Author|Leshan
Editor-in-charge|Xiang Wanwan
Recently, "Love's Study Trip" has been on the air, and Wu Qianyu's popularity remains high.
Although she and Shi Boxiong appeared on the show as a couple for the first time, the sweetness is not inferior to that of several other "real couples".
With the deepening of the show, many netizens said that Wu Qianyu was a walking "man-chopping" textbook, and they all said that she would be asked to publish a "love cheats".
But Wu Qianyu's emotional road is actually not smooth sailing.
01
The strict family of origin deprives her of the feeling of love
In 1993, Wu Qianyu was born in Hangzhou, Zhejiang. My father was a businessman in Hong Kong and opened a barbecue restaurant in Tin Sha Kok Village, while my mother was a housewife.
After Wu Qianyu was born, her mother took her to immigrate to Hong Kong to settle down. As a result, she became an authentic "house" girl,
"Hope that the son will become a dragon and the daughter will become a phoenix" is the common pursuit of many families, and Wu Qianyu's mother is no exception.
Wu Qianyu has had high hopes since she was a child, and her mother taught her to become an excellent person when she grows up, and it is best to join a wealthy family, so Wu Qianyu has always had a "wealthy dream" in her heart.
In the eyes of her mother, being excellent means that she needs to be disciplined harshly, so she uses "beating" as a means of educating her daughter.
And Wu Qianyu's childhood was spent in "being beaten".
Don't take piano lessons, play. Bad grades in reading, hit. Do not share toys with friends and play.
In addition, Wu Qianyu can't drink or eat snacks like other children, and she can't go out to play on her days off.
But Wu Qianyu, who was still young, had no ability to resist at all, and he couldn't express his opinions, and in the face of his mother's beating and scolding, he could only accept it.
The long-term emotional squeeze has made Wu Qianyu a taciturn child, and the pressure does not know how to get rid of it, so it can only be vented on himself.
Every time he was scolded by his mother, Wu Qianyu would keep buttoning the skin of his hand with his nails, until the skin on his hand fell off, the blood flowed, and he felt pain.
In the more than ten years from childhood to adulthood, Wu Qianyu was afraid of her mother, and even after adulthood, she still couldn't get out of the fear of being dominated.
And the family damage suffered in childhood can only be compensated for from love when he grows up.
02
was accused of "worshipping money", and broke up after 5 years of unhappiness
In 2013, Wu Qianyu, who was only 19 years old, met 33-year-old Lin Feng while recording a show.
At that time, Lin Feng was already a relatively famous star in the circle, while Wu Qianyu was just a young actor who had just debuted for two years.
Lin Feng is a mature and stable "high-quality man" in the eyes of the audience, but Wu Qianyu looks very young, and even a little hanging, and the two don't look very compatible from the outside.
Just when everyone thought that the two would not get together, the two generously announced their relationship on social media with lightning speed.
Although there is a certain age difference between the two, in Lin Feng, Wu Qianyu found the missing feelings in childhood very well.
Wu Qianyu became Lin Feng's first girlfriend to admit to the outside world, and often appeared in Lin Feng's horizontal drama detective class, and the two went in pairs.
Wu Qianyu was a little princess in Lin Feng's eyes, so Lin Feng affectionately called her "BB".
And Lin Feng, who has always been low-key and introverted, actually shouted 7 "I love BB" in a row to the camera in an interview, and after Wu Qianyu knew it, he also responded to Lin Feng in the air: "Thank you".
As the relationship between the two gradually deepened, Lin Feng even wrote a song called "BB" as his love for Wu Qianyu.
In addition, as Lin Feng's girlfriend, Wu Qianyu also continues to receive a lot of high-quality advertising resources.
But a twenty-year-old girl, in addition to the beginning of love, also has a very strong desire for material things.
After being with Lin Feng, Wu Qianyu became a princess, enjoying Lin Feng's "special favor" and response to her.
Although Lin Feng is a rich second generation, he usually lives a very frugal life and does not spend money indiscriminately, but after meeting Wu Qianyu, everything changed.
At that time, Wu Qianyu went in and out of major shopping malls every day, and Lin Feng, who walked beside her, became a "ruthless ATM", and always carried large bags of "loot" for her.
Wu Qianyu likes luxury goods, so Lin Feng did not hesitate to buy them.
Wu Qianyu was inconvenient to travel in her daily life, so Lin Feng gave her a 2.4 million sports car.
In just one year, Wu Qianyu spent nearly 10 million on Lin Feng.
The most surprising thing is that on Wu Qianyu's 21st birthday, Lin Feng gave her a mansion of 30 million.
In the eyes of the public, this is simply an incredible thing, everyone thinks that this woman is not simple, and she can fascinate the popular male god.
Because Wu Qianyu has lived an overly extravagant and unprofessional life for a long time, she began to be named a "gold worshipper" by Lin Feng's fans, and some people even said that Wu Qianyu and Lin Feng were together completely to "make money" and be a "fishing girl".
Although Wu Qianyu has never publicly responded to these cynicisms in social situations, she has gradually felt the pressure of this relationship under the impetus of gossip.
Wu Qianyu, who couldn't bear the evaluation of others, took the initiative to break up with Lin Feng. After Lin Feng's best efforts, the two got back together for a while.
But it is difficult to break the mirror, and the lost and regained feelings will always leave cracks.
In March 2018, Wu Qianyu took the lead in announcing her breakup news through social occasions, and then Lin Feng also responded, and the five-year relationship between the two finally came to an end.
This relationship left a deep imprint on Wu Qianyu, and Wu Qianyu began to realize that he was his greatest support, and only when he was strong could he be independent and truly have freedom.
So Wu Qianyu did not break up and fell into sadness, but lived a more active life.
She no longer frequents the mall as often as before, nor does she blindly "buy, buy, buy", but puts more focus on work, works hard to run her own business, and plays more movie roles.
Soon after the two broke up, a reporter asked Wu Qianyu about the matter between her and Lin Feng, she did not have any resentment, but said generously: "Love is actually about timing, once met the right person at the wrong time, it can only be said that there is no fate." ”
In 5 years, Wu Qianyu has grown from an ignorant little girl to a career-minded independent woman.
There is a good saying: if you want to meet excellent people, you must first make yourself excellent.
And Wu Qianyu's continuous progress has also allowed her to encounter more beautiful and broader scenery.
03
From friendship to love, I finally found the right person
At the end of 2018, shortly after breaking up with Lin Feng, Wu Qianyu met Shi Boxiong, a rich third generation who was two years older than him, at a friend's birthday party.
The first time they met, Wu Qianyu greeted Shi Boxiong out of politeness and enthusiasm, but Shi Boxiong not only did not respond in time, but turned a blind eye to her greetings.
Wu Qianyu felt that this person was very rude and had no gentlemanly demeanor at the time, but she thought that the two were just meeting in Pingshui, so she didn't take such a trivial matter to heart.
But Wu Qianyu would never have thought that it was this kind of "no fighting, no acquaintance" that became an opportunity for her and Shi Boxiong to ferment their love.
Because Wu Qianyu and Shi Boxiong have a lot of mutual friends, they will often go out together, and the chances of the two meeting have gradually increased.
After more contact, Wu Qianyu gradually discovered that Shi Boxiong was not the impolite person she thought she was, on the contrary, she and Shi Boxiong had similar interests and hobbies.
Wu Qianyu likes to travel to different countries, while Shi Boxiong likes to travel around the world with his camera to take pictures.
Wu Qianyu likes challenging sports and often goes surfing and skiing, while Shi Boxiong also likes to go to sea and participate in challenging projects.
Wu Qianyu also likes to cook, while Shi Boxiong is a proper "foodie".
Wu Qianyu also found that Shi Boxiong's attitude towards life and life planning are highly consistent with his own, and his three views are also very consistent, and he is very comfortable to get along with.
It is said that chess is the best appearance of love, and Wu Qianyu is also the "ideal type" in Shi Boxiong's heart, so not long after, Shi Boxiong confessed to Wu Qianyu.
Because of the experience and lessons of the previous relationship, Wu Qianyu is very low-key in dealing with Shi Boxiong's relationship.
In the early days of the filming, Wu Qianyu did not post any emotion-related news on social media, and basically did not respond to reporters' questions.
Wu Qianyu's daily display is more of her daily work and life, and she does this to change her image.
The current Wu Qianyu is not the same as the Wu Qianyu five years ago.
After constantly enriching himself and enriching his spiritual world, Wu Qianyu has become more mature and stable than before, knows how to deal with feelings, and is no longer the same as before, only shopping, eating, drinking and having fun.
Because Shi Boxiong's family background is prominent, and his elders are all accomplished businessmen, he was actually strongly opposed after he first learned that Wu Qianyu and Shi Boxiong were together. Because there is a lot of gossip about Wu Qianyu, I am afraid that the reputation of the Shi family will be ruined.
In the face of opposition from the elders, many people may have to give up and choose to break up, but Wu Qianyu did not do this.
Wu Qianyu not only gave Shi Boxiong enough respect, but also was very sensible, and often sent care to Shi Boxiong's family.
During the New Year's holidays, Wu Qianyu will definitely visit Shi Boxiong's grandfather and father with his own heart, not only that, but also give gifts to Shi Boxiong's second, third, and fourth uncles.
Such a love house and Wu are all seen by Shi Boxiong's family. After several contacts, Wu Qianyu was finally recognized by Shi Boxiong's family and began to be accepted by Shi Boxiong's family.
In September 2022, when the two were dating for the third year, Wu Qianyu put an "easter egg" at the end of one of her videos for the first time - a photo of her and Shi Boxiong.
After the official announcement, the two interacted more frequently on social media.
Wu Qianyu will often accompany Shi Boxiong to attend events, and Shi Boxiong will also actively respond to every message from Wu Qianyu, the two have integrated into each other's lives, which is very sweet.
In October this year, it was Wu Qianyu's 30th birthday, and on December 17, the two also held a low-key engagement ceremony in a hotel in Hong Kong.
Wu Qianyu also revealed in "Love's Study Trip" that she and Shi Boxiong will complete their wedding in 2024.
From friendship to love, it is through this stage of friendship that the two know that each other is more suitable for love, and the other party is their right person.
Write at the end
It is said that feelings will make people grow, and Wu Qianyu, who has experienced two relationships, has become more stable.
She no longer pins her feelings on others, but learns to invest in herself and make herself better.
If you are in full bloom, butterflies will come, Wu Qianyu is a good example.
There is never a so-called "cheats for cutting men", all relationships are mutual, and only if you are good enough can you attract people who resonate at the same frequency.
Source: Network Information