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Happy Year of the Dog, at the end of the year, no one expected that the entertainment industry would be shrouded in a haze. Behind this prosperity, there is a tragic life of 46-year-old actress Li Shuxian. Hearing that she was suspected of committing suicide at home, I couldn't help but feel sad, all this was so unbelievable.
Clouds of Depression and Broken Families:
Lai Shuxian was one of the filming crew of "Crazy Boy", and her light on the screen seems to never go out. However, her life is dark and dark with years of depression, and for 20 years, she has fought hard in this silent battle. The doors of the hospital have been open for her all year round, and treatment has become an indispensable part of her life.
The condition is good and bad, which seems to be the norm in her life. Who would have thought that it was the festive season and her family would be unaware of it and spend quality time with her. Li Shuxian's husband, at the last moment of her life, actually learned about the parting of "goodbye in the next life" in a text message. The family celebrates together, but no one can predict that she will go forever at the moment of parting.
The thorns and waves of marriage:
Lai's personal life is like a drama, and the two marriages are intertwined with embarrassing scenes. The first marriage with the well-known actor Lu Huiguang only lasted for 8 years before the marriage was dissolved in 2006. The two have two sons and still maintain a parent-child relationship after the divorce.
And in her second marriage, she married the doctor Xu Zhizheng. After marriage, he welcomed his third son and his fourth son, and he seemed to be full of happiness. However, Lai's second marriage was not a happy one. In 2012, at the same time as the birth of her fourth son, it was rumored that her husband was caught up in a scandal of intimacy with a woman. The sunshine of marriage was instantly shrouded in shadows, and she chose to use the decoration as an excuse to hide this rumor.
However, as time went on, Lai repeatedly witnessed her husband being intimate with other women, and was even photographed meeting with female staff at night. The media broke the news that her husband had cheated on her many times, but Xu Zhizheng denied his wife's doubts one by one. Marriage seems to have become a heavy shackle on her heart, but she left words on social platforms hoping to understand the "truth behind the lie". Such details make people suspicious, as if it is an endless torture of the family.
Silence on social platforms and broken relationships:
Li Shuxian's social account used to be a witness to the love of husband and wife. frequently posts happy moments, as if it is a sweet portrayal of marriage. However, since last year, her account has become silent, and there is no longer a photo of the two together, and there is no mention of her husband again. On the day of her death, the two were already separated. Perhaps, the relationship has long been broken, but it is silent.
Hopeless Depression and the Last Choice:
Overall, Lai seems to have chosen to end her life under the double pressure of an unhappy marriage and long-term depression. Her death is deplorable and raises concerns about people with depression. This is not the first celebrity to die of depression, Coco Li's tragedy is still in my ears. The experiences of the two actresses are so similar, they are both in the gap between depression and marriage, and they can't find an exit.
The call of care and love of society:
Depression is not a simple sentimentality, but a silent battle. Society should give more care and understanding to people with depression. We cannot choose to remain silent when they need help the most. Lai's death may arouse more attention to depression, and hope that society can give more love and warmth to these suffering souls, so as to reduce the occurrence of similar things.