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My name is Xiaoxiao, I am 27 years old this year, and I am an urban white-collar woman. Over the years, I have been trying to find a suitable partner to marry, but I have never been able to meet the right one, and my mother has been urging me to get married and have children. Three months ago, I met Lao Li through a blind date agency. At first, I didn't know his personal situation, but I thought he was clean and honest, and he could talk, so I met a few times on a blind date. After a few times, I slowly learned that Lao Li was an ordinary migrant worker, with a low level of education and no good economic conditions. This makes me very embarrassed, on the one hand, Lao Li is very good to me, and I really like him as a person; On the other hand, I am also conflicted about the quality of life. Just when I was hesitant to continue this relationship, Lao Li took the initiative to confess to me, saying that he liked me very much and wanted to pursue me officially. After thinking about it, I decided to give him a chance. At first, I agreed to chase me with a test mentality. "Lao Li, I want to give you a chance, but you must know that my requirements for the object are still relatively high. "I understand, Xiaoxiao, as long as you give me a chance, I will definitely try to satisfy you. Lao Li was very excited. After that, Lao Li really treated me very hard. He often used his evenings to study on his own after work, trying to increase his knowledge, and often bought small things for me. I saw it in my eyes, my heart was warm, and I was really moved. A few months later, under Lao Li's enthusiastic pursuit, I was slowly moved by him, and finally agreed to become boyfriend and girlfriend with him. I thought, maybe Lao Li can really bring me happiness, and I shouldn't care too much about material conditions. After the two officially fell in love, I felt very sweet, and Lao Li was really good and sincere to me. I've had a great time during this time. However, the good times were short-lived. My parents were under increasing pressure on me to get married, and I had to formally introduce Lao Li to my parents. I was a little uneasy and worried that my parents would object. Sure enough, when they saw Lao Li's parents, they immediately frowned. My father was the first to complain: "Xiaoxiao, how did you find such a person! Look at the clothes he wears, he is just an ordinary worker! And the level of education is not high at first glance, it is simply from the countryside! You are a city person, you have studied in college, why is your vision so poor?" Before I could explain, my mother also joined in the criticism: "Yes, Xiaoxiao, the conditions of the people are so poor, what do you like about him? And he doesn't have a house or a car, how will you live after you get married?" I endured the unhappiness in my heart and tried to persuade me gently: "Mom, Don't look at people's appearances. Lao Li is very honest, and he is very good and sincere to me, which is the most important thing. I just like him as a person. "What's the use of liking!" My mother immediately became anxious, "Then do you like to eat and wear in the future?" I'm afraid that if you follow him, you will eat soft rice in the future, and your life will not be good!" I felt very uncomfortable, and defended: "Mom, isn't society advocating equality between men and women now? I will also work to earn money in the future, and I am not ready to rely on my husband every day." However, my explanation did not help. In the end, Lao Li returned disappointed, and I was also very angry, had a big fight with my parents, and ran back to my room. Lying alone in bed, I was distressed. I really like Lao Li very much, and I think he is very good and sincere to me. But the opposition of my parents made it difficult for me to choose. If I really follow Lao Li, my living standard will indeed be affected. But if I give up this relationship like this, I will regret it. After struggling for a long time, I still mustered up the courage to call Lao Li: "Lao Li, I'm sorry, but I think we should break up." My parents were vehemently opposed to it. "Don't say it, break up. I'm sorry. I held back tears and hung up. It was a painful phone call for me. I had a miserable life after that. I was always absent-minded at work during the day; When I'm home alone at night, I can't help but cry. I really like Lao Li, and I hate myself for choosing to break up. Kai often takes the initiative to talk to me and cares about the difficulties I encounter at work. I could tell he had a crush on me. Gradually, Kai began to pursue me, giving me gifts and inviting me to dinner. When my colleagues saw it, they all said that we were a good match. I wavered in the face of Kai's pursuit. It's my dream to find such a good boyfriend. With Lao Li, I am destined to not be able to enjoy a good quality of life; But if I'm with Kai, I'll have the life that countless girls dream of. I'm really intrigued. Deep down, I crave money and material life, which is an undeniable greed for me. My hands shook a little, and I almost knocked over the wine on the table. "Xiaoxiao, are you okay?" Kay looked at me with concern. "It's okay, it's just that I suddenly remembered some of the past and felt a little emotional. "I pulled myself together. Kai is so good that he can provide me with countless material guarantees, which is what I have only dreamed of. But when I looked at his face, I remembered Lao Li's ordinary face. Lao Li can love me unreservedly, but I chose to abandon his sincerity. I was in a trance for the next few days. I could have lived a good life and pursued better development, but my heart was shaken, full of pain and self-blame. Finally, I mustered up the courage to call Lao Li. The phone rang so long that I thought he wouldn't answer. Just as I was about to give up, the phone suddenly connected: "Hey, Xiaoxiao?" It was Lao Li's voice, familiar to me, the voice that was a little shy, but moved me. "Xiaoxiao, it's none of your business, I'm not worthy of you. You find a good person with good conditions, it will make you happy. Lao Li's words were very calm. "Lao Li, I was wrong, let's be together. Even if your conditions are worse, I am willing!" I couldn't help but say the truth out loud. There was silence on the other end of the line. Hearing Lao Li's words, I burst into tears: "Lao Li, I really only need you as a person." Let's be in this together. After hanging up the phone, I breathed a long sigh of relief, and finally put aside those external glory and wealth, and chose the simple happiness that I wanted most in my heart. And Lao Li and I will live a simple and happy life. We will understand each other and support each other. There is no need to pursue material satisfaction too much in life, the key is to have sincere feelings to support it. I finally understood this and was relieved and happy with my choice. After getting back together, I found that Lao Li had indeed become more mature and stable during this time. He began to teach himself the employee management system, hoping to make a difference in 889 Bank. For this reason, he would work overtime every night to study Xi and go home late. One day he excitedly shared with me: "Xiaoxiao, I have been admitted to the professional training in the banking industry, which will be very helpful for my career development!" Hearing him say that he was so happy, I was also sincerely happy for him: "Great, Lao Li! You work so hard, you will definitely get results." I will always support you!" Money is important, but true feelings cannot be measured by money. Watching Lao Li work so hard for our future, my heart swelled with infinite emotion. Lao Li's growth rate is really fast. Within a few months, he passed the company's assessment and was promoted to the head of the accounting department. It's not a very high position, but it's a lot better than before. I vividly remember the night Lao Li was promoted, the tone of his voice when he called me excitedly, and the happiness and sense of accomplishment almost overflowed the phone. I feel very happy with Lao Li, even if my life is not as rich as that of a bank executive. When I came home from work in the evening, I felt extremely satisfied and happy to see Lao Li busy preparing meals in the kitchen. Lao Li will also keep giving me little surprises. One day I was working late on duty, and I was so sleepy that I almost fell asleep. At this time, Lao Li suddenly appeared downstairs in the company and beckoned to me with my favorite fruit. "Lao Li, what time is it, why don't you sleep yet?" I asked movingly. "When you get off work, it's so late, I'll pick you up. Lao Li's face was filled with a happy smile. The bits and pieces with Lao Li, these small blessings are more precious than any glory and wealth in the outside world. It's really worth going through and sustaining this relationship, rather than just throwing it away. As the days passed, the relationship between me and Lao Li became more and more stable and deeper. Although my parents are still a little resentful, they have gradually accepted the fact that we are together. It wasn't long before it was my birthday. Lao Li is mysterious, and it seems that he is planning some birthday surprise. I deliberately didn't go to investigate, just waiting for his arrangement. When I came home from work on my birthday, I opened the door and saw that the room was decorated in pink and pink with a banner that said "Happy Birthday". Lao Li stood at the table, behind me was my favorite cake and various delicacies. "Lao Li, when did you prepare this!" I looked around in surprise. "Hee-hee, isn't it a surprise?" Lao Li smiled proudly, "I took a day off to arrange it in advance." Are you happy?" "So happy!" I gave him a big hug. A simple birthday, no extravagant restaurants or gifts, only a small surprise prepared by Lao Li. But I feel very happy, and my heart is filled with warmth. At this moment, Lao Li suddenly knelt down on one knee and took out a small box from his pocket. "Lao Li, I'm willing!" I burst into tears of excitement as I watched Lao Li put on a diamond ring for me. Later, we had a wedding with the blessing of our parents and relatives and friends. I put on a white wedding dress and walked into the hall side by side with Lao Li. At this moment, I felt the happiest and most satisfying time of my life. I am deeply glad that I chose to return to Lao Li's side. After getting married, Lao Li continued to work hard and was finally promoted again. Now he is the deputy general manager of the bank, bringing a good economic life to our family. I also transferred departments and became a senior designer in the company. We also had a lovely daughter two years ago named Xiaoqing. This little guy is really like a little sun, shining our life warm and meaningful. Watching Lao Li hugging the smiling Xiaoqing playing in the yard, I felt extremely happy and satisfied. We now live in a spacious and bright apartment in the city center and live a happy life. Yesterday, Lao Li excitedly told me that he had been promoted again in the company and was already a senior vice president. I gave him a big hug: "My husband is amazing, I'm proud of you!" Lao Li smiled shyly: "I have to thank my wife for your understanding and companionship over the years." I have grown to where I am today, and your support is very important. I remembered that when we first got together, Lao Li was just a wage earner and didn't even have his own car. Today, he is a bank executive, with a car and a house, worthy of the title of "rich and handsome". But his essence has not changed, and he is still the honest man who takes care of me in every way. In the evening, our family of three happily had a hearty meal. Xiaoqing occupied Lao Li's arms and refused to come down, and asked her father to feed her. Lao Li doted on all her requirements. "Husband, Xiaoqing likes you the most, and she sticks to you every day. I laughed at him. "That's because I spoil her. Lao Li said confidently. In the dead of night, Lao Li and I stood on the balcony and looked at the night view. The city is brightly lit and our homes are warm. I leaned into Lao Li's arms and sighed: "Lao Li, is the past a bit like a fairy tale? Lao Li smiled and kissed my forehead: "Prince Charming also found his beloved princess, this is the arrangement of fate." In the past, I was obsessed with material things and neglected the value of feelings. Fortunately, God opened the door for me and Lao Li to stay together again. I finally learned to let go of everything and choose the happiness that my heart really wanted. Now I have a happy career, a cute and smart daughter, and a partner who loves each other. All of this was exchanged by Lao Li with his sincerity, and it will be the most precious wealth in my life. Maybe many years later, I will tell Xiaoqing our story. Let her understand that the most important thing in loving someone is not the external conditions, but the heart; The most cherished is often the simplest and purest happiness. I will continue this happiness and walk hand in hand with Lao Li through every corner of life.