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People who grew up in the countryside may have heard a lot of folk sayings and proverbs, which sound very similar to smooth mouth and vulgar, but there is often a profound truth behind it.
The life culture in the countryside is relatively simple, there are not so many profound words, simple and direct.
There is a saying - "When a person passes fifty-nine, he walks around in four places".
I used to hear it when I was young, but I didn't think so, I felt that 59 years old was still far away from me, and I didn't pay much attention to it. Now that people are old, recalling this saying, coupled with their own life experience, they slowly have a new understanding.
Reading this proverb is of great help to one's own life, which is a summary of the wisdom of the ancestors.
"People over fifty-nine, four places go around": these 4 places go less, and only in old age can you keep the blessings!
First, don't go to places that are "easy to lose money".
First of all, the first place you can't go to is the place where you are "prone to losing money".
In today's society, after the age of 59, you have entered a retirement life, and you must be very cautious and conservative about your money, and you can't spend money indiscriminately, because there are still many places to spend money after retirement.
What are the places where it is easy to lose money?
For example, some retired elderly people often go to the chess and card room to pass the time, which is a bad hobby, and try to avoid these places; bars, nightclubs, foot bath shops, it is best not to go, these entertainment places are not low.
Also, don't go to some messy health lectures, many of which are essentially selling some nutritional products, which are expensive and expensive.
When people are old, they can keep their money in order to keep their old capital, and in their later years, they have a little savings in their hands, so that they can live with dignity and confidence, and they can be independent without relying on others.
Second, not going to the house of someone who "brings negative emotions".
After the age of 59, people should pay attention to the maintenance of the spiritual level, and try not to contact too much with some people who will bring negative emotions, which will affect their mood.
I once lived in my hometown in the countryside for a while, and I had close contact with a relative, after all, he was also warm, I rarely went back to my hometown, and I didn't know many neighbors and neighbors.
But after a long time, I found that although his character is good and he treats people kindly, he is more pessimistic, and when he encounters something unhappy, such as having a bad relationship with his daughter-in-law, he complains all day long and is depressed.
I tried to enlighten him, but I didn't, because it's hard to change a person's personality. Later, I rarely went to his house as a guest, because every time I went to him, I had to complain about all kinds of unsatisfactory things, and my mood was easily affected, and my good mood disappeared in an instant.
Therefore, after we retire, it is very important to try to interact with some optimistic people, stay away from negative emotions, maintain positive energy, and feel good every day. In any case, live every day happily in order to live this life in vain.
Third, go out for a walk, try not to go to strange and remote places, and consider safety factors.
After retirement, many elderly people are idle at home, and they will often go out for a walk, hang out with their neighbors, and drink tea and chat.
Going out for a walk can not only exercise, but also relax and feel the beauty of nature.
However, it should be noted that unfamiliar and unfamiliar and remote places should be avoided as much as possible, and not too curious, and all aspects of safety should be taken into account.
It is very dangerous for some elderly people, if they do not carry mobile phones and other communication tools, to go to unfamiliar places and get lost, and their families cannot be contacted.
Therefore, whether you go out for a walk or go out to travel, you must have a sense of safety, and try not to go to some remote and sparsely populated places.
Fourth, as a married person, try not to be a guest in the home of a single person of the opposite sex.
In the traditional culture of the Chinese nation, men and women do not kiss each other, especially those with families, they must abide by marriage morality, do not mess with flowers and grass outside, and keep a distance from the opposite sex outside.
So, after retirement, if you meet some single friends of the opposite sex outside,
However, if you have a family, you should pay attention to avoid suspicion, do not go to the home of a single person of the opposite sex as a guest, and do not go out to eat or take a walk together, even if you do not have actual cross-border behavior, it is easy to spread some gossip.
Cherish your reputation and abide by the moral bottom line, this is a qualified retired old man.
"His body is upright, he does not obey orders, and his body is not right, although he does not obey orders." - The Analects of the Analects
In the outside world, there are many temptations, even if you have money and leisure, you must restrain yourself and not do it willfully. After all, we also need to set a good example for our children. Leading by example is the best way to educate.