After the age of fifty, only his wife is still around
When a person enters old age, the long years of youth have passed unconsciously, and in the blink of an eye, gray hair and wrinkles have crept up on his cheeks. Looking back at the past, you will find that the most important bond and attachment in life is no longer the unrestrained friendship, but the confidant who gets along with you day and night and is with you through thick and thin - your wife.
However, many people often do not know how to cherish their blessings, and they regret it until they lose their treasures. For example, Su Min, who is in her fifties, chose to run away from home because of her husband's indifference and ruthlessness, and wandered alone for three or four years.
But when the discordant couple finally met again, a decisive sentence of divorce had already blurted out. This is undoubtedly the darkest bottleneck in life, because when you and I have gone through all the vicissitudes of life, there seems to be no other choice but to move forward hand in hand.
In fact, when the gray hair is old, you and I know that our children will eventually grow up, and one day they will leave the warm home and go to a distant place to work hard. At that time, how can you and I, who are alone, have a sense of belonging and security? Only the bosom friend who is always by our side is the last sustenance of life.
Therefore, when a person leaves home to travel through the landscape, even if the scenery is beautiful, it is not as good as sharing the joy of family with his beloved.
I often wonder if one day I will be faltering and unable to see the world, will I still be able to lean on the arms of my lover and enjoy the prosperity of this world together. When the flowers bloom, when the white clouds drift, when the sun sets, can I still feel the steadfastness, warmth and sweetness?
So, while we can still hold hands, let us hold on to this rare blessing until the end of our lives.
The wife is furious, and the husband shows high emotional intelligence
When a woman is emotional, she speaks unabashedly and unpleasantly words, testing her husband's tolerance and rationality. The host Kou Naixin once became angry with her lover when she was tired, and said heart-wrenching words like "You are second-hand".
At that moment, although her husband Huang Guolun's face was gloomy, he still swallowed his pain and did not show his dissatisfaction.
Afterwards, Huang Guolun only left his wife with a sentence of "some words that cannot be said", and he did not mention it again. This high degree of rationality and tolerance makes people look at him with admiration.
Indeed, if a man fights back in the face of his lover's vexatious trouble, it will only worsen the problem and escalate the conflict. After so many years, can't you still understand the shortcomings of others? It is precisely by taking into account the overall situation and forbearance that this family can prosper for a long time.
In fact, behind every word and deed, a person's inner quality is often revealed. Huang Guolun does not care about his lover, which shows his superior cultivation and mind.
He knew that only by bowing his head could this senseless dispute be settled. When the wife regains her composure, she will also feel remorse and self-blame for her gaffe. The harmony and longevity of the relationship between husband and wife are often based on mutual understanding and disregard of previous suspicions.
For the sake of their children, the elderly should keep peace
When his parents are over the age of six, they are no longer the high-spirited selves they were back then. Every stumbling and sighing of the body reminds us to move towards the end of life.
Therefore, cherishing the time spent with children has become the most important wish of the elderly. However, some old husbands and wives are always arguing over trivial matters, and even speak ill of each other.
In fact, the disharmony between parents seriously affects the mental health and development of children. When hearing the quarrels between relatives, the child's inner sense of security is shaken, and happiness and sunshine are also obscured by the haze.
They are still studying or have just entered the society, and they are already facing heavy life pressure, and if they take on unnecessary family burdens, they will only be more caught off guard.
Therefore, as the elders of the family, it is our responsibility to minimize the mental burden on our children. No matter how uncomfortable you are, you have to put on a smiling face in front of them; Even if you don't agree, learn to give in to each other.
Because harmony is the cornerstone of the happiness of the whole family.
Save money for a rainy day to improve your life in your later years
When a family is financially strained, no matter how sweet the couple is, they will fight each other like enemies. Many people always complain about "bad luck with you", but they don't want to think about whether they are thrifty enough to run the family as a wife.
In fact, a comfortable life in old age is inseparable from a solid economic foundation. Therefore, elderly couples must save money for a rainy day, which is not only related to their own well-being, but also to the future of their children.
Take the host Kou Naixin's parents as an example, after they retired, they bought two properties, one for their own use, and the other for rent. At the same time, it also makes fixed deposits to earn interest, and makes clever use of various investment tools to obtain income.
As a result, even if they no longer work, their quality of life is not affected in the slightest, but is more colorful and organized. This kind of old age life is really enviable.
But unfortunately, many middle-aged people still stay in the concept of "money" and spend, and rarely think about the long term. In fact, as the famous saying goes, "Today's savings change tomorrow's life."
"We need to learn to think about our loved ones today and raise the needs of old age through savings and investments; We also need to be more efficient in our spending and use our limited funds to improve our well-being.
Only in this way can we laugh at life and face financial constraints when we reach the age of sixties.
Therefore, taking precautions to improve old age is the responsibility that every responsible middle-aged person must bear. As long as the elderly couple starts to plan the future hand in hand from now on, they will surely reap the harvest of a happy and safe return to the spring.
With the end of life, you must prepare for middle age
Flipping through the previous article, it is not difficult for us to find a rule: the experience and choices of middle age almost determine the situation of old age. For example, Su Min faced the despair of divorce in her later years because she was not on good terms with her husband in middle age; For example, host Kou Naixin's parents have developed the Xi of saving because they are middle-aged, so they enjoy a carefree old age.
It can be seen that middle age is the most critical turning period in life, and we must seize this decade to prepare for old age. This preparation is first and foremost financially evident – only by ensuring that the purse bag after retirement is bulging can we have the confidence to face the increasing cost of living; The second is reflected in the relationship - if the middle-aged couple is not in harmony, the pain of living alone in old age is unimaginable.
Therefore, as a responsible person, we should think about how to make our spouse happy when we are middle-aged. For example, time deposits to reserve living expenses, and gradually purchase pension houses; For example, learn to tolerate and understand, and establish a deep emotional foundation with your wife.
As long as we make these preparations from now on, we will cross the peak of middle age and come to the twilight of life, and we will surely be able to grow old together and be happy to the end of our lives.
Of course, behind the success is sweat and hard work. If we want to have something to rely on for the elderly, we must be willing to spend money, but also be willing to spend time and thoughts.
But those investments will eventually pay off in old age. Hold your lover's hand, encourage each other, and plan a happy old age together. I firmly believe that the future will be bright.