Loving children is something that hens do too.
This is a famous saying said by Gorky, loving children is human instinct, but how to educate children well is a Xi that all parents need to learn, because of love for children and lose judgment or violate basic cognition, it may complicate things, and it is not conducive to children's education and growth.
Therefore, many people compare their doting children to "flowers in the greenhouse", and bloom wonderfully under the care of their parents, but once they are out of the arms of their parents, when they face life alone, can they still face all the setbacks and realities with a smile?
Recently, a parent posted on the Internet, saying that the temperature in the dormitory of North China Electric Power University is too low, only 17 degrees Celsius, and that he is not ready to freeze his children to death? Parents have seriously criticized the school, saying that the school's practices are excessive, and even that the school's practices are "exploitative."
Unexpectedly, the parent's complaint quickly aroused strong opposition from netizens, who generally believed that parents doted on their children too much, and the temperature of college students' dormitories was 17 degrees, and many southern colleges and universities did not have 17 degrees in their dormitories at all, and it was not even much different from the room temperature.
Some netizens think that if you have to wear short sleeves in winter to call it winter? If the clothes are not too thin, the room temperature of 17 degrees is completely tolerable, and even belongs to a relatively comfortable temperature, so there is no need to complain and complain every day.
If parents are so concerned about the temperature of their children's dormitories, won't their children really become flowers in the greenhouse?
Interestingly, many people scolded the parent, suggesting that the parent transfer their child to Tsinghua University, or go to a hotel, and some suggested that the parent install air conditioning in the dormitory.
The parent responded that the problem had been solved because he had already complained to the school and the dormitory was much warmer now!
Objectively speaking, colleges and universities in the north all use the method of central heating, and the temperature in the dormitory is indeed much more comfortable than in the south, but is 17 degrees really low? People with a little life experience know that in fact, this temperature is acceptable, not to mention the point of freezing the child to death, and the parents are too distressed about the child, and it is likely that the temperature of the dormitory and the temperature at home have been compared.
With the improvement of people's living standards, everyone's requirements for heating are getting higher and higher, but on the whole, indoor temperature and humidity are actually regulated, not higher or higher.
According to the provisions of the local heating regulations, under normal circumstances, the indoor temperature is basically required not less than 18 degrees, if there are babies or special groups of people at home, the temperature can be appropriately adjusted, and the indoor temperature is about 20 degrees.
That is to say, 17 degrees in the dormitory is actually a normal phenomenon, after all, students in and out, the indoor temperature is difficult to maintain at a high level, and everyone feels the temperature differently, for students in the north, 17 degrees may feel cold, but students from the south are estimated to feel just right, or even very comfortable.
Of course, the focus of everyone's discussion now is not the temperature itself, but whether parents need to pay attention to the details of their children's college life? Complaining if they are slightly dissatisfied is undoubtedly the same as that of primary and secondary schools, complaining about the school at every turn, ostensibly for the sake of children, but in essence it is interfering in school management and education, and it is a kind of doting on children.
College students are already adults, if they feel that the temperature in the dormitory is not enough, they feel unwell, they can express their demands to the school logistics department in their own way, if most people feel that the temperature is low, I believe that the school will improve the heating temperature, rather than the parents do it for them.
It's understandable to care for and love children, but don't spoil too much, let alone stretch your hand too long, college students are already adults, and they should find a way to solve or overcome anything they encounter.
If parents do not have enough resources to help their children solve employment problems, children may be in a state of "gnawing at the old", the root cause of this phenomenon is not the ability of children, but their lack of ability to live independently, do not know how to pursue everything they want, because everything before was helped by parents.
Therefore, when it is time to let go, if it is not an insurmountable difficulty, it is really not recommended that parents also intervene in the life of college students, whether it is cold or warm, let the children feel and solve it by themselves, so that they can grow up quickly.