Our married life is full of laughter and tears, sweet moments and bumpy moments. However, each challenge and difficulty has made us more determined to rely on each other and understand each other more deeply. In our marriage, I learned a lot about love and marriage.
The first is understanding and respect. In marriage, understanding and respect are the most basic ways of communication between each other. Each of us is an individual with our own thoughts, needs, and feelings. Therefore, we need to learn to respect each other's choices and decisions, and understand each other's thoughts and feelings. It is only on the basis of mutual understanding and respect that our marriage can be lasting and strong.
The second principle is communication and inclusion. In marriage, communication is the key to solving problems. We need to learn to express our thoughts and feelings honestly, listen to each other's opinions and suggestions, and find solutions to problems together. At the same time, we also need to learn to tolerate each other's shortcomings and shortcomings, don't be overly demanding, don't quarrel over trivial matters, and maintain calm communication is an important means to maintain marriage.
The third principle is care and support. In marriage, care and support are the deepest emotional expressions of each other. We need to learn to care about each other's life and work, care about each other's feelings and moods, and always pay attention to each other's needs and expectations. At the same time, we also need to give each other unconditional support and encouragement, face the challenges and difficulties in life together, and pursue happiness and dreams together.
The fourth principle is to cherish and be grateful. In marriage, cherishing and gratitude are the secrets of keeping love long-lasting. We need to learn to cherish each other's time together, cherish each other's love and affection, don't give up easily, and don't ignore each other's efforts because of trivial matters. At the same time, we also need to be grateful for each other's company and support, grateful for each other's companionship and love, and feel and experience the beauty of love with our hearts.
In our marriage, these truths have been profoundly realized and verified. Our love has gone through the baptism of time and has become more and more firm and mature. Now, our married life is full of happiness and fulfillment, we support each other, understand each other, accompany each other, and go through every stage of life together. I am convinced that as long as we continue to cherish and persevere, our marriage will become better and better, and our love will last forever.
The Mid-Autumn Festival is a day of reunion for us Chinese, but in my family, it has become a pot of porridge. This year's Mid-Autumn Festival, I thought it would be the same as in previous years, with my family sitting around, eating delicious mooncakes, and chatting while admiring the moon, but things didn't go as smoothly as I thought.
The day before the Mid-Autumn Festival, my parents and I prepared festive food, including mooncakes, fruits, and various snacks. I opened the cabinet and took out a box of mooncakes, only to find that it contained five-kernel mooncakes. Five-kernel mooncakes have always been spurned in our family, because uncles and aunts hate to eat five-kernel mooncakes, thinking that the fillings in them are too miscellaneous and have a bad taste. I was secretly glad in my heart that this box of mooncakes should be leftovers from last year's Mid-Autumn Festival, but I didn't expect it to be left this year.
That night, my uncle and aunt came to my house one after another, bringing Mid-Autumn Festival gifts and delicacies. The living room was lively, everyone gathered together to laugh and laugh, and took out their mobile phones to take pictures from time to time. I thought to myself, this Mid-Autumn Festival will be very happy.
However, when I opened the box and took out the five-kernel mooncakes, the whole scene suddenly became awkward. The expressions of the uncles and aunts were solemn, and their eyes revealed obvious dissatisfaction. I coughed awkwardly and tried to lighten the mood: "Hey, this mooncake is left over from last year, I think it should be quite delicious." ”
The uncle frowned and looked at the moon cakes in the box, and said dissatisfiedly: "Why do you still buy this kind of five-kernel moon cakes, how many times have I told you, we don't like to eat them." ”
I smiled awkwardly and apologized, "I'm sorry, I didn't expect to have this box left." However, we have other flavors of mooncakes anyway, so you can try the others. ”
The aunts also chimed in: "Yes, the five-kernel mooncakes are too miscellaneous, so let's eat other flavors." ”
I sighed in my heart, this is terrible, I thought it would be a happy Mid-Autumn Festival, but it became embarrassing because of this little accident. I wondered how I could make this embarrassing scene go away.
That's when an idea popped into me. I took out a box of mooncakes with other flavors and took one for each of them. Then, I brought out a few more plates of fruit and snacks and set them on the table. I smiled and said, "These are the Mid-Autumn Festival delicacies I prepared, in addition to five-kernel mooncakes, there are other flavors of mooncakes, fruits and snacks, everyone can eat as much as you want." ”
When the uncles and aunts saw the delicacies on the table, their eyes lit up, and they hurriedly went over to choose them. They picked up other flavors of mooncakes and praised them while tasting them, and their expressions gradually relaxed. When I saw this scene, I secretly breathed a sigh of relief in my heart, and finally resolved the embarrassing situation.
Everyone sat around, eating mooncakes, fruits and snacks, chatting about homely food, and laughing constantly. Although it was a little awkward at first, the atmosphere gradually became pleasant thanks to my efforts. Although there were some surprises during the Mid-Autumn Festival, I was very happy in the end. I have come to appreciate the importance of family reunion, and that no matter what difficulties and challenges we encounter, as long as we work together as one, we will be able to overcome everything.