#头条讲真的#
Some of these words don't make sense at first glance. But on the road of life, if you think about it carefully, you will find that these words, the more you taste, the more reasonable they are.
1. "If you are angry for a minute, you will lose 60 years of happiness"
Life is short, and the past is hard. Life is inherently short, and there is no need to spend a limited amount of time on things that waste your life. Instead of carrying a distressed face, it is better to have a sunny smiling face at all times.
2. "Don't be embarrassed to refuse others, anyway, those who are embarrassed to embarrass you haven't thought about it for you." ”
You are always Xi to think about others and empathize with others. But when you think about it in hindsight, those who "ask" you to have empathy are often unsympathetic. You always remember others, and how many people are really for you? If people want to live happily, they must first learn -- don't make trouble for yourself, and don't worry about anything when you have nothing to do
3. "It is impossible for a person to bring money into a coffin, but money may bring a person into a coffin." ”
There are cliffs in life, but there are endless desires. Desire does not die because of the human heart, but people are dragged down by desire. Money can't be taken away, but the desire for money can send people to the sickbed. When you are young, you use your time to make money, and when you are middle-aged, you use money to buy your life. The result will outweigh the losses.
4. "Nine times out of ten life is unsatisfactory, the remaining one or two are particularly unsatisfactory." ”
There is no better blessing in the world than this: all the best, all the best. Life is so cruel. The more you desire, the more unattainable. Instead of expecting good luck in life as expected, it is better to face the reality with more peace of mind.
5. "If you figure out one thing, it's heaven, and if you can't figure it out, it's hell." ”
Heaven and hell are just one step away. The thought of rejoicing arises, and the world becomes sunny and bright. Sad thoughts arise, even if the sunny world is gray. The same thing will achieve different results, just because the idea is good or bad. In the future, think more about the benefits when encountering problems. Maybe the moment the peak turns around, it turns in your thoughts.
6. "People must be able to withstand lies, perfunctory, deception, forget promises, and let go of everything." ”
The truth of life is to gain and lose at the same time. Life is like a big pocket, when there is in, there must be out. There are many things that we hold in our hands, but they will become a drag. Accept reality, face the past, and be able to let go. Learn these three points, and your life will be turned upside down.
7. "Your so-called unfair fate is nothing more than laziness that makes you incompetent." ”
There are always people who complain about bad luck, and there are people who suffer and fate always shoots at themselves. But in fact, fate is the same for everyone, the difference is that some people can face it head-on, and some people will only complain about it. If you only use complaints to buy it, life is bound to be a puddle of mud. On the other hand, when you become a warrior, the dragon of life is not worth mentioning in front of you.
8. "You think you're very good, but in fact, the circle is too small." ”
The reason why the frog at the bottom of the well thinks it is powerful is because it only has a small piece of sky in front of it from birth to death. The summer insect is noisy because it has only three seasons in its lifetime. The reason why people feel that they are great is because the realm they are in is too low, their vision is narrow, and the pattern is too small. Only when we have seen the sea and the sky can we know the vastness of the world and the vastness of the world, and we do not know the spring, summer, autumn and winter when we are in a corner. People who really stand on high places never feel that they are excellent. It's because they've seen someone stronger than themselves.
9. "An iron pestle can be ground into a needle, but a wooden pestle can only be ground into a toothpick." The material is wrong, no matter how hard you try, it's useless. ”
At all times, seeking truth from facts is the most important thing. The key things should start from the source and see the source of the facts, so that we will not be confused by appearances. In the same way, if you see yourself clearly and know yourself correctly, you will not let yourself go astray and misestimate yourself.
10. "About tomorrow, you will know the day after tomorrow!"
Many people are troubled by the Xi of speculating about an aimless future. Actually, life is not as complicated as you think. Tomorrow the sun will rise as promised, and the sky will not really fall. It's a worrying thing, and in the end, it's yourself who is uncomfortable. So, instead of thinking too much, it's better to do it step by step. Only after doing it can you truly appreciate what it means to go with the flow and follow the trend.