I gave birth to a child at the age of 34, and my mother gave 600,000 yuan, but my mother-in-law didn't let me spend money when I gave birth;

Amon is my cousin, and she is a very good woman. thought that she was so rich, she shouldn't have any trouble with the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

But the reality is Amon's mother-in-law, who can be said to be the kind of person who is good at first sight, but will go crazy after getting along for a long time.

Let's talk about Amon's situation first, she is a famous college student. At that time, college students were still quite valuable.

At the beginning, she was looking for a partner, all by heart, and did not listen to her parents' advice at all, and as a result, she regretted it for the rest of her life.

1. Getting pregnant first and then getting married, and not taking a penny of the bride price

After graduating, Amon stayed in the city where the school was located, where he was employed. At that time, the salary was okay, and she was relatively frugal, and the money every month was enough for living expenses, and she could still save.

Although Amon was an only child, she was not squeamish at all. On the contrary, he was very sensible from childhood to adulthood, and began to be independent during college.

Her parents said that the daughter she gave birth to was here to repay the favor, and she hardly had to worry about it. Xi grades from primary school are also the best, which is the envy of everyone.

Every time there was a holiday, the rest of us kids would be compared to our cousins and then compared. In addition, her parents are willing to buy everything, and she is an only child, she is very happy.

Although we don't criticize, we are not jealous of my cousin, because if she has any good things, she will share them with us. For example, stationery and snacks, she is very willing to share them with us because of her good family background.

Later, after graduating from college, I never talked about a boyfriend, and I was in my thirties for a while. I don't have any experience in love at all, and I met a man from outside the city who was a waiter in a restaurant.

Because my cousin often went to that restaurant to eat after work, after a long time, I trusted the waiter's WeChat and asked her to deliver the food directly upstairs.

With WeChat, the other party is always chatting with his cousin, and there is no match, and slowly there is trust. He started asking my cousin out for hangouts, sometimes singing or drinking.

I have to say that this man is very good at pleasing my cousin, and he gave a large bouquet of roses on his birthday, plus my cousin has zero emotional experience, so he captured the heart, and my cousin became pregnant a month later.

After becoming pregnant, my cousin felt morning sickness for the first time, and she didn't think about the problem at all. directly told my mother that she was pregnant and planned to get a certificate.

Her own mother was stunned, and for the first time felt that her cousin was disobedient, because she had been her own since she was a child, but this time it was too much. But my cousin said that I can finally make my own decisions and don't have to listen to my mother in everything.

However, what my cousin didn't expect was that there were some small things that I couldn't listen to, but this lifelong event really couldn't help but listen. Later, when the parents of both sides met, the atmosphere was very awkward and not very pleasant.

The cousin's parents felt that the other party's family background was not good, and they muttered in their hearts, after all, their daughter would suffer if she got married. When my cousin met her future mother-in-law for the first time, she didn't say anything, but she felt that as long as I was kind to her, she would be able to treat herself better.

For this reason, my cousin's own mother often wiped her tears, and felt sorry for her daughter to marry in that kind of place. Before leaving, she stuffed her cousin with a bank card, which she thought was 50,000,100,000. A check is a full 600,000 inside, presumably it is the continuation of the parents' life.

My cousin also cried, on the one hand, I didn't know if I chose the wrong person, and on the other hand, I was moved, and it was better for my own mother.

Second, the in-laws are pregnant and confined, and regret it for a lifetime

This is the idea of many people who have just started to be a daughter-in-law, and after a long time, they will know that their mother-in-law is not a mother after all, and it is not that you are good to her. This is a real life, which is as simple as words.

After getting married, my cousin continued to go back to work. She worked harder than before, and she didn't even rest when she was pregnant, and she felt that she had to save money for milk powder. In addition, the mother-in-law did not give a bride price, and the two of them did not have any savings in hand.

My cousin's husband continued to work as a waiter in that restaurant, and then there was pressure from the family to achieve a position similar to that of a foreman, but the salary was still very low. And I have to go to work even on holidays, so I can't take care of my cousin at all.

In the end, my cousin took maternity leave 2 months early and went back to her mother-in-law in the countryside to take maternity leave. Although I went back on vacation, I actually had to cook every meal by myself, and my mother-in-law went out to the town to do manual work, so she was too busy to take care of her every day.

Sometimes my mother-in-law comes back late, and she has to cook for her mother-in-law, and sometimes she has to cook too much, and she has to count her waste of food. This is a waiting birth, and I haven't enjoyed any serious treatment. After a long time, she had resentment in her heart.

I complained to my husband several times, and her husband said that it would be like this, and it was like this in rural areas. Let her not care, and then go back to work.

finally survived until she gave birth to a baby, she wanted to have a caesarean section directly, but her mother-in-law felt that it was more economical to give birth naturally, and she was not allowed to spend money indiscriminately. I also heard that a smooth birth is good for her grandson, and insisted that she have a smooth delivery.

What's even more excessive is that a few days before giving birth, her mother-in-law made her a pot of soup on a whim, which was black and said that it was to remove fetal poison. My cousin didn't dare to drink at all, but she didn't want to fall out with her mother-in-law. didn't let her mother-in-law know, and they all fell into the fish pond in front of the door.

I used to think that this kind of thing would only be in the news, but I didn't expect to meet this kind of mother-in-law, and I was speechless for a while. She is 34 years old after all. Of course, whatever the risk is small, do what you do, and it is better for your body.

My mother-in-law didn't understand anything, but she commanded blindly. My cousin endured it, and originally thought that after giving birth, she would also go to the confinement center, but her mother-in-law would definitely have to count her down.

Although she is not a wealthy person, her parents gave 600,000 yuan, plus she also has more than 200,000 yuan in savings, so she still has some spare money on hand.

Her husband also helped to speak, but she really couldn't resist this mother's stubbornness, and she didn't listen to what she said. I don't want to offend my mother, so I'm a peacemaker at most, and my mother and wife don't want to offend.

Now that I have a baby, I have to suffer for a month of confinement, and I have to feed the child and change diapers every day if I don't sit well in confinement. I heard that she didn't sit well in confinement and had low back pain, but she couldn't take care of it, and regretted it for the rest of her life.

Third, my mother is finally here, like a relief

A month later, she called her mother aggrievedly, and her mother rushed over as soon as she heard about it.

Her mother stayed in a hotel in the town at night, went to her in-laws' house during the day, and her daughter took her back to her home to take care of her daughter and grandson.

Now my cousin is relieved, and she doesn't have to talk too much about her mother-in-law. I will never say that she wasted it at every turn, and show her face.

At her mother's house, she ate and drank every day, and her mother also found her a nanny. There are people with children every day, and every day is very comfortable. She said: I won't go back to my mother-in-law's house in the future, and I and my children will settle down here.

Anyway, the in-laws didn't give a bride price, and they didn't buy a house. Now I am full of confidence and can settle down here with my mother. Buy a house and settle a household registration, change the household registration for the children, and never go back to your in-laws' house to live that kind of life again.

Now she also believes that what her parents said at the beginning is not an exaggeration, every word is real life.