Some people say that the house in the hometown must be built, and it is an atomic bomb that can be used but cannot be without. I just believed this sentence, so I had to spend 500,000 yuan to go back to my hometown to build a two-story building, but now I regret it.
My wife and I have been working in the city for a long time, and we are both uneducated, but at first she worked in a garment factory and I helped people kill fish in the vegetable market. Although it costs money to rent a house outside, it is better than farming in the countryside.
Later, two children were born one after another, and we couldn't continue to work, so we opened a grocery store.
In the days when we were out to make a living, our family rarely went back for the New Year, because of poverty, and the cost of a trip back to the road was a lot of money. The second is that many of my relatives look down on us, and they don't have a good face when they go back to our relatives, so I think it's boring to think about it, so it's better to go around the city.
It is said that the tree is thousands of feet tall and the leaves return to the roots, but when you are old, you miss your hometown very much, and sometimes you can't help but cry when you recall the past. I told my family my thoughts, but my son was quite supportive, saying that the family conditions were fine, and I would go back and spend some money to build a house, which was equivalent to the rear of my family, and I could go back on vacation at any time.
The grandson was even more happy to jump three feet high, he liked the chickens, ducks and geese in the countryside, and longed for the fish and shrimp in the ditch.
It's just that the wife and daughter-in-law don't support going back to their hometown to build a house, and they must feel sorry for the money, hundreds of thousands, which is not a small amount. Second, I haven't been back to my hometown for many years, how can there be so much family affection. Third, people are old, there are many problems, it is convenient to seek medical treatment in the city, and where can it be compared in the countryside. Fourth, there are many people in rural areas, and interpersonal relationships are more complicated than in cities.
But my mind was full of my hometown, house, relatives, where I could take care of so much, and finally spent 500,000 yuan to go back to my hometown to build a new house.
After the new house was built, at first, we felt very comfortable, enjoying the long-lost rural atmosphere, the pace of life was slow, quiet and comfortable, and we could bask in the sun and go outside at any time.
But after a long time, I found that it was not the case at all, the air in my hometown was good, but there were many neighbors in the village, and every day the east and west families talked endlessly, and the home was not quiet, some people in order to rub the air conditioner and rub the Internet, sit down and not leave, so that I want to sleep and take a nap.
There are also people who spread my negative comments behind my back, saying that I want to move to the countryside because I live so well in the city, and there must be some ulterior secrets.
Another one has a headache and brain fever, which is particularly inconvenient, unlike taking a taxi in the city.
Some people say that building houses in rural areas is to be used as a root, and they may not be used, but they must be there. There is a house in the city and a home in the countryside. There is no contradiction, go back to the countryside in the summer and live in the city in the winter.
If you don't build it, even if you go home for an hour, you have to go to your neighbor's house to rest, and over time, you don't want to go back, and the roots are broken like this.
What is a root? Where there is a home, it is the root, and where there is no home, it is just a guest. If you are qualified to build a house in the village, you will have roots, and if you have the money to buy a house in the city, it will also be considered a root, but the former is the root of a big tree, and the latter is the root of duckweed, and the years of ownership are different.
Some people think that it is better to go back to the countryside less, the fallen leaves are just to lie to themselves, where the loess is not buried, the overall function of the city is strong, living in the city is suitable for the elderly pension life, living in the countryside, the ideal is very plump, the reality is very skinny, there are many difficulties, the modern city is the place for the elderly!
What do you think about this?