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Text/Guanwen Shi said
Editor/Guanwen Shi said
In a family, children are nothing more than the biggest weakness of parents. And the concept of whether the child is biological or not is "very important" for a father.
After all, attaching importance to blood and family affection is the historical and cultural tradition of the Chinese nation, and there is an ancient saying that "blood is thicker than water", which can be seen from this sentence, Chinese attach importance to blood relations. [Zuoyi]
But there is a man named Chen in Shangrao, Jiangxi, who has been married to his wife for 16 years and has three children during this time, but none of the three children are his own.
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How to know if the child is not biological
Chen married Yu in 1985, and in order to live a good life after marriage, he decided to go out to work alone to earn more money for his family.
During this period, Chen would occasionally go home to visit his wife and parents, and then his wife gave birth to three daughters in a row, and Chen was also very happy.
But because he is working in other places, Chen rarely goes home to take care of his three daughters every year. So in order to make up for the debt to them, he transferred all his wages to his wife, except for some living expenses.
Chen thought that he could live happily, but after a long time, he slowly found out. Every time he and his wife called to communicate, his wife looked impatient towards him, and hung up the phone before he could finish speaking.
Chen didn't take it to heart at that time, but every time he returned home, he would feel that his daughters had a sense of alienation from him, and they were not very close to him, and he thought that he might have gone home too few times.
But then by chance, Chen discovered something that made him extremely painful. While he was away from home, his wife developed a relationship with a strange man, and the development between the two was also very rapid.
In 2022, Chen found that his wife walked out of the hotel with a man. This made him very angry, Chen couldn't believe that his wife, who had been with him for so many years, would do such a thing, so he immediately questioned his wife.
However, Chen forgave his wife for the sake of years of relationship and his wife giving birth to three children for him. He believes that his wife will be able to change her mind and take care of the family in the future.
But what Chen didn't expect was that his parents told him that his wife not only did not change her mind, but her relationship with her lover became stronger and stronger. Even sometimes he didn't go home for several days, and the children at home didn't care, Chen was very helpless at that time.
In this matter, Chen's parents felt that things were not so simple, so they asked Chen and the child to do a paternity test. The eldest of the three children was 15 years old, and the youngest was only 3 years old, so Chen went to the hospital before the youngest daughter.
When the results came out, the child was not his own, which made Chen feel like he had been struck by lightning. After he thought about it, he still had two daughters, so Chen went to discuss with his mother-in-law and asked his mother-in-law to persuade his wife, but what he didn't expect was that his mother-in-law listened to his words and picked up something and knocked Chen out of the house.
So Chen went to do a paternity test with the other two children, and as soon as the results came out, Chen was paralyzed to the ground in an instant, and none of the three children was his, which made him absolutely unacceptable.
Chen said on the video that he didn't think that the three children were not at all, because on the day each child was born, he took it from the nurse by himself.
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Shichi-rei-yi
After knowing these things, Chen couldn't sleep every night, and even almost suffered from depression. Because during this time, his wife and lover did a very excessive thing.
One night, the two of them secretly put firecrackers in the bathroom of Chen's house. In order not to be discovered, the two made a mosquito coil into a timer device. When the firecrackers were ignited that day, they directly caused emergency obstacles to the family's father, who is in his 80s, and his 74-year-old mother.
This made Chen more and more irritable, so he directly had a showdown with his wife, and then sent the three children to his mother-in-law's house, saying that he had never seen the three children since then.
Chen and his wife quarreled over this matter, and his wife also said that it was so important whether the child was biological or not. This sentence completely angered Chen, three people who are not related by blood, he has raised them for 16 years, and he does not have any savings now.
So he decided to use the law to seek justice for himself, and on December 20, 2023, Chen received a summons from the court to open the trial, and the matter will be tried on December 28.
During this period, Chen said that he did not know who the biological father of the three children was, but Chen hoped that he could stand up in person.
And Chen also said that he didn't know if the biological father of the three children was the same person.
The blow to Chen was like a thorn in his heart. Chen said that he didn't want money himself, and now that he doesn't even have a home, it is useless to ask for money, and he must investigate their criminal responsibility and never forgive her.
In addition to this incident, there is another case of the same as it.
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The son who raised him for 8 years was not biological
The parties He Rongqiang and Wang Lili were introduced by friends, and the two gradually fell in love with each other. Less than a year after getting married, Wang Lili gave birth to a boy. It was after this that He Rongqiang found out that his wife had betrayed him, and then the two had a big quarrel.
During this period, Wang Lili accidentally burned her hand in the process of arguing with He Rongqiang, and in a fit of anger, Wang Lili left the house directly.
At that time, the child of the two was only three years old, and when it was time for Tong Tong to go to kindergarten, Wang Lili did not come back to see the child during the period.
When the two got married, Wang Lili was actually pregnant, and when the child was born, she didn't have time to register for the household registration. In order to register the child, He Rongqiang had to prove that he was the child's father, so he went to take a paternity test.
When the results came out, the words on the checklist made He Rongqiang's heart very painful, because the child had nothing to do with him at all.
Not long after He Rongqiang left home after Wang Lili left home, the two had already divorced. Wang Lili married someone else, He Rongqiang also married a wife, and also gave birth to a child, but divorced a year later.
He Rongqiang's health has always been bad, and now he has to take care of two children, and life has overwhelmed him.
Seeing that Tong Tong was 8 years old, he should be the age of elementary school, but because he did not have a hukou, He Rongqiang sat at the door of the Public Security Bureau with the information in his hand every day.
However, if you want the child to be registered, you must ask the child's mother to be present at the same time.
This made He Rongqiang have no choice but to call Wang Lili, but Wang Lili has no intention of going at all.
Wang Lili left it alone, and Mr. He could only send Tong Tong to Wang Lili's parents' house. But it didn't take long for Wang Lili's current husband to call, saying that they didn't have the energy to raise the child now, and asked He Rongqiang to immediately pick up Tong Tong from Wang Lili's parents' home.
This made He Rongqiang angry and directly threw the paternity test results in front of Wang Lili, but Wang Lili insisted that the child was He Rongqiang's, and also said that the paternity test results were fake.
So after the negotiation between the two parties was not so smooth, the two decided to do a paternity test again. But halfway through, Wang Lili repented and immediately got out of the car and left.
When He Rongqiang finished the paternity test, the result was still non-biological. But He Rongqiang saw the child he had raised for 8 years, and he also had feelings in his heart. told Wang Lili that if he went with him to fill in the child's household registration, He Rongqiang was still willing to continue to raise the child.
However, Wang Lili resolutely refused to agree, and was unwilling to raise Tong Tong. And to Tong Tong's biological father, Wang Lili also kept silent.
He Rongqiang, who had no choice, could only take Tong Tong to the Civil Affairs Bureau of Wang Lili's household registration to solve the matter of Tong Tong's household registration.
According to the policy of the law, He Rongqiang has no obligation to raise the child, but if He Rongqiang is willing, then Wang Lili should pay all the child support.
In the end, no matter whether the problem between He Rongqiang and Wang Lili can be reconciled, but the child is innocent, He Rongqiang also hopes that Tong Tong will have a healthy and happy childhood.
In addition to this incident, there is another very hot incident in recent days.
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The man got engaged and was sued by the woman in court
On December 25, 2023, a "engagement rape incident" in Shanxi attracted the attention of many netizens on the Internet. After the court pronounced the verdict in the first instance, the defendant was sentenced to three years' imprisonment, but the defendant expressed dissatisfaction and then chose to appeal.
On January 30, 2023, the defendant, Mr. Xi, met a lady at a matchmaking company, and the relationship between the two developed rapidly. So in early May, a marriage contract was made, and Mr. Xi also paid a bride price of 100,000 yuan to the other party.
At that time, Mr. Xi's family did not have much money, and the 100,000 yuan was also saved by hard work, and Mr. Xi said afterwards that he would make up the remaining bride price money in the future.
The next night, Mr. Xi and the woman returned to the marriage room and had sex. Afterwards, the woman proposed to Mr. Xi that she would write her name in the house book and give her the next 100,000 yuan bride price.
At that time, Mr. Xi said that the house book is not on him now, and he really can't take out 100,000 yuan now. Hearing this, the woman had a big quarrel with Mr. Xi at that time. On the same day, the woman called the police and accused Mr. Xi of rape.
On May 4, Mr. Xi was arrested by the Public Security Bureau. It was at this time that Mr. Xi's mother was at the police station and promised the woman that her name would be added to the house book, but the woman told them that it was too late.
On December 25, after the court pronounced the verdict of the first instance, Mr. Xi did not accept the verdict and appealed.
Mr. Xi's mother has been emphasizing that the woman and her son were still hugging each other before going to the marriage room. After they had sex, the woman took a shower and began to ask for her name to be added to the room book.
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Analysis of the event
During the judge's trial, it was stated that on May 2, Mr. Xi forcibly had sex with the woman when she had resisted. That night, the woman immediately called the police, who later investigated and collected evidence, and took Mr. Xi into criminal custody on May 5.
In the first-instance verdict, the court held that Mr. Xi's actions violated the laws of the country and constituted the crime of rape, and sentenced him to three years in prison.
In this incident, a lawyer also interpreted the characterization of this crime, saying that the act of forcibly having sex with a woman by means of violence and coercion to make people unable to resist and not know how to resist is characterized as rape.
Whatever relationship between the two of them does not affect the characterization of the offence. Even if the two are already husband and wife, if the woman does not consent, it constitutes the establishment of the crime.
At present, the defendant in this case has filed an appeal, and it is believed that under the verdict of the second instance, a satisfactory result will be given to both parties in the end.
This incident also reminds us that intimacy between a man and a woman does not amount to sexual relations, and if this is sought, it must be done with the woman's consent while she is conscious. #文章首发挑战赛#
And you can't prove yourself with the logic of "why she doesn't agree with me to open a room with me".
Resources:
Beijing News Network - After 16 years of marriage, 3 babies are not biological The parties to the case spoke out: I hope the biological father of the child can stand up
Guangming.com - Married for 16 years and 3 babies are not biological, man: There is a "major case" announced
The official account of the search for love - raised for 8 years, the son is not biological, but what is wrong with the child
China.com - Man sentenced to 3 years in prison for rape Lawyer: Engagement does not affect the definition of rape