and his mouth will pass with the thread in his mouth.
What's even more surprising is that he can pick up vegetables for his family with chopsticks in his mouth, and type on the mobile phone "handwriting input method" with a pen, and the speed is very fast.
Later, in order to make it easier for Yuan Lidong to walk, the family made him a simple electric wheelchair, relying on the strength of the small ball of meat in his right limb, he was barely able to move alone.
It's just that the good times didn't last long, and the burden of life still overwhelmed the family, and 14-year-old Yuan Lidong could only drop out of school and go out with his father to beg for art.
The father and son wandered all the way, were warmed by well-wishers, and also suffered from the eyes of others, until 2008, 22-year-old Yuan Lidong and his father went to Datong, Shanxi.
Here, Yuan Lidong met love.
2. Impress the girl's heart with handsomeness and warmth
On the noisy street, the girl Chai Panxia and her friends noticed at a glance that Yuan Lidong was singing.
At that time, Chai Panxia did not notice his crippled body like the people around her, but felt that Yuan Lidong was handsome and strong.
Subsequently, Chai Panxia gave Yuan Lidong some money, but Yuan Lidong didn't care too much, but Chai Panxia came again the next day and took the initiative to talk to him:
"I have time, let's go find you where you live. ”
Yuan Lidong agreed straightforwardly, and after coming and going, the two gradually became acquainted, and they made an appointment to go to the show together, but during the performance, Yuan Lidong accidentally learned Chai Panxia's intentions.
Chai Panxia's friend seemed to be assisted by God, and said to Yuan Lidong that Chai Panxia always wrote "Yuan Lidong" on the stone bricks at the door over and over again.
Yuan Lidong verified his conjecture at this time, he had never thought that a girl would like him before, so he asked Chai Panxia with some excitement if he had a good impression of himself.
Chai Panxia's mind was punctured, and she no longer hid it, but boldly admitted it and began to bravely chase Yuan Lidong.
Later, after the two were together for a period of time, Chai Panxia confessed to her parents, and unsurprisingly, this relationship was met with unprecedented opposition.
Her parents strongly asked her to find another one, but Chai Panxia refused, she insisted that Yuan Lidong was good to herself, and she also liked his cheerfulness and warmth, and if she liked it, she liked it, and liking it was a lifelong thing.
In this regard, Chai Panxia left home, got married to Yuan Lidong, and formed a small family.
The little couple was sweet and sweet, and after a while, Chai Panxia became pregnant, and Yuan Lidong's worst worry finally came.
He came to the hospital and secretly asked the doctor if the child would inherit this disease, and the doctor asked Yuan Lidong if anyone else in the family had this disease, Yuan Lidong shook his head and denied.
Since seal limb disease is not a hereditary disease, Yuan Lidong eventually kept the child.
On the day the child was born, Yuan Lidong, who received the call, suddenly fell off the high platform and fell into the mud.
When the family brought the child back from the hospital, he nervously lifted the quilt, and when he saw the child's sound limbs, accompanied by loud crying, his heart melted when he became a father for the first time.
The couple watched the child grow up day by day, and lived happily for another two years, before Chai Panxia dared to bring the child back to her parents' home.
The second elder of the Chai family, seeing that the children were so old, was powerless to object, and slowly agreed.
For Yuan Lidong, with a wife and children, and a home, he wants to make money even more.
3. Raising a family, he is a man who stands up to the sky
In 2015, Yuan Lidong devoted himself to the live broadcast of online games, hoping to increase his family's income and let his wife and children live a good life.
But it's hard for anyone to imagine how a person without hands and feet can play the game?
In fact, at the beginning, Yuan Lidong struggled to practice Xi games, after all, he was able to take care of himself, which was the result of more than Xi years of practice.
But when he thought of his family, his heart became firm, and he practiced Xi with chopsticks day and night.
Hard work pays off, and after hard training, Yuan Lidong has been able to poke the mouse and keyboard with chopsticks and play games fluently.
Soon, the scene of him lying on the bed and playing a game with chopsticks in his mouth attracted a lot of people, and more and more people entered the live broadcast room.
But just like singing and performing at the beginning, some people pity him, and some people scold him, and the straight Yuan Lidong also says what he has to say, bluntly saying that he earns money by hard work and is not inferior.
As time goes by, Yuan Lidong's operation in the game has become more and more powerful, and netizens have seen Yuan Lidong's three chopsticks fight the world, and he can do anything with one mouth, so they call him "Brother Chopsticks" and "King of Strong Mouth".
However, not long after the days of living by live game broadcasting, Yuan Lidong, who had been lying on the bed for a long time, had a physical problem, and the doctor said that the lying position squeezed his internal organs, and he had to stop doing so.
In desperation, Yuan Lidong can only transform, becoming an ordinary anchor who chats with everyone, sings to everyone, and shares his life, occasionally sells goods, and lives in the countryside is okay.
In 2019, Yuan Lidong took his wife to the CCTV program "Departure to Happiness", in which he entrusted the host to pick up the flowers, sing the song by himself, and made an affectionate confession to his wife:
"My wife and we realize that now, I didn't send you flowers, so many years you have worked hard to accompany me, take care of this family, when our mother was paralyzed in bed for six months, you have always been carefully serving our mother, better than the children to do, thank you for not easy!"
After many years of marriage, the two are still as sweet as ever, and I believe that the future will definitely get better and better.
epilogue
After hearing Yuan Lidong's story, many people will sigh at his strength and sigh that he is lucky, at least he has a sound body.
Yes, Yuan Lidong, who has no hands and feet, can support his wife and children, and we will definitely be able to meet all kinds of challenges in life and bravely move towards the future.
The source of this article is from the CCTV program "Departure to Happiness" on June 25, 2019.