Of course, it was the experience of traveling to Yunnan with my family. I still remember that day when everyone packed their bags early and the family sat happily on the train, the whole carriage was filled with excitement.
On the first day of departure, we came to a small town called Tengchong, where we heard about the magnificent natural scenery and magical hot springs.
The next day was the most awaited day of the whole trip, and we planned to climb a majestic glacial peak called Jade Dragon Snow Mountain.
But when I arrived at the bottom of the mountain, I suddenly felt dizzy and was stuck in altitude sickness, unable to move forward at all.
At that moment, I felt the care and love of my family, and it also strengthened my vow not to marry.
And that day, a scene in the hospital made me feel the impermanence of life, and it also gave me some new views on relationships.
"Mom and Dad, I've decided, I'll think about it when I go back, maybe I really need a home. I said.
"Well, whatever decision you make, we'll support you. Mother took my hand, "We just want you to live a happy life."
"Thank you, I'll think about it. I smiled and nodded.
"Once I accompanied you for a day, and I begged you to get married?" my mother looked at me with tears in her eyes, "You know how much I wish you could find a good home.
I felt a shock in my heart, and I knew how much my mother cared about my marital problems. I gently shook her hand and said, "Mom, I know your expectations, but I need to think carefully about getting married, and it can't be solved on the spur of the moment."
The father whispered, "Son, you just need to know that no matter what decision you make, we will support you." ”
I know what they're doing, and they're doing it for my good, but I'm still hesitant in my heart. That night, I walked alone in a strange town, and my heart was conflicted.
But at the same time, I was also afraid of losing myself in my marriage, and I still had too many dreams and plans to complete.
Back in the warmth of my home, I sat quietly on the edge of my bed. Suddenly, the phone rang and it was a not-so-familiar phone number.
My heart tightened, and I hurried to the hospital. The doctor told me that her condition had deteriorated rapidly and that she needed immediate surgery. Her ID card had no information about her relatives, leaving only a phone number from the Urgent Recruitment Center.
At the recruitment center, I met a middle-aged man with a haggard face. He told me that the lady was his ex-wife, and that the two divorced shortly after their marriage and had not been in touch for many years.
I was by her side, and I felt her strong side and was deeply touched. Maybe I still have a lot of concerns about marriage, but I don't reject the possibility of falling in love.
When I got home, I was immersed in thinking about my family. The support of my parents warmed me, but the loneliness and fear deep inside also made me feel lost.
The next day, I received a phone call that surprised me. It's a strange man who introduces himself as a friend of a friend who wants to meet me.
Under his persistent questioning, I agreed.
The meeting place was set at a small café. He was a slightly mature man, well-talked, and introduced himself to me kindly.
We talked about a lot of topics and everything was very natural. The care he showed for me was healing, and in the short time we spent together, he became a reason for me to stay.
When I got home, I began to relive that conversation, remembering my parents' objections and making me hesitate for a moment.
Immersed in contradictions and thoughts, I couldn't sleep.
The next day, I mentioned the man to my parents and asked them to give some advice. Unexpectedly, they were extremely disgusted by this, accusing me of acting hastily, believing that I was influenced by external pressure.
The scene was awkward and the atmosphere was tense. This topic has become another fuse that causes conflicts in the family.
But the contradiction became more and more intense, and I realized that this is not the first time such a contradiction, nor is it the last.
In the days since I got home, I have been thinking about my parents' words. Their eyes revealed concern and anticipation for me, as if their whole world revolved around my marriage and happiness.
Just as I was deep in thought, a car suddenly drove towards me, and I didn't have time to react, I just felt that it was dark in front of me, and I lost consciousness.
Seeing me wake up and my parents walked in, their anxious expressions made me feel a little distressed.
"Why are you so careless?!" the mother blamed.
"Yes, be careful, kid. My father was also a little angry.
"I'm sorry, I'll be careful later. I quickly apologized.
This accident made me think more about the meaning of life and family. My parents are no longer young now, all they want is to see me live a happy life, and I have always been centered on my own wishes, maybe I should think more about my family.
On the night I got home, I sat in the living room with my parents, and I solemnly apologized to them, but also said frankly that I was starting to think about getting married.
"Child, have you finally figured it out?" said my mother, looking at me with relief.
The father also smiled, "That's good news. ”
"However, I don't just find someone to get married, I want to find someone who really understands me. I said.
"Of course, we will also support your decision, as long as it is your own choice. Mother said.
The attitude of my parents warmed my heart, and I decided that I wanted to leave a few more choices in my life and find someone who really understood me, which was very important to me.
It dawned on me that love for family members may not necessarily be reflected in marriage. This accident in the hospital has made me know how to cherish the people in front of me, including my parents, and the person who may spend my life with me in the future.
As for flash marriage, it's an option, but it's not the only one.
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