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My name is Li Mei, I am 40 years old this year, I have been married for many years, my husband's name is Wang Qiang, and my son Li Lei is 10 years old this year. Our family of three lives in Beijing, and I am currently a full-time housewife, and my husband works as a sales manager in a foreign company, and we live a well-off life.
On the surface, we are a typical middle-class family with a happy life. But in fact, since the birth of my son, I quit the workforce and devoted myself to my family and became a stay-at-home mom. My husband is busy with work and travels a lot, and I take care of the children and household chores. Over time, I felt that I had lost my passion in life, and I had a sense of passivity that I was being raised by my husband at home.
It was at this time that I met Zhang Wei. It was a weekend afternoon, and I took my son Li Lei to the mall to shop. As soon as he entered the mall, Li Lei went to the game console area to play. I wandered alone and walked into a coffee shop.
"A latte, please. I said to the waiter.
At this moment, a handsome young man came up to me and said, "Is this beautiful woman alone? May I treat you to coffee?"
When I looked up, it was a young man in his early twenties, very handsome and in good spirits.
"Hello, my name is Zhang Wei, I am 25 years old this year, and I am a regular visitor here. My friends say I'm a warm person, so I can't help but want to have a coffee and talk to you when I see a beautiful woman. The young man said with a smile.
"Hello, my name is Li Mei. I was a little surprised by his enthusiasm, and my face was slightly hot.
"Li Mei, you don't look as young as me, you should be older than me. But I dare say your heart is still very young. A beautiful mature woman who always has a fatal attraction. Zhang Wei said teasingly.
I blushed: "Thank you for the compliment, I'm 40 years old." But I'm married and have a 10-year-old son. ”
"Wow, are you 40 years old? I can't tell! You are so well maintained, with fair skin and delicate facial features, like a 25-year-old girl. Zhang Wei exaggeratedly praised.
I was a little smug when I heard this, and said with a smile, "Then you are exaggerating." ”
"I'm telling the truth. Zhang Wei looked me firmly in the eye and said, "Beauty, can I invite you to have lunch with me?"
I hesitated, but agreed. Maybe it's been too long since I received attention and praise from the opposite sex, so I'm just following one
That day, Zhang Wei and I had lunch together and talked a lot. Zhang Wei is very good at talking, and he often makes me laugh during the chat. He said he is a freelancer and enjoys working out, playing ball, and traveling. His life was colorful and fresh to me as a housewife.
"Li Mei, you look so good when you smile. I like mature and elegant women whose charm is unmatched by young girls. Zhang Wei stared at me while eating.
"Come on, how attractive is a housewife like me. I was a little embarrassed.
"You're too modest. Trust me, you're definitely the prettiest woman in this mall!"
"Haha, Zhang Wei, you really know how to talk. ”
"I'm serious. Li Mei, why don't we make friends? I want to know more about you. ”
I hesitated and gave him my contact information. The fact that a young and handsome boy was so interested in me did make me a little excited and satisfied.
After that, Zhang Wei often asked me out to go shopping, watch movies, and eat. The life of a young person is really comfortable and chic, and it is very different from my family life. Zhang Wei would also give me small gifts, such as bracelets, perfumes, etc. I knew I shouldn't be too close to a guy who was 15 years younger than me, but I couldn't help but be impressed by his pursuit.
One day, Zhang Wei asked me to go to a newly opened bar. The bar was dimly lit and music was loud.
"Li Mei, you are so sexy today. Come, cheer with me!" Zhang Wei smiled and picked up the red wine glass and clinked glasses with me.
I wasn't Xi to the atmosphere, but I clinked glasses with him and took a sip.
"Li Mei, you know what, I like mature women. They're charismatic. Zhang Wei leaned close to me and wrapped his arm around my shoulder.
I blushed: "Don't be like this, Zhang Wei, I'm already married." ”
"What's the matter, I like you, and you like my company. Here, have another drink. Zhang Wei handed the wine glass to my lips.
I took a small sip in a bit of confusion. Zhang Wei's hand slowly wrapped around my waist, and I felt a little ambiguous, but I didn't push it away
That night, in the bar, Zhang Wei put his arm around my waist, and we got closer and closer.
"Li Mei, you are so beautiful, I like you. Zhang Wei said close to my ear.
I blushed and was a little at a loss: "Zhang Wei, don't do this, I'm already married." ”
"Can your husband give you how you feel right now? With me, you feel happy and relaxed. Zhang Wei continued.
I was a little shaken, and indeed, with this little boy, I felt young and free. But this is not true after all
Just when I hesitated, Zhang Wei kissed him. I was momentarily surprised, but soon immersed in the kiss. I can't remember the last time I was so close to my husband
"Li Mei, I want to take you to a quiet and comfortable place, just the two of us, and we can get along more intimately. Zhang Wei's hand was already around my waist.
My intellect is fighting against lust. Eventually, I nodded. Zhang Wei happily put his arm around me and called a taxi.
The taxi drove to a high-end hotel, and Zhang Wei took me straight to the room. The room was beautiful, Zhang Wei kissed me, and we collapsed on the soft big bed
"Li Mei, did you sleep well, was it exciting last night?" Zhang Wei smiled and hugged me.
"Shhhh We're having a lot of fun together, what's wrong?"
"But I'm married, I shouldn't cheat. ”
"Can your husband give you how you feel right now? Relax and enjoy life. ”
I was conflicted, but I was still affected by Zhang Wei's words. Eventually, I chose to stay in a relationship with him.
After that, I would secretly date Zhang Wei while my husband was at work. Zhang Wei often gave me gifts, but he didn't have a very stable income himself. I knew it shouldn't be, but I still gave him some living expenses from time to time.
One day, my husband suddenly saw my bank statement and noticed that I was frequently transferring money to a strange man.
"Meimei, you transferred so much money to this Zhang Wei, who is he?" My husband asked me seriously.
I panicked, and I didn't know how to answer.
"Meimei, you tell me the truth, what's going on?" The husband's tone hardened.
I finally mustered up the courage to tell the truth. After hearing this, the husband was silent for a long time, and then punched the wall: "Meimei, I'm too good to you."
That day, after I confessed to my husband that I was cheating, he was silent for a long time and seemed very emotional.
"Meimei, I'm really disappointed, we've been married for many years, how can you go behind my back and be with other men?" The husband asked.
I was also very excited and retorted, "I have given so much over the years, you have put all your time and energy into work, where is the time to care about my feelings? I am also a woman who needs to be loved!"
"I'm working so hard for this family! How can you have an affair?" The husband raised his voice.
"I'm looking for an affair because I'm not satisfied with my family life! During this time with Zhang Wei, I feel young and alive again!" I also raised my voice and said.
"Zhang Wei only approached you because he liked your money! You old woman was really deceived by him!"
"You're not qualified to say that about me!
When her husband heard this, he couldn't hold back anymore and punched the wall: "Meimei, I really misjudged you, it turns out that you are this kind of woman!"
With that, my husband ran out of the door and left me alone at home. I sat on the floor and wept bitterly, regretting my mistake and feeling that my husband did not understand me too much.
It was at this time that I received a call from Zhang Wei, who said that we could no longer see each other.
"Zhang Wei, what's wrong, don't you want me?" I asked anxiously.
"I'm sorry, Meimei, in fact, I didn't plan to develop with you for a long time in the first place. I've found a new target, so let's stop there. Zhang Wei's tone was cold.
I heard this and completely collapsed, crying and begging Zhang Wei not to leave me, but he hung up the phone anyway.
I desperately called my best friend Xiaofang to confide in her, and Xiaofang immediately rushed over.
"Meimei, what's going on? Xiaofang looked at me worriedly.
I told her all the ins and outs of what had happened, and she was amazed.
Xiaofang persuaded me: "Meimei, you are also responsible, you shouldn't cheat secretly behind your family's back." You still have time to redeem it, don't contact that little boy again,
That day, I confided in my best friend Xiaofang about me and Zhang Wei, and my husband had a big fight with me after he found out the truth. Xiao Fang was surprised when she heard this, and she persuaded me:
"Meimei, you shouldn't cheat secretly behind your family's back, it's not fair to your husband and children. You still have time to redeem it, don't contact that little boy again, and put your mind on home. ”
When I heard this, I felt that I had done something wrong, so I said, "You're right, I'm going to see each other secretly behind my family's back, I'm so selfish." However, over the years, I have given so much, and my husband has focused his time and energy on work and rarely cared about me. I also want to be cared for and valued. ”
"I understand your feelings, but cheating is never a good solution to the problem. You and your husband should communicate well and understand each other. Xiao Fang continued to persuade me.
"But now he's so disappointed and angry with me, I don't know how to communicate with him. He stormed out of the door yesterday and has not yet returned home. I said helplessly.
"Give him some time to calm down. When he returns, you patiently confide in him your thoughts and listen to his feelings. I believe that your relationship will be slowly repaired. You have to be brave in the face of your mistakes, but you also have to love yourself. Xiao Fang hugged me.
I was deeply touched by her words, and tears couldn't help but burst out of my eyes: "Xiaofang, thank you, I know what I did wrong, I will muster up the courage to communicate well with my husband, and the children, I can't continue to be selfish like this." ”
"Yes, you have to make amends for your family. Let it go, a new life is still waiting for you!"
"Hmm!" I regained a glimmer of hope.
The husband was silent, and then let out a long sigh: "I am also responsible, I am too busy at work and ignore your feelings." We've all done it wrong, give each other a chance to start over. ”
I burst into tears and nodded, thanking my husband for his leniency. From that day on, I made up my mind to devote myself to the happiness of my family and no longer be deceived by those vain passions. I believe that life will be better.
That night, my husband finally returned home and I begged him to give me a chance to start over. The husband was silent for a while, then sighed and said, "I'm also responsible, I'm too busy with work to be considerate of your feelings." We've all done it wrong, so let's start over. ”
I burst into tears and nodded, filled with gratitude. I knew I had betrayed this family, and I had to make amends with all my heart.
"Mom, how did you make so many delicious things today!" The son happily sat down for breakfast.
"yes, I want to give you a big breakfast. I said with a smile.
"Dad, it's been a long time since we've had breakfast together!" The son said.
"Yes, Dad will spend more time with you in the future. The husband rubbed his son's hair.
When I saw the intimate scene of their father and son, my heart was full of warmth. That's what I want to call home.
In the days that followed, I began to devote myself to my family. I wake up early to prepare a good meal and spend more time with my son. I started learning Xi make new dishes and taking notes on the tastes of my son and husband. I would give my husband a relaxing massage when he came home from work. We also started going out on regular outings, going to the movies, traveling. The days are getting more and more peaceful and warm.
One night, my husband said to me, "Meimei, I can feel your care at home, and our lives have become happier." I will also promise not to work so many shifts in the future and spend more time with you and my son. ”
"I have also found that the warmth of family is more precious than anything else. Let's watch our son grow up healthy and happy. I said with a smile.
"Hmm!" My husband nodded and took me into his arms.
I know that I have finally found meaning in life. I will no longer be swayed by the vanity of the outside world, and my family is the most important sustenance in my life.
I also no longer contact Zhang Wei. Occasionally I think of our fleeting passion, but I know it's just a moment of confusion and loneliness. Now I have true happiness.
I will use my own experience to teach my son not to be easily tempted and to cherish the people you love. Also, when you encounter difficulties in life, don't choose to run away or cheat, but face it bravely, communicate with important people, and repair relationships. Every family will have its ups and downs, and it is important to understand each other, be tolerant, and work together.
I believe that as long as we uphold love and tolerance, life will become better and better.