Recently, I discovered a new type of gnawing on the elderly in my investigation, which has aroused widespread concern in the society. Sadly, some parents are not only unaware of this, but also take the opportunity to show off their children's potential on social media, completely ignoring the problems behind the phenomenon.
With the development of the times and the progress of society, we have seen more and more young people who have made great achievements in entrepreneurship, employment, etc., and they have won fame and wealth for themselves with excellent performance. However, behind all this beauty, there is a very worrying phenomenon hidden - a new type of gnawing old.
The so-called new type of gnawing on the elderly refers to the fact that adult children are still dependent on their parents, completely incapable of taking care of themselves financially, and pass on all their expenses and living expenses to their parents. Different from the traditional gnawing of the elderly, the new type of gnawing is more hidden, because many parents are not aware that they have been gnawed by their children. What's even more infuriating is that these parents still use their children's success as a capital to show off, constantly showing off in the circle of relatives and friends and social media.
Some parents think that their children are out and about, and they work hard to bring glory to their families. However, the truth is that their children are not responsible for their own lives at all, and they put all the responsibility on their parents. This kind of "little Kunlun" behavior not only violates the spirit of self-reliance and self-improvement of individuals, but also causes a huge burden on the family and society.
The phenomenon of new gnawing on the old is quietly growing, but the hidden problems behind it are becoming more and more serious. First of all, this dependence negatively affects young people's sense of self-development and positive enterprising spirit, and they no longer have the motivation to fight, but develop the Xi of dependence and consumption. Second, it weakens the financial power of parents, making them pay for their children's expenses, or even having to borrow money for them. The most important thing is that this phenomenon is gradually distorting the values of the family, and the doting and indulgence of parents to their children has caused generation after generation of "pampering".
We cannot afford to take the new problem lightly. As a parent, you should guide your child to establish correct values and a sense of independence. Young people should also be aware of their responsibilities and not pass on the pressures and responsibilities of life to their parents. At the same time, all sectors of society should provide more education and support to help young people establish a correct view of money and the spirit of self-reliance and self-reliance.
Friends, let us take action together, pay attention to the new phenomenon of gnawing the elderly, call on the society to care for young people, advocate family harmony and happiness, and jointly create a positive social atmosphere.
A new type of gnawing on the old has appeared, and some parents don't know it, and they are showing off their children's prospects everywhere. This phenomenon is a serious violation of the values of independence and self-reliance, and at the same time imposes a huge burden on the family and society. Let us call together to guide young people to establish correct values and return families to the essence of happiness and harmony. Only in this way can we create a positive social atmosphere together!