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Interpretation of microhistory
"Not having children is a regret in life"
"It didn't work out."
Unexpectedly, Huang Qishan, as a popular singer, would one day become the target of "cyberbullying" because of a sentence.
How many mothers mention having children, they have a belly of pain, and they can't wait for tears to fill the gold mountain.
Tie the concepts of "having a baby, completeness, and success" together, how many people will have mixed tastes and can't help it?
In the entertainment industry, where every word and deed will be infinitely amplified, Huang Qishan's move really makes people sweat.
Of course, this is only for strangers.
Those who really know Huang Qishan will definitely understand why she said this.
01 The end of "madness".
It's just that she listened to a model play with her grandfather, and Huang Qishan was able to draw a gourd and hum it on the way home.
That year, she was only 3 years old.
How can such a musical talent not be high?
After going to school, this good voice helped her win the championship in the singing competitions held by the school many times.
The title of lark also spread.
I thought that such a gifted child was watered by his parents with love, heart, and money, but the truth is the opposite.
Huang Qishan's parents were only 19 years old when she was born, and she was still a child, so how do you know how to take care of her children correctly?
Father's love?
Maternal love?
These are words that she has never felt since she was a child.
What I saw in my eyes and heard in my ears was the endless quarrels and hysterical scolding of my parents.
At that time, Huang Qishan's only wish was to escape.
Escape to a quiet place and sing your favorite songs.......
After her parents divorced, she lived a quiet life as she wished, and had the opportunity to go to the art center to practice singing and dancing.
After graduating from high school, he concealed that his family applied for the Chongqing Huahua Song and Dance Troupe and became a member of the music circle.
The happiest thing every day is to perform everywhere with the group.
Turning a hobby into a job, you can earn a decent amount of living expenses, and you can sing your favorite songs, it's not too happy.
However, she also has her troubles.
Listening to the singing, it is refreshing.
Looking at the looks, it's surprisingly ugly.
It can be said that as long as she appears, the audience's reaction will change from a favorite scream to a mockery.
Until 2004, Huang Qishan sang the theme song of the Chinese delegation at the Athens Olympics.
The explosion of the song gave her hope.
But after actually launching a solo album, the dismal sales hit her again.
At the low point of her career, she thought about changing careers, opening a hot pot restaurant, opening a clothing store, and becoming a temporary female worker.......
But these ideas were quickly denied by her.
"If I didn't have talent, I might have given up, but God gave me such a voice and tempted me to chase musical success"
Unexpectedly, the career pursued persistently has not moved, and the love that I never thought of came first.
02 Encountering people is unladylike
Little girls who have never received their father's love since they were children are the most likely to be deceived by "yellow hair", and a little warmth can make these girls think: I have met true love!
The same is true of Wong Yee Shan.
"I appreciate the way you hold the microphone and sing confidently"
Tu Huiyuan's words of praise fascinated him so much that he couldn't find the north.
It's that magical.
She is ugly, she is used to listening to other people's ridicule, and suddenly receives the favor of strangers, how can she not be excited?
This feeling is as if the sun shines through the clouds on her body, so warm and nostalgic.
After understanding, Huang Qishan found that this person is in the music industry like her, and his reputation is not small.
A singer, a talented musician.
The common language unconsciously shortened the distance between the two.
Perhaps, I really like it.
Perhaps, I have never seen such a girl.
One day, Tu Huiyuan could no longer suppress the love in his heart and proposed to this inconspicuous girl.
"Once bitten by a snake, ten years afraid of the well rope"
The shock was followed by a strong sense of unease.
Although Huang Qishan has a good impression of Tu Huiyuan, the unhappiness of her last marriage still makes her have some scruples.
When she was 20 years old, she thought she had met love, and before she could fully understand the other party's temper and personality, she stepped into marriage in impulse.
But the result?
After getting married, the two who loved each other to death changed from lovers to "enemies".
The man's irascible personality is revealed little by little, and her marriage also continues her mother's unhappiness.
There is a small quarrel for three days, and a big quarrel for five days.
Sometimes she still pushes and scolds, and she seems to have the idea of running away again.
In the end, this marriage ended in "divorce", and now that the scene has reappeared, is she really worth it?
Can this man, who has been with him for a few months, really believe it?
After a long wait, Huang Qishan left with only one sentence of "think about it" and left.
Perhaps, it was because of the covetousness of the pitiful warmth, and when they met again, Huang Qishan still agreed.
From her first relationship, she learned a lot.
It was naïve to think that the last time it was the husband who was too mediocre that would lead to the breakdown of the marriage.
So, after the start of her second marriage, she gave up her unsuccessful career, left the familiar living environment, and followed Tu Huiyuan to Taiwan.
Be willing to stay at home and wash your hands and make soup.
It is enough to see that she loves him more than herself.
At the beginning, they did have a sweet time, giving Huang Qishan the illusion that "the hard days have finally come to an end".
What she didn't expect was that after a change of husband and a different environment, the marriage situation was still much the same.
Quarrel, reconcile.
quarreled and reconciled.
That year, Huang Qishan's life had nothing but the vegetable market and the narrow kitchen.
The previous high spirits, and the confidence when holding the microphone, have also disappeared without a trace in the ordinary.
Perhaps, she also wants to develop her career.
With the help of her husband, she left Taiwan to find professionals to help make the album, but when she returned, everything changed.
As soon as I got home, I heard the word "divorce".
Huang Qishan couldn't figure out why she was abandoned, and she wanted to get her husband's attention and save the marriage.
Even, the thought of hurting one's own body is born.
Fortunately, at the last moment, he was saved by a phone call from a friend, and the other party realized that his mood was wrong and rushed to Huang Qishan's side overnight.
After calming down, she began to look back on herself over the years.
After some consideration, she finally made up her mind.
Being trapped in one world is not the life she wants, and this darkness must end from now on.
So, she couldn't wait to get back to the music scene.
It's a pity that time waits for no one.
It's only been three years since she left, and there's no place for her there.
Let's take a look at my ex-husband Tu Huiyuan?
turned around and used himself and Huang Qishan's experience from falling in love to breaking up, and wrote the two songs "Cut Love" and "Listening to the Sea", which became popular.
One is prosperous, and the other is nameless.
It's no wonder that Huang Qishan had the idea of "I'm not suitable for singing, or just leave".
Even with her life, it is going in an uncontrollable direction.
03 Soberness after sinking
During the quiet time, she did not complain.
It's just that through hobbies such as reading, fitness, and playing tennis, I sweat and improve my inner self.
The longest time, she spent eight hours in a row on the tennis court, playing all night, and as long as the lights were not turned off, she would not leave.
While exercising, I also forgot about some unhappiness.
With the improvement of his skills, he has also won many amateur championships.
It can be said that it was her happiest time in recent years, and if it weren't for the invitation to "I Am a Singer", she would not have reappeared.
She thought that she would be the same as before, as a leftover on the stage to set off others, but the reality gave her a surprise.
The song "Waiting" let the audience see the potential of Huang Qishan.
A scene of tears spilling on the stage, people can't help but peek into her past and understand her sadness.
If you have the desire to explore, you will have the opportunity to become popular.
At this time, people found out about her relationship with Tu Huiyuan.
That's when people understood why she was praised by professional musicians as "the most perfect voice in Asia".
The strong strength is here, and there is no chance of being discovered?
At the age of 45, Huang Qishan finally used her singing voice to conquer the audience at the scene and in front of the TV.
It was probably the first time she had tasted red.
is thriving in his career, and he is not far behind emotionally.
Yes.
She found true love again.
For Zhang Ying, she has a strong aura on the stage, and she is willing to be a little woman who can wash clothes, cook, and earn a lot of money to serve her husband, and her biggest wish is to give him a child.
But what is puzzling is that when you receive a man's courtship at the time of fame and fortune, you don't want to think about why?
Is the charisma too good?
Are you young and beautiful?
Or is it an ulterior motive?
Sure enough, after three years of marriage, this marriage is not sweet, and the loving couple has become enemies.
Huang Qishan accused the other party of domestic violence, and Zhang Ying insisted that the other party was cheating, and directly caused a situation in court.
Three marriages, three divorces.
Over the years, the only thing that hasn't betrayed her is probably music, so at the age of 55, she put all her energy into her career.
Participated in various music programs, sparkled on the stage, and boarded the Spring Festival Gala of dreams.
A song "To the Clouds" won 300 million views in 6 days.
Although she doesn't have children of her own, the "Huang Ma" from the audience and netizens made her feel more cordial.
Perhaps, it is also a good idea to see every child who is next generation from her as her own child.
Having figured everything out, she travels with friends and shares her daily life with her "children".
Fitness, calligraphy practice......
All of this has made Huang Qishan gain countless full of love, and occasionally receive handwritten letters from fans.
Looking at ten years ago and ten years later, who can believe that the left and right are 45 and 55-year-old Wong Yee Shan?
Getting younger?
Sure enough, only by loving yourself can you get the preferential treatment of the years.
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