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My wife Lin Xiaomei and I have been married for five years. We were college classmates and worked for the same company after graduation. Lin Xiaomei is beautiful and lovely, and has strong work ability, and is a model employee of the company.
After we got married, Lin Xiaomei quit her job and concentrated on her husband and children. I continue to work in the company, and Lin Xiaomei takes care of all the big and small things at home. We also travel together a lot, and life can be said to be very happy.
In the past year, Lin Xiaomei has begun to have a new hobby, that is, to go downstairs to run in the community every night. At first, I thought it would be good for her, so I supported it. Lin Xiaomei would change into sportswear at nine o'clock every night and go to the sports field in the community for an hour before going home.
One night, I had just finished reading the report and was going to take a shower and go to bed. At this time, Lin Xiaomei pushed the door in, all soaked in sportswear, and sweating profusely.
"I'm sweating again, let's go take a shower. I said.
"Okay, I'll go. Hey, do my laundry. Lin Xiaomei said and took off her sweaty sportswear and threw it to me.
"Okay, you go take a shower, I'll do the laundry. "I took the pile of sweaty clothes and walked to the washing machine to start washing.
Lin Xiaomei had a pack of tissues in her sports bra pocket, and when I took it out, I found a small metal object lying in the pocket. If you look closely, it's actually a lighter, it doesn't look new, it's a little old.
I picked up the lighter in surprise, it was clearly not our house. We never smoked in our house, and no one used lighters. Where did this come from? Could it be that Lin Xiaomei brought it back from outside?
My heart began to beat wildly. Could Lin Xiaomei have met another man outside? Won't this lighter be that man's thing? Lin Xiaomei has never been like this to me, and our relationship has always been very good. Did she really have someone else out there?
I was holding the little lighter, and my palms were sweaty. The mind is full of terrible speculations and doubts. After a while, I finally mustered up the courage, came to the bathroom door with a lighter, and said to Lin Xiaomei, who was taking a bath inside: "Xiaomei, come out, I have something to ask you." ”
Lin Xiaomei answered inside, and soon came out with a bath towel. "What's the matter, dear, with a serious face. She looked at me with a smile.
I silently handed her the lighter in my hand: "What is this? How is it in your pocket?"
Lin Xiaomei took the lighter and looked at it, her expression was a little surprised, but then she returned to normal: "This, I don't know where it came from, maybe it was accidentally stained on my clothes." ”
"Impossible!" I raised my voice, "This is obviously a men's lighter, and it's old, so it can't be accidentally touched." Xiaomei, what the hell is going on, you tell me the truth!"
Lin Xiaomei's face became ugly: "What do you mean? Don't you believe me? I said I don't know, I don't know, what's all the fuss about." ”
"And you don't have a clue where this lighter came from?" I asked, "We don't smoke in our house, so tell me, how can this thing be in your pocket?"
Lin Xiaomei was silent, and her face became more and more ugly.
I took a deep breath and plucked up the courage to ask that terrible question: "Xiaomei, do you have another man out there? This lighter is that man's thing?"
"What nonsense are you talking about!" Lin Xiaomei suddenly said loudly, "What other man, why don't you believe me so much! I have always been consistent with you, how can I have an affair!"
I also got excited: "Then explain this lighter! It's in your pocket, it's not a coincidence!"
"I don't know where it came from, it's definitely not what you think it is!" Lin Xiaomei said with red eyes.
"Okay, if you say no, it's not, but this lighter is here, how can I believe your words?" I slammed the lighter on the table, "Xiaomei, you must give me a satisfactory explanation today, otherwise it will be over between us!"
I felt like the world was spinning, I stumbled under my feet, and I almost fell. It turned out that my fear came true, Lin Xiaomei really cheated! Our five-year married life fell apart at this moment. I felt hopeless, painful and angry like never before.
"Lin Xiaomei, I really misjudged you! Is the five-year relationship so worthless? How long have you been with that man? How long have you been secretly meeting behind my back?" I yelled hysterically.
"What else is there to explain!" I slammed my fist against the wall, "I'm so blind that I can fall in love with a bad guy!"
I took a few deep breaths, barely calmed down, and looked at Lin Xiaomei: "Okay, you explain to me clearly, who is that man, when did you start, and what exactly happened?"
I looked at her coldly, waiting for her answer. I have to get to the bottom of it, even if it breaks my heart.
I was silent. Lin Xiaomei's explanation seems to rationalize what she did, which makes it hard for me to believe.
"Just chatting, aren't you already cheating when you meet him without me?" I asked.
"No, I don't want to hide it from you, but I'm afraid you'll misunderstand. We really just talk about work and nothing else. I swear!" Lin Xiaomei pleaded.
"What about the lighter? My tone was still cold.
"No, we really don't have that kind of relationship! I don't know how the lighter fell in my pocket, maybe I accidentally brought it out when I was picking up the papers. ”
"Do you think I'm going to believe this lame excuse? don't try to fool me!" I couldn't help but raise my voice.
"I'm not fooling you! I'm telling the truth!" Lin Xiaomei also raised her voice.
Both of us got excited and argued. I firmly believe that there must be something wrong with Lin Xiaomei, and she refuses to admit it.
"Alright, it's useless for you to make up a story!" I finally couldn't bear it anymore, "Let's go to the police station tomorrow to report the case, find out the details of that man, and see how long you can quibble!"
"Report the crime?" Lin Xiaomei's eyes widened, "Are you crazy? The police won't take care of our family affairs!"
"They don't have the final say, I have to find out the truth!" I said firmly.
"You're coming here, I'm not going to the police!" Lin Xiaomei was also excited.
"If you don't go, it means you have a ghost!
"I'm not hiding anything from you! I'll say it one last time, that man and I are just ordinary friends!"
"Okay, if you don't go to the police station, we'll divorce directly!" I was furious.
"You!" Lin Xiaomei glared at me, "Okay, if you want to go to the police station, you can go, I will accompany you to the end!
Lin Xiaomei and I were silent, each with our own thoughts.
I was disappointed by the police's words, and it seemed that it would not be easy to find out the truth. But I was determined to investigate to the end, so I asked the police to help retrieve Lin Xiaomei's communication records and credit card consumption records.
Lin Xiaomei listened to my request, and her face became ugly: "Communication records, consumption records, you are violating my privacy!"
"Privacy?" I sneered, "Do innocent people care so much about privacy? I just want to prove your innocence." ”
"You!" Lin Xiaomei glared at me angrily.
The policeman advised: "Evidence is really needed to determine whether there was an affair or not. However, access to this private information also requires the consent of the person concerned. ”
I looked at Lin Xiaomei: "It's up to you to decide whether you agree or not, your choice will prove everything." ”
Lin Xiaomei bit her lip and said for a long time: "Okay, in order to prove my innocence, I agree with you." But you'd better not regret it!"
So the police helped retrieve Lin Xiaomei's communication and consumption records for the last three months. I looked closely and found that she had frequent calls and texts with a strange man, and the two often appeared at the same restaurant or mall at the same time. This further confirms my suspicions.
I put these evidences in front of Lin Xiaomei, her face was pale, and she couldn't speak for a long time.
"Xiaomei, is there anything else to quibble?" I asked coldly.
I was silent and waited for her next step.
She cried so hard that I looked at her and my heart was numb. Can I still trust her? How can I tell if what she says is true or false?
"Lin Xiaomei, I hope what you said is true. I sighed, "However, you must cut all contact with that man, which is necessary for our relationship to continue." ”
"I vowed never to contact him again. Lin Xiaomei couldn't cry.
At this time, the policeman spoke: "This man does have a criminal record, and I will continue to investigate him." You husband and wife also need to communicate well and understand each other. Relationship problems cannot be based on suspicion alone, but also need more trust. ”
I nodded silently. Maybe I really overreacted and should give Lin Xiaomei a chance
Maybe I really overreacted, and Lin Xiaomei should be given a chance to explain clearly.
"Xiaomei, I believe you didn't have a relationship with that man. But you have hurt my feelings by contacting him frequently without me. I tried to say calmly, "I can give you a chance to rebuild trust, but you have to cut ties with him completely, or we're really finished." ”
Lin Xiaomei couldn't cry: "I know it's wrong, I will never contact him again." Everything that happened during this time was my responsibility, and it was I who broke the promise of marriage first. From now on, I will be a virtuous wife again, and I will never let you doubt it again. Please give me a chance to start over!"
I nodded: "I agree to give you this opportunity." But I'll keep an eye on your every move, and if you do anything suspicious, we're really impossible. ”
"I promise I won't let you down again. Lin Xiaomei said resolutely.
So, we settled the quarrel for the time being. But I know that it will take a long time to rebuild trust.
After returning home, Lin Xiaomei began to take the initiative to help me with housework and often prepared delicious meals for me. She also no longer goes out for a run and exercises, and spends all her time at home every day.
One night, she said to me, "Honey, I think we need a world for two, just a few days when the two of us are alone." I booked a hotel on the island and let's go on a weekend getaway. ”
I hesitated, but agreed to her suggestion.
Over the weekend, we came to the island and stayed in the hotel that Lin Xiaomei had booked. The scenery is beautiful, and we walked along the beach and watched the sun set over the sea.
"We'll come here every year for a holiday. Lin Xiaomei took my hand and said.
"Okay. I nodded.
"I'm sorry for the pain you've been causing you so much during this time. She leaned on my shoulder and whispered, "I'll slowly compensate you and make you trust me again." ”
"Hmm. I put my arm around her shoulder, "I'm at fault, and I shouldn't have doubted you lightly." Let's start over. ”
"Good. Lin Xiaomei looked at me with a smile.
We spent a few days on the island in a romantic world for two. After returning home, life seemed to be back on track, and my relationship with Lin Xiaomei was slowly repairing.
Perhaps, it will take longer to completely let go. I told myself.
As time passed, Lin Xiaomei's life and I seemed to be back on track, but the doubts in my heart still couldn't be eliminated.
One day, Lin Xiaomei said to me, "My dear, we've lived for so long, isn't it time to think about having a baby? ”
I was silent. Indeed, it stands to reason that we should think about our children. But I still have some concerns: "Now is not the time, let's wait until our relationship is back to normal." ”
"But children can make our relationship stronger. Lin Xiaomei said coquettishly, "I think Sun Fang has given birth to a second child, we should also have a baby, right?"
"Sun Fang is Sun Fang, we are us. I said firmly, "This is not the time, and my decision will not change." ”
Lin Xiaomei lowered her head in disappointment and didn't say anything more.
After a while, one day Lin Xiaomei said to me excitedly: "Honey, I want to travel abroad once and relax and relax." How about just the two of us going around Europe?"
I frowned: "Now is not a good time to travel, I am also busy at work, and it is not convenient to go abroad." ”
"Hey, we finally recovered our relationship, and if we go out for a walk, we can also enhance our relationship. Lin Xiaomei was coquettish again.
I still shook my head and refused: "Money is also a problem, the cost of traveling abroad is too big, and we can't afford it financially." Besides, it is now necessary to observe our relationship, and traveling abroad is not in the plan. ”
Lin Xiaomei left disappointed.
These days, I keep an eye on her every move, for fear that she will do something out of the ordinary again. I know she must be disappointed, but I can't fully trust her right now.
One night, she suddenly burst out at me, "How long are you going to spy on me? I'm back to being a good wife, why don't you believe me?"
I was silent, and then said, "I didn't mean to spy on you, it just took time to regain trust." ”
"Don't you believe I'm trying to make amends, I've been taking care of you for so long!" Lin Xiaomei said with red eyes.
"I know, but trust can't be forced, it takes a process. I sighed.
"When will this process end? I'm really trying!" Lin Xiaomei choked up and said.
"Give me a moment. I whispered.
Lin Xiaomei was silent, tears rolling in her eyes.
I know how she feels, but I can't really quite trust her yet. I need more time and evidence to prove that she was truly faithful.
It was not an easy time for both of us. I can see that Lin Xiaomei is trying to make amends, but the wounds in my heart will take longer to heal.
Maybe one day, when I can finally trust her completely, our relationship will be strong again.