Home was originally the warmest haven for a child, but Yang Yanjue, who was only 7 years old, chose to run away from home.
After 22 years, when Yang Yanjue became a mother, she wanted to find her father and ask what happened.
Why did the young and ignorant Yang Yanjue insist on escaping from the home that could have sheltered her?
22 years have passed, Yang Yanjue wants to find her father again, what is it to ask clearly?
The girl was frequently beaten by her father
In 1990, Yang Yanjue was born in a small county town in Chongqing.
Yang Yanjue also has an older brother, although Yang Yanjue and her brother are not much different in age, but their parents treat her and her brother very differently.
Because Yang Yanjue's father Yang Naiwu has a deep traditional concept and is very patriarchal, he treats his brother with all his obedience, but he often treats Yang Yanjue coldly.
There are delicious and fun things at home, and her parents always leave them to her brother first, and Yang Yanjue can only wear her brother's old clothes and play with her brother's old toys.
Although Yang Yanjue is also very eager for the love of her parents, she can only watch when she is young, and her brother enjoys all the love of her parents alone.
Yang Yanjue has lived in a life without parental care since she was a child, but at least she has a complete home.
It is precisely because of this that Yang Yanjue has been extremely obedient and sensible since she was a child, knows how to observe words and feelings, and never makes her parents angry.
However, even with such compromises, Yang Yanjue's life changed dramatically in 1997.
At this time, the factory where Yang Naiwu worked was in the midst of a wave of layoffs, and he unfortunately became a member of the laid-off list.
The reason is precisely because in that era of family planning, Yang Yanjue was a superborn child, which also became the direct reason for Yang Naiwu's layoff.
So Yang Naiwu, who was laid off at home, drank all day to relieve his boredom, and all the reasons why he lost his job were attributed to the young Yang Yanjue.
Since then, Yang Yanjue has become her father's "punching bag", and Yang Naiwu will beat and scold her if she doesn't go well.
Because of his father's beating from time to time, the young Yang Yanjue lived in panic all day long.
At that time, she didn't understand why her father suddenly seemed to be a different person, and why he was violent to her.
Young and helpless, Yang Yanjue was powerless to resist at all, so she could only endure all this silently.
However, Yang Yanjue's well-behaved and forbearance did not win her father's love and restraint, but became more intensified.
At first, his father only scolded Yang Yanjue, but later it developed to the point of adding fists and kicks at every turn.
Later, his father would beat Yang Yanjue with a belt, and even when he was drunk, his father would burn Yang Yanjue's immature skin with a red-hot cigarette butt.
In this way, Yang Yanjue, who was only 7 years old, was beaten by her father and was scarred, and her body was blue and purple.
's father's domestic violence against Yang Yanjue really scared the little Yang Yanjue.
Yang Yanjue, who was beaten and bruised all over her body, was in pain, and in order to escape her father's beatings, she could only run away from home again and again.
Only her mother found Yang Yanjue, who had escaped from the house, back again and again, and then carefully wiped her wounds.
However, Yang Naiwu's violent behavior has never been restrained at all, and finally after a drink, he beat up the young Yang Yanjue again.
This time, after Yang Yanjue was beaten by her father again, she ran away from home and never returned home.
22 years away from home
Yang Yanjue, who fled from her home, was only a seven or eight-year-old child, and she was both penniless and had no place to stay.
Although she had nowhere to go, Yang Yanjue made up her mind this time and resolutely refused to go back to that cold home, she did not want to be beaten by her father again.
So Yang Yanjue could only walk aimlessly on the street alone, and she was noticed by a couple who came to Chongqing from Hunan to work.
The couple saw Yang Yanjue as a young child, wandering alone on the streets, and her body and face were already dirty.
They originally thought that Yang Yanjue was a lost child, so they stepped forward to ask where Yang Yanjue's home was.
Hearing someone ask where her home was, Yang Yanjue thought she was going to send her home, but she couldn't help crying in fright.
Yang Yanjue couldn't stop crying, but she never mentioned where her home was.
The couple couldn't ask anything, and they were worried that Yang Yanjue would meet bad people outside alone, so they had to take the poor Yang Yanjue back to their rented house.
After the husband and wife took Yang Yanjue back, they cooked a meal for her and prepared to send her home after she finished eating.
But after Yang Yanjue gobbled up the meal, she still never mentioned where her home was.
The embarrassed couple couldn't ask anything from Yang Yanjue's mouth, so they could only let Yang Yanjue live with them temporarily.
Seeing that the New Year is approaching, the couple is ready to go back to their hometown in Hunan for the New Year, but what should Yang Yanjue do, which makes it difficult for the two of them.
Hearing that the couple who took him in were going back to their hometown, Yang Yanjue begged them to take him away together.
In this way, the couple brought Yang Yanjue back to their hometown in Huaihua, Hunan, and began to live here.
In fact, the couple who adopted Yang Yanjue did not have a good life, and they also had three children and elderly parents at home.
In order to stay in this family, the young Yang Yanjue is extremely sensible, and she always rushes to do any dirty work.
Although she had to send someone to the fence at a young age, Yang Yanjue would rather live in a strange family than go back to the home that frightened her.
In this way, Yang Yanjue gradually integrated into this new family, and she lived in the home of her adoptive parents for 22 years.
Although Yang Yanjue has lived in her adoptive parents' house for 22 years, she also gets along very well with her adoptive parents' family.
But when her adoptive parents asked her about her background, she was never willing to reveal a word.
The shadow brought to her by her father's beating in her childhood lingered, so that Yang Yanjue would tremble with fright when she saw someone who looked similar to her father.
Therefore, Yang Yanjue does not want to recall that painful past, nor does she want to return to the home that made her sad.
My brother and sister-in-law helped to find relatives
Where did Yang Yanjue come from, whose child was it, and why she ran away from home in the first place, all of this haunted her adoptive father and adoptive mother like a mystery.
As Yang Yanjue grows up day by day, the brother and sister-in-law of the adoptive parents' family want to help her find her biological parents.
My brother and sister-in-law didn't know the inside story of her running away from home back then, and they kindly thought that Yang Yanjue, who had been away from home for many years, would definitely want to reunite with her family.
So my brother and sister-in-law secretly signed up for a family search show behind Yang Yanjue's back, hoping to help Yang Yanjue find her biological parents with the help of the program team.
The program team finally found Yang Naiwu through various channels, and when her brother and sister-in-law told Yang Yanjue the "good news", she was so shocked that she cried.
The brother and sister-in-law were taken aback by Yang Yanjue's reaction, and the childhood shadow brought to Yang Yanjue by her father resurfaced.
The brother and sister-in-law didn't understand why Yang Yanjue showed a frightened look when she heard her father.
"He beat me to death, and I ran out because I was scared. ”
Only now did Yang Yanjue tell her adoptive parents and brother and sister-in-law the truth about why she ran away from home back then.
After her brother and sister-in-law learned the truth, they decided not to force Yang Yanjue to recognize her biological father, but let her make her own choice.
In fact, in Yang Yanjue's heart, although she was afraid of her father, she also wanted to ask her father countless times to understand.
Why did my father do this to his young self?
As an adult, Yang Yanjue had a failed marriage and raised a child of her own.
Yang Yanjue has had her own marriage and children, and she can better understand the love and pity of parents for their children.
It was precisely because of her own personal experience that she couldn't understand why her father was so cruel to her in the first place?
Although her father thinks that Yang Yanjue is a girl, this cannot be the reason why she was beaten by her father!
The brother and sister-in-law who learned the truth no longer persuaded Yang Yanjue to find relatives, but she wanted to ask her father in person why she beat herself back then.
So Yang Yanjue, under the arrangement of the program team, participated in the recording of the family search program.
When Yang Yanjue met her elderly father at the recording site, the grievances of many years came to her heart, making her cry bitterly.
When Yang Naiwu saw Yang Yanjue crying bitterly, he stepped forward to comfort Yang Yanjue.
But he didn't know how to speak, so he could only stand aside and look at the crying Yang Yanjue helplessly.
"Why were you so ruthless back then, I'm still so young, how can you do it?"
Looking at her father, who she hadn't seen for many years, Yang Yanjue, who had been aggrieved in every way, finally asked the question that she had been holding in her heart.
"It's all my fault, I shouldn't have treated you like that......"
Faced with his daughter's questioning, Yang Naiwu was speechless for a while, and he didn't know what to say except to apologize.
My father expressed his years of suffering
Later, under the host's inquiry, Yang Naiwu told about his life and experience over the years.
As early as shortly after Yang Yanjue ran away from home, Yang Yanjue's mother divorced him because she couldn't stand her husband's violent personality.
Yang Naiwu, who has always regarded him as a baby, also left him with his wife.
After the divorce, Yang Naiwu lived alone for many years, and only remarried 10 years ago and had a stepdaughter.
Now Yang Naiwu is over sixty years old, and after experiencing a series of changes such as being laid off, his daughter running away from home, and divorce, he has already changed his temper back then.
In the mouth of his stepdaughter, Yang Naiwu is a person with a gentle personality and honest duty, and there is no trace of violent tendencies.
When the host asked why Yang Naiwu beat the young Yang Yanjue back then, he thoughtfully told the hardships of the year.
It turned out that since Yang Naiwu was laid off, the pressure to support his family has increased sharply.
Originally, the whole family was counting on Yang Naiwu to earn money to support him, but now that he has been laid off, he has no way of knowing where the food money will be tomorrow.
The huge economic pressure hit Yang Naiwu's personality became irritable and irritable, and the young Yang Yanjue became his "punching bag".
Although Yang Naiwu also knew in his heart that it was wrong for him to hit his children, he couldn't restrain himself at all, who was often drunk.
Yang Naiwu also struggled painfully in his heart, and every time he finished beating Yang Yanjue, he would regret it.
However, when he really realized his mistake, it was too late, Yang Yanjue never returned home after leaving home, and his wife also divorced him.
Yang Naiwu finally paid a heavy price for his bad temper, and the separation of his wife made him live in remorse for half his life.
Although Yang Naiwu has long recognized his mistake and wants to recognize Yang Yanjue's father and daughter.
But the shadow of childhood has been lingering in Yang Yanjue's heart, and she still can't let go of her hatred for her biological father.
For Yang Yanjue's Yang Naiwu, if you want to repair this family relationship that has been missing for 22 years, you need not only forgiveness, but also time to repair.
After the recording of the show, Yang Naiwu proposed that he wanted to have a meal with Yang Yanjue.
Yang Yanjue did not refuse, but the father and daughter came to the restaurant but were speechless, they didn't have anything to say, they just bowed their heads to eat.
Although her father has admitted her mistake to herself, it still takes courage and time for Yang Yanjue to forgive her father.
Although the missing relationship can be slowly repaired, the missing time can never be remedied.
Just like those scars on Yang Yanjue's body, they may slowly fade one day, but that mark will never disappear.
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