Three fortunate things in life: when the title of the gold list is inscribed, he meets his old acquaintance in another country, and the cave room spends candle night.
Three major misfortunes in life: the loss of a mother at an early age, the loss of a wife in middle age, and the loss of a child in old age.
However, is it a great misfortune for a child to be born and disabled?
The little girl was born with crippled hands, which is an inferiority complex for the little girl in the future, and a lifelong pain for her parents.
Looking at the daughter who was born without arms, as parents, they must be very sad and may also feel guilty, because the child has no arms, it is likely that the parents did not take a pregnancy test in time due to their luck and did not know that the child is disabled.
Looking at the parents who were born without arms, they must have regretted it, because they tried to save trouble and harmed their children for the rest of their lives.
What does it mean to have no arms?
Not to mention working in the future, I can't even brush my teeth and wash my face, it's difficult to take care of myself, and my work efficiency in society is lower than others, how can I not be disliked by others?
Most of the sufferings in the world are not innate, but are caused by human beings themselves.
The child is still young, he doesn't know what a disability is, he doesn't know what a grievance is, he begins to be sensible, and when he sees the difference between himself and others, he will be lost, and even give up on himself and regret coming to this world!
The child's smile is so innocent, pure winged angel, I hope to be able to maintain this optimistic attitude forever, my heart is happy for her at the same time, I can't help but worry about her life in the future, although now the technology is developed, and when she grows up, she may be able to install a robotic arm, but it is not native after all, there will be many inconveniences.
At such a young age, many able-bodied children are unable to take care of themselves, let alone a little girl without hands, her life, at the moment of birth, is already full of ups and downs, the road is full of thorns, and if you are not careful, you will be stabbed to the skin!
Fortunately, the child's parents have enough responsibility, did not dislike the child's natural disability, and chose to raise the little girl well, cultivate her self-reliance and self-improvement from an early age, and learn the courage to challenge life.
It can be seen from the expression of the child's father that this father loves his daughter deeply, and it can be seen from his encouragement of the child's autonomy that he has given too much love to the child!
A few years later, after years of washing and washing, she will definitely be able to face up to her disability problem, so as to motivate herself to work hard, although she is disabled, but she does extraordinary things!
No one can guarantee the life after a few years, and now being able to accompany their daughter to grow up healthily is the only love that parents can give, maybe because there is no prenatal examination, or it may be because the prenatal examination is late and the child is formed and does not want to be killed, in short, it does cause the child's congenital disability, which is the pain of the family!
As the saying goes, "A happy childhood heals the pain of a lifetime, and an unhappy childhood needs a lifetime to heal", this saying may be perfect for a little girl!
The responsibility of parents is to never dislike the defects of their children, but also to tolerate their shortcomings, do their best to raise their children, and watch them get married and have children, so that they can withdraw from their children's lives with dignity.
It's just that some parents are destined to never be able to withdraw from their children's lives for the rest of their lives, not for anything else, just because their children are born with disabilities.
In the comment area, the words of netizens are too touching, and I can't calm down for a long time after reading it.
1. She is a girl, what should I do if I have my menstrual period in the future?
It's okay if you can install a mechanical arm, but what if you can't? The girl will come every month during her menstrual period, and she will have to be tortured to death.
2. This is the importance of prenatal checkup! You could have made her ready to come to this world, but it was too cruel to let her become a winged angel!
3. The child doesn't understand anything now, she thinks that's it, but when she grows up, she will really have an inferiority complex when she sees that her classmates can work with their hands.
4. More kind-hearted netizens said directly: "Even laughter makes me feel so heartbroken, why is this happening?"
A child will not understand what disability and resentment are, but when she grows up, no one can guarantee how much trauma it will cause to her psyche and whether it will stay with her for the rest of her life.
Therefore, it is also recommended that pregnant parents should go to the hospital for more pregnancy tests to keep abreast of the growth of the fetus, so that there is enough time to make a decision, and it can also give the child a fair starting point for entering the WTO.
Aside from academic qualifications and abilities, if a person is not able to be equal to others in terms of physical functions, how difficult it will be to gain a foothold in the future!
Acquired disabilities may not be avoidable to us, but the congenital disadvantages that can be detected by instruments and machinery, parents should not be too troublesome, and giving their children a fair body is the first lesson that prospective parents should learn.
There will be all kinds of problems in the growth of the fetus, so there is a need for pregnancy testing, if the fetus can grow healthily, how can the pregnancy test continue to the present!
If the child is born with a physical disability because of no pregnancy test, it is unfair to the child's life, and parents have an unshirkable responsibility!
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