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There is a special woman named Dong Mingying in Rizhao, Shandong, who can only rely on crawling to move forward because of her waist atrophy.
Although her body is different from ordinary people, she has always lived and faced life with an optimistic attitude.
When she was 24 years old, she chose to marry a "bachelor" who was 22 years older than her.
After marriage, Dong Mingying risked her life to give birth to two children for her husband despite the dissuasion of her family.
As the children grow up and her husband gradually gets older, does Dong Mingying regret her original choice?
Accident becomes disabled
In 1986, Dong Mingying was born in an ordinary family in Rizhao, Shandong, she is the second child in the family, with an older sister on her, and later her parents gave birth to a younger brother. Although their family lived a little poor, they lived a very happy life, Dong Mingying was born as a very healthy child, and her parents loved her very much.
But what was unexpected was that an accident happened when Dong Mingying was one year old. One night, Dong Mingying suddenly had a fever, and her parents quickly got up and fed her some antipyretic medicine, but there was no sign of fever after taking the medicine. So the couple waited until dawn and took Dong Mingying to a small clinic to see a doctor, but they didn't get better after taking medicine for several days.
In the past, if the family had a cold or fever, it would be good to prescribe some medicine in the clinic, but this time it had no effect. So his parents took Dong Mingying to the hospital for treatment, and under the doctor's treatment, Dong Mingying's condition slowly improved, and his parents' hanging hearts were also relaxed. But what they didn't know was that this fever ruined Dong Mingying's normal life all his life.
After returning home from the hospital, Dong Mingying's parents slowly noticed the abnormality of her body, Dong Mingying, who was already able to walk slowly, couldn't even sit up after this fever. At first, the parents thought that it was malnutrition caused by this fever and that it would slowly recover, but after waiting for a month, Dong Mingying still couldn't sit up, and then the parents panicked.
They hurriedly took Dong Mingying to the hospital for an examination, and after the examination, the doctor said that Dong Mingying may not be able to stand up again in the future. Because the nerves in her waist have been irreversibly damaged, the doctor guessed that it was because the previous high fever dragged on for too long, and finally burned out the nerves, which caused Dong Mingying to be unable to stand and walk like a normal person.
The doctor's words were like a bolt from the blue, Dong Mingying's parents regretted it very much, if they could have taken their children to a big hospital for treatment earlier, they might not have become what they are now. As she grew older, Dong Mingying learned to crawl on the ground with her hands, and her mother put on a pair of "shoes" on her hands in order to prevent her hands from being injured.
When she reached the age of going to school, her mother looked at Dong Mingying like this, and if she went to school, others would definitely look at her with strange eyes. But if you don't go to school, you will become illiterate, and after thinking about it, her mother still sent Dong Mingying to school. In school, the students play and run outside as soon as class ends, but Dong Mingying can only sit in the classroom.
Even a simple toilet requires the help of others, and some kind-hearted classmates will choose to help Dong Mingying. But there were still many classmates who saw Dong Mingying's strange appearance and laughed at her, and gradually, Dong Mingying began to become inferior and didn't want to go to school. Mother is also very guilty about this, but all she can do is continue to enlighten and comfort Dong Mingying.
Her sister also educates her classmates who bullied her at school, and gradually, everyone stopped bullying and laughing at her, and she also made some good friends at school. After finishing primary school, Dong Mingying chose to drop out of school, she wanted to relieve some of the financial burden on her family. When her parents learned of her thoughts, they were filled with guilt.
Having two children despite dissuasion
After Dong Mingying dropped out of school and returned home, because she couldn't go out to work, she could only help her mother do some housework at home. Later, she began to learn to do some handicrafts, although she did not earn a lot, but she could also reduce the burden on the family. Life passed peacefully, until she was 24 years old, Dong Mingying had become a big girl, but she had never talked to someone.
Dong Mingying knows that no one will take a fancy to her situation, so she never asks for love. Dong Mingying is very hard-working, and the neighbors in the village also see it, and they will also help Dong Mingying pay attention to whether there is a suitable partner for her. Later, a neighbor introduced Dong Mingying to Feng Zhiyu from a neighboring village, who was 46 years old and had never been married.
Feng Zhiyu has several younger siblings in his family, and he has helped his parents take care of them since he was a child, and later his younger siblings grew up and his parents grew old. He could only stay at home to take care of his elderly parents, and barely survived by guarding the family's one-third of an acre of land every day. Because his family is poor, many girls don't look down on him, so he hasn't married a daughter-in-law in his forties.
Feng Zhiyu had heard of Dong Mingying before, and he knew that although Dong Mingying was disabled, he was very smart and capable, and Feng Zhiyu did not discriminate against Dong Mingying in the slightest. But Dong Mingying hesitated a little after seeing Feng Zhiyu, who was about the same age as her father, and her parents were also a little worried about him, after all, the other party was too old.
Later, Dong Mingying decided to try dating first after careful consideration, and after a period of contact, Dong Mingying felt that Feng Zhiyu was very honest and filial, and he didn't have so many hearts. So Dong Mingying willingly married Feng Zhiyu, and the two lived very happily after marriage, Dong Mingying took care of the housework at home, and Feng Zhiyu went out to work.
Because Dong Mingying is inconvenient to walk, Feng Zhiyu often walks on her back, and when she is free, she will carry Dong Mingying back to her house to visit her parents. A year after getting married, Dong Mingying found out that she was pregnant, and Feng Zhiyu hurriedly took her to the hospital for an examination after learning about it. After the examination, the doctor told them that the child was healthy, but considering Dong Mingying's physical condition, it was not recommended that she keep the child.
In her case, the risk of pregnancy and childbirth is very high, and after hearing the doctor's words, Feng Zhiyu did not plan to have children for the safety of his wife. But Dong Mingying wanted to keep the child, she felt that it was a gift from God, and no matter how others persuaded her, she insisted on giving birth to the child. During Dong Mingying's pregnancy, Feng Zhiyu took care of her meticulously and did not dare to be sloppy.
conceived in October, Dong Mingying gave birth to a daughter smoothly, and the daughter was very healthy, and after the child was born safely, their family was also relieved. In 2012, Dong Mingying became pregnant again, and this time she still insisted on giving birth. In order to provide a better life for his wife and children, Feng Zhiyu worked hard to earn money, and sometimes he had to work several jobs a day.
Live hard
As the children grew up, Feng Zhiyu was also getting older, and Dong Mingying was very distressed when she looked at the white hair and tired figure on her husband's head. In 2018, with the rise of the Internet and short videos, Dong Mingying also made videos of his family's life and posted them online. Her videos have been liked and followed by many people, and their family's economic situation has also improved a lot with short videos.
Later, with the rise of live streaming, Dong Mingying learned to start live streaming again, and she sold the crops grown in her village online. In this way, she not only earns her own money, but also helps the villagers, and she also sells her handicrafts and shoes online. Because of the good quality and cheap price, many fans are willing to buy her things, and gradually their family's life is getting better.
While getting better herself, Dong Mingying does not forget to help others, she often does public welfare in her free time to help those in need. Before this, Dong Mingying was a person who needed everyone's help, but now that she has the ability, she will do her best to help others. She is like a little sun, warming everyone around her.