In 2024, more and more elderly people will become popular with such ideas, whether it is a good thing or a bad thing, and it is likely to become more and more popular in the future. If you are old and unfortunate in the future, when your wife leaves and you are alone, you will live your old age according to the following ideas
This person, no matter how high your status is, how much wealth you have, 50 know the destiny of heaven, 70 ancient rare, people live to 50 years old and begin to see through everything, know that the destiny is difficult to violate, live to 70 years old This age is relatively rare, there will always be someone in the husband and wife who will go to each other first, and in the end they are always alone, now many old people have already seen through all this, and made arrangements for their later life, and began to gradually become popular The following ideas, especially the last one, really subverted my cognition, let me re-acquaint myself with the old people now, is it very curious what the old people thinkPlease like and recommend it so that more people can understand
First of all, people are old and sick, small illnesses and small pains are solved by themselves, terminal illnesses and serious illnesses are resolutely not treated, so as not to drag down others, children have their own days to live, good conditions can be filial piety, good life is not filial piety, then another said, the elderly do not want to burden the children pressure, so a little little pain to carry their own, can be treated, serious diseases and terminal illnesses are not cured is not necessary, live an extra day is earned, do not want to spend money bottomless pit drag down children, before the dignified walk is good, everyone has to experience this time, everything is down
The second point is that in his later years, he would rather visit the great rivers and mountains of the motherland with three or five friends than make trouble with his wife. As the saying goes, young couples are old companions, and when people are old, they always hope that they can have someone to talk to, and it is more convenient for them to take care of each other when they are old. But what about reality? People at this age have children even if they make do with each other, it is inevitable that they will be partial to their children, personality Xi is difficult to run in, easy to produce contradictions, how about the health of the other party, it is not good to say who takes care of whom, the most afraid of each other's intentions with a purpose, worried about each other's property, and in the end it is difficult to truly achieve one, so many old people see through this, and would rather visit the great rivers and mountains of the motherland in a friendly group, walk around to see the scenery, and be free and free in their old age, rather than find a partner who is not compatible to cause trouble
Idea four, learn to use electronic products, rather find a part-time worker than find a nanny, now many elderly people also learn to use electronic products, eat and learn to order takeout, travel learned to call a car, do housework learned to call a part-time worker, the elderly also accept new things, the concept is also changing, find a nanny family many outsiders are not Xi not to say, meet scheming, worry about their property, what happens is difficult to say, so I would rather hire a part-time worker, help make hot meals to eat, home hygiene simple clean up, finish work and check out and leave, better than finding a nanny, but also save yourself to be angry and troublesome to find uncomfortable
The fifth is that the nursing home resolutely does not go, the nursing home is a collective life, there are time regulations for eating, sleeping and exercising, even the scope of activities are regulated, there is no freedom at all, and there are all kinds of old people in it, people have a strange temper and personality, different life Xi habits, there are often contradictions, which is very unfavorable to the health and mood of the elderly, and it has also been reported on the Internet that the caregiver bullies the elderly, which will make the elderly live with no dignity at all, the older they are, the more they like to be quiet, in the nursing home is simply eating and waiting for death, life is meaningless, so many old people understand this and would rather die alone at home than choose to go to a nursing home。
Another point is to explain the aftermath as soon as possible, everything is simple, when you are alive, you will eat and drink enough and dress warmly, and it is enough for the family to be harmonious and filial to your children and grandchildren, after you go, there is no need to engage in pomp and whistles, extravagance and waste, that is all for the living to see for others, the deceased can't feel it at all, there is no meaning at all, everything before life can't be taken away, then go freely, just scatter the ashes, and return to nature.
Finally, the elderly pay more and more attention to fashion and beauty maintenance, especially women, when they are young, due to the different times, and the current fashion and aesthetics are very different, so they live to this age, under the influence Xi of the new era, they have begun to regain their self-confidence, began to pay attention to their image and dress, began to learn how to dress up, how to maintain beauty, and maintain a good appearance. Try to change your hairstyle, wear fashionable clothes, wear exquisite makeup, and show your mature temperament and charm everywhere. Completely ignoring the changes brought about by age, the elderly now dare to show their style, which also makes them attract attention in the social circle. This really subverted my cognition, made me reacquaint myself with the old people now, and admired them
Talking about this, it is inevitable to sigh that life is short, when you are alive, you should eat, drink, sleep and sleep, physical health is the most important, the value of life varies from person to person, don't force it, just work hard to live well, live well, live happily, people are old and really come to the day when they want to leave, they should go, they have their own fixed number, look down, health and happiness in old age are the most important, what do you think in front of the screen, welcome to leave a message in the comment area, see you in the next issue.