When Lai Shuxian talks about the reasons for her divorce from Lo, many people will have some self-blame in their hearts, thinking that they were not mature enough and looked naïve when they were young.
They can't understand that Lu Huiguang has been following Jackie Chan for a long time in order to maintain his job, or he is on call and carefully keeps his job.
In Lai's view, Lo often doesn't come home until three or four in the morning, can't spend time with his wife and children during the day, and has a limited income, which eventually leads to her being disgruntled, believing that she has the ability to find a better partner before leaving.
Although Lu Huiguang didn't earn much money, he used it to support his family, but he couldn't give his wife enough company.
Lu Huiguang later left Jackie Chan and began to film with Sammo Hung, but his income increased a lot all of a sudden, and his life returned to normal.
It's a pity that Li Shuxian had remarried at that time. However, her second marriage was not happy, and although it was not financially lacking, it lacked trust and loyalty.
Compared to her first marriage, she did not have a very happy life, and only felt that her husband did not value the family. Because of her husband's betrayal, she had a deep denial of herself, was depressed for a long time, and finally chose to leave.
Let's take a closer look at the reasons for Li Shuxian's first divorce, maybe the previous opinion was a bit hasty.
Lai complained angrily that Lo was unable to take care of his family, worked irregular hours, and often returned home at three or four in the morning.
At the age of 19, Li Shuxian stepped into the entertainment industry, but at the age of 22, she was pregnant but not married, so she entered the door of marriage earlier than ordinary people, and she may still seem a little immature.
Because she saw Lu Huiguang accompany Jackie Chan to go out for a long time or not return home until three or four o'clock in the morning, she felt unacceptable about this. In Lai's view, the man may not care enough about his family to go home.
From Lu Huiguang's point of view, if he goes home, he will be fired by Jackie Chan, and it will be difficult to develop in the entertainment industry.
Jackie Chan once created his own family team and liked to play the role of the eldest brother, hoping that his brothers would be able to accompany him, so even if they had time, the brothers could not go home to spend time with their wives and children, but had to follow Jackie Chan around.
Jackie Chan is not a reliable husband and father, when Fang Zuming was in junior high school, one day Jackie Chan actually went to elementary school to pick up his son from school.
In Lin Fengjiao's marriage, the man does not care about the family. Lu Huiguang had to ignore his family for the sake of his career, and Jackie Chan's disregard for his family was due to a lack of sense of responsibility.
Lai Shuxian is difficult to tell, so she thinks her husband is not good. It can be seen that it is not only Li Shuxian's husband Lu Huiguang who does not care about his family.
Secondly, Lai Shuk-yin thinks that Lo Wai-kwong is unhelpful in taking care of the children, as if he is a widowed parent.
Li Shuxian is actually a person who is keen on love, otherwise she would not have chosen to quit the entertainment industry and choose to get married at a young age.
Therefore, in marriage, she pays a lot of attention to the time she spends with her partner. Unfortunately, Lo's irregular working hours and the need to go out at all times made Lai feel that her husband could not help take care of the children, so she had to bear the burden of childcare alone like a widow, which made her suffer.
In fact, if you look closely at Lu Huiguang, you will find that he is not so bad. He cares about his son very much and works hard to earn money to support his family and provide for the house together.
Perhaps Lai Shuxian ignored her ex-husband's qualities such as loyalty, single-mindedness and sense of responsibility, and only saw his lack of companionship.
Li Shuxian felt that she was worthy of better, and was unwilling to guard Lu Huiguang, who had no money and couldn't take care of his family.
According to rumors, Li Shuxian's evaluation of herself is actually quite high, her appearance is outstanding, she is highly sought after in the entertainment industry, and she has won the runner-up in the beauty pageant and enjoys a certain status in the entertainment industry.
However, after finally choosing to marry Lu Huiguang, she was unable to get the company of men and support in the process of raising children, and Lu Huiguang was not wealthy, which made her feel very disappointed.
As a result, Lai has divorced and found a wealthy surgeon, Hui Zhizheng.
The man sometimes accompanies her and the children, is willing to fund their upbringing, and allows Lai to visit Ms. Lo's two sons.
However, his only drawback is that he is not single-minded enough, and he is often exposed to various scandals by the Hong Kong media.
Li Shuxian has extremely high requirements for affection, and can hardly tolerate Xu Zhizheng's flowery heart. However, due to poverty and the need to raise four children, she simply did not have the courage to divorce.
Although her husband was not by her side, Lai's first marriage was only temporary, and his income was limited and only for a short time.
It is a pity that Lai Shuk-yin had mistakenly thought that Lo Wai-kwong would never take care of his family, thinking that the financial constraints would be permanent. So she couldn't bear it anymore and chose to leave.
However, she later found out that finding a rich man who was ostensibly good to her did not mean that the man would not love other people, and that he might be in a relationship with multiple women at the same time, which made her afraid to divorce and made it even more painful.
In marriage, women should indeed control their expectations and not be overly demanding.