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My name is Li Jing, I am 29 years old, I am an accountant, and I have been married to my husband Zhang Tao for three years. Our married life was uneventful, until that day, my mother-in-law suddenly gave us 250,000 yuan, asking for a room for my aunt when we bought a house.
"It's timely, we can get a bigger house. I said excitedly to Zhang Tao.
Zhang Tao frowned, obviously not very satisfied with this condition. I know he always doesn't like to be too close to my family, but this time it was a little different.
"Li Jing, do you really think this idea is good? Your aunt will not be affected if we move in?" Zhang Tao looked a little worried.
"Don't worry, my aunt is very good and won't cause us trouble. "I tried to comfort him.
At this moment, my aunt Liu Fang suddenly called, excitedly talking about moving in. Her voice was always so enthusiastic, but Zhang Tao was even more unhappy when she heard it.
"I'll have to think about it. Zhang Tao was silent for a while, and finally spoke.
I don't feel good about it. I know Zhang Tao is a good man, but sometimes his stubbornness makes me feel that communication is difficult.
A few days later, we invited my good friend and real estate agent Yang Liu to discuss buying a house. Yang Liu is a shrewd and capable woman who has always given me a lot of advice.
"Li Jing, you have thought it too carefully. It's a great opportunity. Yang Liu looked at Zhang Tao, "Zhang Tao, what do you think?"
Zhang Tao seemed a little hesitant: "I'm just worried that there will be inconvenience in the future." ”
"Oh, what's so inconvenient about this, it's your family!" Yang Liu smiled and comforted Zhang Tao.
While we were discussing, my father-in-law suddenly called, and his attitude was very resolute: "Xiao Zhang, the money I gave is not for nothing, you have to promise to leave a room for Xiao Fang." ”
Zhang Tao listened to his father-in-law's words, and his face became even more ugly. I could feel his uneasiness and pressure, but I also understood my family's expectations.
That night, Zhang Tao and I had a long talk. He talked about his concerns and the importance he valued the marriage. I tried to understand his position, but also expressed my expectations for the family.
Conflicts are slowly accumulating between us like this, and everyone has their own position, but it seems difficult to find a perfect solution.
As time passed, Mr. Zhang's attitude softened. He began to consider accepting this condition, but still had reservations.
We started looking at the property and picked a few suitable locations. In the process of viewing the house, I noticed that Zhang Tao was sometimes absent-minded, and I knew that he was still a little resistant.
One day, we finally took a fancy to a four-room house with a good location and good lighting. Zhang Tao and I were quite satisfied, but when it was mentioned that I would leave a room for my aunt, Zhang Tao's face sank again.
"Do we really need a house that big?" Zhang Tao asked hesitantly.
"It's not just for my aunt, it's for our future lives. "I tried to convince him.
At this moment, my aunt Liu Fang called, and she was very excited when she heard that we had taken a fancy to the house. "Li Jing, I've started packing my things and I'm ready to move over!" her voice was full of antiquity.
I looked at Zhang Tao, and his expression was a little complicated. I know it's going to be a big challenge for him.
After the house was bought, Zhang Tao and I began to be busy with renovation and moving. We both have busy schedules, but we try to find time to take care of these things.
In the process, Zhang Tao and I had more communication. He began to express his concern: "Li Jing, I'm afraid that our private space will be disturbed. ”
I understood his concerns and tried my best to reassure him: "We can communicate with my aunt and set some rules for life." ”
Gradually, Zhang Tao seems to accept this reality. But just as we were busy renovating our new home, the unexpected happened.
My father-in-law suddenly had to come to our city for a few months because of his work. He moved in without prior notice.
Zhang Tao was clearly unhappy with the sudden change. "Li Jing, this is no longer just your aunt's problem. ”
I also felt a little caught off guard, but I tried my best to reconcile this complicated family relationship.
The arrival of his father-in-law made the already tense family atmosphere even more delicate. I tried to mediate between Zhang Tao and my father-in-law, but it was not easy.
On the one hand, I didn't want Zhang Tao to feel neglected or violated, and on the other hand, I didn't want my father to feel unwelcome.
Despite this, Zhang Tao and I managed to maintain our daily routines. We tried to adapt to this new family landscape, albeit with challenges.
One night, Zhang Tao and I sat on the balcony of our new home, looking at the night sky. Zhang Tao suddenly spoke: "Li Jing, I know this is not easy for you. ”
I shook his hand: "Thank you for your understanding, we will definitely get through this." ”
At this moment, my mobile phone rang, it was my good friend Yang Liu. She heard about our recent predicament and made a point of calling to care.
"Li Jing, you have to come on, remember that you came together because of love. "Yang Liu's words warmed my heart.
Hung up the phone
After hanging up the phone, I returned to Zhang Tao and sat next to him, staring at the starry sky in a daze. Yang Liu's words made me think a lot, and I knew that no matter how difficult it was, we had to stick to our love.
After a few days, I began to notice an improvement in the relationship between my father-in-law and Zhang Tao. They would play chess together and chat occasionally. I'm relieved that at least they're trying to fit in with each other.
However, the peace of the family did not last long. One night, Aunt Liu Fang suddenly moved in with a lot of luggage. Her arrival has brought a new change to the atmosphere of the home.
My aunt is a straightforward and lively woman, and her arrival has filled the family with vitality. But at the same time, her presence also began to make Zhang Tao feel uncomfortable.
"Li Jing, look at it, the house has become so messy. "Zhang Tao complained to me one night.
I know that when he says "chaos", he is not only referring to the order in the family, but also to the disruption of our originally peaceful life.
"Give it some time, everyone needs to get used to it. "I tried my best to reassure him.
And myself, I'm trying to adapt to this sudden change of life. Work, family, and relationships between husband and wife, all of them require a lot of energy.
At this time, a distant relative of Zhang Tao, Xiaowei, suddenly contacted us. He had just graduated from college and wanted to look for a job in our city, so he needed a temporary place to stay.
After discussing with Zhang Tao, we decided to let Xiaowei live in our house temporarily. After all, home is everyone's safe haven.
The arrival of Xiaowei has made our family more lively. He is an optimistic and cheerful young man who quickly mingles with everyone.
However, just as we were getting used to the hustle and bustle of life, Zhang's work changed. He was sent by the company to work in the field and needed to travel frequently.
This is another challenge for us. Our time has become more difficult to coordinate, and communication between couples has suffered.
I started to feel stressed. On the one hand, we must take care of our family, and on the other hand, we must support Zhang Tao's work. The weight of life is a little overwhelming for me.
At this moment, Xiaowei found a good job and was ready to move out. His departure has eased the atmosphere at home, but the distance between me and Zhang Tao seems to be quietly increasing.
Every time Zhang Tao came home, we would try to find time to get along, but we always felt that something was missing. Our conversations became less and less and more silent.
One night, Zhang Tao suddenly said, "Li Jing, we need to have a good talk." ”
I know this conversation won't be easy. We sat in the living room, Zhang Tao looked at me, his eyes full of mixed emotions.
"I know it's not been easy for you lately. Zhang Tao's voice was a little choked, "I am rarely at home, and you have to face so many things alone." ”
I nodded, sense
Feeling his understanding and guilt, "We're all trying, but maybe we need to find a better way to deal with these issues." ”
"Yes, I feel like we need some time, alone time, to rediscover our relationship. Zhang Tao made a suggestion.
I took a deep breath and understood what he meant. Our relationship needs to be recalibrated and reinvigorated.
The following weekend, we decided to go on vacation together in the countryside, away from the pressures of family and work. It was there that we had the deepest and most honest exchange in a long time.
"I've always felt pressured and scared of losing you and losing our home. Zhang Tao said to me on that quiet night.
I took his hand, my eyes filled with gratitude, "You've been trying, I know." We are all working hard, for our home, for our love. ”
That trip was like a baptism of the soul and strengthened our relationship. Once home, we decided to schedule small trips like this on a regular basis to keep our relationship fresh and vibrant.
But life is always full of surprises. Just as we were trying to regain balance in our lives, my father-in-law suddenly fell ill. The news was like a bomb that shattered the harmony we had just established.
My father-in-law's condition needs to be taken care of, and after discussing with Zhang Tao, I decided that I would go home to take care of him temporarily.
This decision has disrupted our lives once again. I was busy taking care of my father-in-law every day and also having to deal with work matters, while Zhang Tao had to deal with the family affairs alone.
While we both knew it was a decision that had to be made, this time of separation put our relationship to the test again.
After my father-in-law's condition improved, I returned to my home. But this period of separation made the relationship between me and Zhang Tao a little rusty.
We need time to readjust to each other, and it takes time to repair the rift in this time.
While we were struggling to adjust and repair our relationship, Aunt Liu Fang announced that she had a new job opportunity and needed to move to another city.
The news made the atmosphere at home a little complicated. On the one hand, we are happy for her, and on the other hand, we also feel a little lost because she has become part of our family.
On the day my aunt moved out, Zhang Tao and I took her to the train station. We were all a little reluctant, but also excited for her new life.
The departure of the aunt made the house a lot quieter. Zhang Tao and I began to rely on each other more, trying to fill in the void she had left behind.
We began to rearrange our affairs at home, trying to regain our original rhythm of life. Despite the difficulties, we all have faith.
One day, Zhang Tao came home with a smile on his face: "Li Jing, I talked to the company, and I don't need to travel so often in the future." ”
I am very happy that it means we can have more time together and rebuild our family life.
We started planning for the future together, thinking about whether or not to have it
Children, re-plan our family life. After so many twists and turns, we cherish each other more and understand the importance of family and love.
Gradually, our lives got back on track. Work, family, and the world of two, we are starting to approach these relationships more balancedly.
One day, Zhang Tao proposed, "Li Jing, should we think about the child? I think we are ready." ”
When I heard this proposal, my heart was filled with joy and anticipation. "Yes, I think the same way. I replied.
We started planning for pregnancy and were looking forward to the arrival of a new family member. This idea gives us new hope and motivation, and fills our lives with more expectations and aspirations.
However, life doesn't always go according to plan. Although we were looking forward to the arrival of the child, in fact, the process of pregnancy was not as smooth as we thought.
Months have passed, and we have not waited for the expected good news. This situation is starting to put new strains on our relationships.
I started to get anxious and worried about whether I had a problem or not. Zhang Tao tried his best to comfort me, but I could tell that there was concern in his eyes.
In search of answers, we began to seek the help of doctors. After a series of examinations and treatments, the doctor told us that there was nothing wrong with us, just that we needed more time and patience.
We breathed a sigh of relief when we learned the news. But the experience of this period of time makes us cherish each other more and understand the difficulty of life more.
We started to focus more on enjoying the world for two rather than just focusing on the outcome. We have learned to find joy in waiting, we have learned to find perfection in imperfection.
Finally, one spring a year later, we waited for the good news. When I told Zhang Tao that we were going to become parents, his eyes filled with tears and smiles.
This news fills our family with renewed vitality and hope. As we began to prepare for our new life, the whole family was immersed in joy and anticipation.
As we prepare for a new life, our relationship grows closer. We discussed children's names and imagined future lives, all filled with fun and happiness.
Finally, the child was born, and we named him "Ozawa". His arrival makes our family more complete and our love deeper.
We have gone through many difficulties and challenges, but it is these experiences that have strengthened our relationships and made our families more welcoming.
Now, I often think back to those difficult days. Those challenges and difficulties have taught us to love each other better and to find balance in the ups and downs of life.
With Ozawa by our side, our family was filled with laughter and joy. Zhang Tao and I also found a new purpose in life, and our love was sublimated under the witness of our children.
We know that there will be many challenges and difficulties ahead, but as long as we are with each other
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