Nowadays, there is a popular view in society that marriage and childbirth is a kind of enslavement and oppression of women, and if women do not marry and have children, then their status will be unprecedentedly improved, and gender contradictions will be eased. This is actually the wishful thinking of some people, women do not get married and do not have children, which is definitely not a good thing for the whole society, and women themselves are the first victims.
The reason is simple, when it comes to the competition for survival, males naturally have an advantage over females. Females balance this with the function of reproducing offspring. It has created the foundation of today's society, and this is also a foundation that has maintained the stable development of our society for thousands of years!
If we really don't get married and don't reproduce, the status of women will immediately drop dramatically! The preferential treatment given to women in this society will disappear.
(Behind the "ladies first", that is, women bear the burden of childbearing and reproduction)
Populations that are unable to reproduce naturally tend to retain stronger individuals, quickly weeding out vulnerable groups in an attempt to survive longer. It's not that women don't have to live, it's just that they're being pushed to the bottom of the sequence of access to resources.
Compared with intelligence, the average intelligence of men and women is not much different, but the individual intelligence of men is not balanced, and there are always many of them who are particularly intelligent, far above women.
If you don't believe me, just look at the mathematics, physics and chemistry competitions over the years and the ratio of men and women in various scientific research institutions, and you will find that men occupy a great advantage in top scientific research and jobs that require intelligence.
Compared with physical strength, it is even more incomparable, women are naturally weak, and they are not men's opponents at all.
So, when it comes to the workplace, it is obvious that men are more popular than women, and women can't get involved with men!
A ready-made example, looking at our neighbor Japan, where female poverty rates and incomes are simply staggering.
(The poverty of Japanese women has become a social problem!)
As the fertility rate declines, the aging population and the declining birthrate intensify, the market is shrinking, and the number of jobs in demand is also declining.
In such a situation, who will major enterprises choose?
Naturally, there is a need for more men!
In this race for survival, the gender factor has been eliminated. This group of women is no longer considered a woman no matter what their appearance is, they all play the role of "labor", both men and women are the same, or in layman's terms, they are all "social animals" in the eyes of capital.
This is personal competitiveness, and it has nothing to do with marriage and childbearing, marriage and childbearing are just the part they give up. Some people will say, "Isn't what you said earlier a slap in the face?"
Is this really the case? As a woman, there is a high probability that you must first be a woman, have a normal life as a woman, go to school, go to work, get married, and have children.
You give up your rights, you become a kind of genderless social animal, and you are involved in the ups and downs of the workplace with countless men. What you give up is the preferential treatment that society has given you!
What's more, when it comes to competing with men, women don't have any advantage at all!
If you can take advantage, then it is really abnormal!
Some people always regard the success of individual women as a common phenomenon, but they don't know that most women have no advantage at all when competing with men, and they can only be the ones who are eliminated!
Women are unable to find suitable jobs and have low incomes, so it is naturally difficult for them to survive.
I saw a video taken by a compatriot of ours in Japan, who photographed a young and beautiful woman who couldn't find a high-paying job and had to eat instant noodles in an Internet café.
(China will definitely be like this in the future)
You know, in the most developed decades of Japan, the status of women was much higher than that of Chinese women now, and there was a saying that there were four wallets.
However, with the aging of Japan and the declining birthrate, the status of Japanese women has plummeted, and men have begun to wake up and are no longer willing to spend money on women, or even simply not marry or have children.
And women reversed their previous arrogant posture and began to be aggrieved and wanted to get married and have children.
But men are also under great pressure to survive, and it is already difficult to support themselves individually, so how can they get married and have more children?
As a result, a vicious circle has been formed in Japan:
The lower the fertility rate, the harder it is to find a job, the lower the income, the more this happens, the lower the marriage rate, and the lower the marriage rate, the lower the fertility rate......
Of course, the Japanese government also knows that the key to breaking the situation is to increase the fertility rate and make more people willing to get married, but this thing cannot be done at all!