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In 2020, in the short video platform where flowers are blooming, a young woman who "walks" with her hands has attracted the attention of many netizens because of her unusual walking behavior.
Through the information of the short video of the woman's life, netizens learned that her name is Dong Mingying, and although she is physically disabled, she is already a mother of two children.
Perhaps because of this woman's indomitable willpower, or perhaps full of interest in the woman's optimistic attitude towards life, more and more netizens like this disabled woman and affectionately call her "crawling mother".
But who knew that Dong Mingying was also a healthy and lively little girl when she was born? It was only because of the "confusion" of her parents that Dong Mingying could only "walk" with her hands for the rest of her life. (Case source: Rule of Law Ping An Xichuan)
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Childhood illness and parental ignorance became a tragedy
Time went back to more than 30 years ago, and with a loud cry, the Dong family in a small village in Rizhao, Shandong Province, added a new ding.
Seeing the healthy and lovely daughter Dong's father and mother's heart, after some discussion, they decided to call this daughter Dong Mingying, hoping that their daughter's future life would be bright.
Under the careful care of her parents, Dong Mingying grew up healthy and healthy to 1 year old, and at the age of 1, she has learned to stand, and when she is happy, she can even take a few steps with her calves under the care of adults.
However, there were unforeseen circumstances, and she suffered from an illness when she was young, and Dong Mingying was unable to walk upright since then.
Late one night in 1986, Xiao Mingying, who was only 1 year old, had a high fever, and Xiao Mingying, who couldn't clearly express his meaning because of his physical discomfort, could only use his crying to attract the attention of his parents.
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Dong's father and Dong's mother, who noticed that something was wrong, immediately checked Xiao Mingying's situation and found that the child had a high fever and immediately took him to the village clinic for treatment.
After the village doctor in the clinic did an examination, in order to alleviate the child's symptoms, he injected a fever reducer, and Xiao Mingying, who had been treated with medication, felt that after the discomfort in her body subsided, she was already exhausted and immediately sank into a sweet dream.
Seeing that the child's symptoms were alleviated, Dong's father and Dong's mother's high heart also relaxed, thinking that the child had no major problems but an ordinary fever and fever, so they took the child back home.
However, on the second day after the injection, Dong Mingying's body had a "cartilage" phenomenon, not only could she not stand up and walk as usual, but she couldn't even sit up and stand upright.
The first person to find out that the child had physical problems was Dong's mother, but she didn't take it to heart at that time, thinking that this was the "sequelae" after the fever, and she would get better after a few days.
However, after a long period of observation, Dong's mother panicked, the reason was that the "cartilage" phenomenon on Dong Mingying's body not only did not get better, but became more serious.
But because the best treatment time was missed, the injury caused by the high fever has caused irreversible damage to the nerves in the waist and brain, and it has become impossible to want Xiao Mingying to stand up again.
After hearing the doctor's irreparable verdict, Dong's father and mother felt extremely remorseful, and kept scolding themselves in their hearts for why they didn't bring their children to treatment earlier, because their ignorance caused the final tragedy.
Marrying an "old man" at a young age and having children after marriage becomes a miracle
Perhaps because of Dong Mingying's deep guilt, Dong's father and Dong's mother put most of their energy on Dong Mingying.
Usually he is reluctant to let his children do even a little heavy work, and soon under the care of his parents, Dong Mingying grew up to school age.
In order to allow Dong Mingying to sit in class like other children, Dong's mother decided to take Dong Mingying to class every day, which was several years. Although Dong Mingying still missed the university in the end, these experiences have made her unwilling to admit defeat.
In ordinary life, as long as the distance is not far and outrageous, Dong Mingying will support the ground with both hands and move towards the destination little by little.
The strange behavior of wearing shoes on his feet and moving forward step by step with shoes on his hands will attract the attention of others every time, but in the face of other people's undisguised gazes, Dong Mingying doesn't care, and when facing other people's inquiries, he will generously tell his experience.
But soon another problem was placed in front of Dong Mingying, that is, repeated unsuccessful blind dates.
As a woman with a physical disability, Dong Mingzhu knows that it is difficult for her to find a partner who is willing to spend the rest of her life with her.
But I am already an adult, and many friends of the same age have also stepped into the palace of marriage, and I am afraid that I will not have a chance to marry in this life if I delay it any longer.
Dong's father and Dong's mother, who understood what their daughter was thinking, found the matchmaker in the village, hoping to show the child a good family. So far, Dong Mingying, who is only 22 years old, has started her own "blind date journey"!
As Dong Mingying was worried, many young people who came to see each other politely rejected Dong Mingying, and the reasons given were basically the same, the person was very beautiful, but the physical defects were too serious.
After many failed blind dates, Dong Mingzhu was ready to be single for a lifetime, but the visit of an old man in his forties made her regain hope.
The old man who visited was an old bachelor named Feng Zhiyu, who wanted to ask for Dong Mingying after hearing about Dong Mingying, perhaps because he felt that Feng Zhiyu's age was too different from his daughter, and Feng Zhiyu's family was poor and could not provide a good life for his daughter, so Dong's father and mother did not intend to agree to this marriage.
But Dong Mingying was willing, especially after a period of understanding, and felt that the other party was an honest person who could live, so he persuaded his parents to marry Feng Zhiyu as he wished with the blessing of his relatives.
After marrying Feng Zhiyu, the life of the two after marriage was indeed sweet and warm, and soon after Dong Mingying became pregnant with a child, Dong Mingying was pleasantly surprised when she heard the news for the first time.
But the doctor advised not to have this child, and everyone could see that her physical condition was very limited, and it was too dangerous if there was an accident.
But this is Dong Mingying's long-awaited child, how much she hopes to experience the satisfaction of being a mother, so even if her husband is against it, her family is against Dong Mingying, she still chooses to keep the fetus in her womb.
Perhaps God was moved by this strong woman, and a few months later, Dong Mingying successfully gave birth to her first child, a healthy and lively daughter.
Then she gave birth to her second daughter two years later, although the process was full of ups and downs and difficulties, Dong Mingying was extremely satisfied, especially when she saw her two healthy and lively daughters running around in front of her, she felt that everything was worth it.
epilogue
Nowadays, Dong Mingying not only has a happy family, but also has a good development in her short video career, and she can be regarded as a winner in life.
Through his own efforts, Dong Mingying got everything he wanted, this may be what ordinary people say that God will open a window when it closes a door!
No matter what kind of life you have, you have to manage it with your heart, don't feel sorry for yourself, and be content and happy to live every day happily.
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