On December 20, Xie Qingshuai showed his gratitude to his family in an interview with reporters.
"I'm so lucky that the people I met were so good to me," he said, reminiscent of a little story: when he was in high school, his grandparents once reversed the car three times and spent more than two hours delivering him three mooncakes and four apples.
After careful consideration, we will find that among those netizens who care about Xie Qingshuai, there are not many questioning voices about the abuse.
Xie Qingshuai firmly stated that he had never been mistreated.
On the contrary, during his childhood study and Xi, he has always received meticulous care and care from his grandparents, and has never been forced to do any manual work.
Even after he entered high school, his grandparents supported him wholeheartedly in his pursuit of knowledge, "as long as you can be admitted to university and change your fate."
It can be seen that Xie Qingshuai is really happy in terms of family environment.
Interestingly, however, in a country like China, which is known for its respect for elders and values traditional values, there are still a small number of people who are envious, jealous and hateful who question Xie Qingshuai.
They can't seem to stand a young person growing up in the care of his grandparents and having a healthy, happy childhood.
Perhaps this is because these envious people themselves have not experienced real family warmth and care since childhood.
It is undeniable that in China's rural areas, especially in the older generation of workers living in difficult environments, we can feel a strong and deep sense of responsibility and mission.
Even then, however, not all of them measure their success by forcing future generations to bear the same burden.
Xie Qingshuai has encountered and enjoyed only some of these experiences, and it is not possible to infer the situation of all rural families.
Xie Qingshuai was a lucky child who grew up in a warm family environment and received a careful education.
However, behind this seemingly flawless appearance, there are some hidden secrets.
Some people questioned Xie Qingshuai, believing that he was "bought".
Perhaps it is precisely because of this criticism and suspicion that it stimulates a stronger motivation to understand Qingshuai's heart.
Rather than responding to questions from the outside world about the mystery of his origins, Xie Qingshuai chose to remain silent, firmly believing that time would tell the truth.
Behind this persistence and silence is his deep nostalgia and cherishment for his family.
As one of the countries in Chinese culture that attaches great importance to inheritance and bloodline continuity, in Chinese society, the term "buy" is often associated with immoral practices such as buying babies and abducting and selling children.
However, we cannot apply the same to other countries and regions, and in some special cases, "buying" may represent another meaning - the pursuit of parent-child relationships and traditional values.
Especially in some rural areas, children born into families can take on the role of successors in the future, taking care of their parents in their old age.
However, not every family is so fortunate to pass on their blood and wealth.
Xie Qingshuai's environment may be facing such a problem: there is no suitable heir.
We cannot ignore the aspirations, expectations and responsibilities of China's rural elders for future generations.
Therefore, to some extent, the term "bought" cannot simply be classified as illegal behavior or moral turpitude, but should be rationally viewed at the deeper, complex and cultural characteristics.
On the other hand, the phenomenon of "buying" reflects the confusion and pressure of social reality about the delicate balance between family affection and traditional values.
Although Xie Qingshuai chose to answer silently, his heart was full of deep nostalgia and cherishment for his family.
He understands that he has been nurtured by a warm family environment, and he has always felt the selfless love and care given to him by his parents as he grew up.
Such a childhood gives him great emotional satisfaction and a sense of security.
He found endless love and support in his family, laying a solid foundation for his future.
However, growing up in a so-called "bought" environment, although well educated and well cared for, Xie Qingshuai also faced special challenges and pressures.
First, suspicion of the mystery of his origins led to injustice as he grew up.
Skeptics view Xie as a substitute for the best way to break free from traditional values and pursue personal gain, and from this they speculate a series of prejudices and discrimination.
To a certain extent, the theory of "buying" not only contains confusion about the responsibility and inheritance of the bloodline of elderly children in rural China, but also reverses the attitude to grasp the initiative and form a meaningful mechanism.
Secondly, Xie Qingshuai may face identity problems.
Although he grew up in a warm family environment and was well educated, when people in his social circle questioned his "bought" background, such doubts and challenges could weaken his sense of self-identity and create a degree of inferiority complex.
This not only affects the realization of Qingshuai's potential for personal development and achievement, but also restricts his psychological motivation to broaden his horizons and seek broader opportunities, as well as the efforts required to turn his dreams into reality, and maximize their value.
In any case, the "bought" argument cannot simply tie Xie Qingshuai to the label.
We should go beyond the stereotypes and the shackles of traditional concepts in the past, and believe that every child has the right to appreciate a better life and pursue happiness. Whether it is through improved education, equal opportunity granting, or strengthening legal protection, it can help to create a more inclusive, diverse, fair and equal social environment.
Although there may be some controversy and doubts about Xie Qingshuai's background, we cannot deny the love and care he received when he was growing up.
Everyone has the right to struggle and seek happiness on their own, and one should not be bound by stereotypes in the process.
Xie Qingshuai, the son of a wealthy man, is a young man born in a wealthy family, and finally returns home after a long period of planning.
However, it was exactly 20 days after he returned home that he went to visit his grandmother, a 75-year-old man who had been lying in bed for many years.
It is said that Xie Qingshuai's grandfather told him the story of his grandmother's deep longing for her long-lost child.
Because she wanted to see her long-lost loved one again, she didn't know when she began to suffer from various illnesses and fell into long-term bedridden.
Just as the grandfather was telling at this time, he couldn't help but choke up under the emotional surge.
Behind such a seemingly heartwarming and touching story that deserves sympathy and encouragement, there are some problems.
Although Xie Qingshuai, the son of a wealthy man, has a unique identity and status, and is at the mercy of endless resources and opportunities, at the same time, he chooses to devote important time to other aspects rather than caring about the warmth and companionship that his relatives need for each other.
Grandma's tears slipped down Xie Qingshuai's warm palms, as if it was a wordless confession.
He was full of guilt for his grandmother's loneliness and illness for many years, and he also felt regret that he had been away from home for too long.
Thinking back to my childhood, those days spent with my grandmother fill my mind.
At that time, they all knew that the family was not wealthy, but they had a deep and sincere emotional bond between their grandfather, parents and relatives.
However, as time goes by, life becomes more and more hectic, and in the pursuit of material comforts and career success, I let go of the companionship and care that is the most basic need for family relationships.
Faced with the difficulties of physical weakness and the psychological trauma caused by missing her children, she silently endured all the sacrifices that traditional women should have to expect to receive the glory. This expectation has been instilled in us from an early age that a good child should be obedient, filial and respectful to his elders. However, the social environment has undergone many changes, especially in the fast-paced modern life, and people's recognition and attention to family values have gradually faded.
Xie Qingshuai is more aware that all this stems from the problems behind social development and how individuals follow mainstream values towards material supremacy and utilitarianism.
Whether it is the pressure of work or school, or the financial situation, they have kept us away from the sincere and precious family bond in the beginning.
Of course, in the eyes of grandma, seeing her grandson come back is not only excitement and joy.
There must be some slight disappointment and even blame hidden in the heart.
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