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A female friend said that the biggest reason for not wanting to go back to her hometown may be the sense of loss of power, no matter how much money you make in the big city, how good you are at work, as long as you return to your hometown, the value is immediately equivalent to that of a sow. There are always only two evaluation systems: first, whether you are fat, and second, whether there is a boar to match. If you get married, you will ask if you have a cub, and at least it must be a male cub, which is really speechless!
Nowadays, young women, in big cities, they work hard, they have successful careers, and they are beginning to pursue financial independence, spiritual independence. And the older generation in my hometown has always stayed at the cognitive level of "it is better for a woman to marry well than to do a good job".
Why are young women reluctant to go back to their hometowns, because their hometown is a place of right and wrong, and it is the origin of gossip, because there are a group of old men, old ladies, and old aunts who have nothing to do all day long, and they only gossip and nothing else to do. Many of them don't understand anything, getting married and having children is the only thing they feel has a say in more than you, if you don't talk about that, what else can they talk about, talk to you about stocks, literature, economics, politics?
The above is just my own opinion, and everyone is welcome to express their opinions.