Tong Dawei's family changed when he was a child, and his father was paralyzed in a car accident
Tong Dawei grew up in an ordinary family, his father was a hard-working traffic policeman, and his mother worked in the local library. He has always been the most precious child in the family.
Every day when he came home from school, his father always made time to play games with him, and every day of his life was full of laughter.
However, the good times did not last long, and when Tong Dawei was 6 years old, this happy and warm family changed dramatically. One day, the father of the traffic police officer was in a serious car accident while performing official duties.
Although he was saved by the best efforts of the doctors, his brain and body functions were seriously damaged, and he was paralyzed in bed and unable to speak all day long.
This sudden change made the already poor family lose its backbone in an instant. As a mother, Bai Jie had to take on the responsibility of the whole family alone.
She has to work during the day to support her family, and at night she has to take care of her husband who is sick in bed, and everything at home falls on her shoulders alone.
was a child who had no sorrows, but Tong Dawei did not lose his mind or become willful because of this. Faced with his mother's difficult situation, he seems to have become extremely sensible overnight.
Every day when he came home from school, he took the initiative to take care of his father and do housework, and did his best to reduce his mother's burden. In order not to worry his mother, he even gave up the opportunity to play with his friends, and worked hard to study and get among the top grades, so as not to let the teacher be a little dissatisfied.
Tong Dawei was admitted to the art school and entered the entertainment industry
Tong Dawei's dream since childhood is to be an excellent actor who can stand on the stage and accept the applause of the audience. After graduating from high school, he was admitted to Liaoning Vocational College of Arts with excellent results, originally planning to study performance Xi.
But life is still a reality, and his mother insisted that he choose a finance major with better employment prospects, and was unwilling to let him embark on the uncertain path of art.
Tong Dawei didn't want to go against his mother's wishes, so he could only temporarily let go of his dream of becoming an actor. But there are unforeseen circumstances, and our plans cannot escape the arrangement of fate after all.
Once, Tong Dawei went to visit a friend in a local repertory troupe. At this time, the troupe needed to select extras to participate in the filming of the new play. Tong Dawei's handsome appearance and sunny and cheerful personality made the director notice him first, so he boldly decided to give him a chance to perform in a group.
Although it is only a small role, this has undoubtedly become an opportunity for Tong Dawei to officially step into the entertainment industry. Facing the camera for the first time was a new experience for him, and after participating in the filming of the scene, Tong Dawei's inner passion for acting seemed to be completely ignited.
After graduating from college in 2001, he began to develop his acting career with all his might, and took the initiative to star in many new dramas, gradually accumulating a certain amount of popularity in the circle.
It was love at first sight for Nortel student Guan Yue and began a two-year romantic pursuit
In 2001, Tong Dawei went to Beijing Film Academy to visit friends. When he walked into the campus, he saw a girl in a light blue dress reading a book with her back against the old locust tree.
Perhaps due to the mottled shadows of the trees, a beam of light happened to shine on her through the canopy, adding an angelic aura to her. Tong Dawei couldn't help but stop, his eyes looked straight at her, and his heartbeat seemed to miss a beat at this moment.
When he came back to his senses, Tong Dawei couldn't remember how long he had been standing there. He stepped forward and learned that the girl who made him fall in love at first sight was called Guan Yue, a teaching assistant at Nortel.
She was the same year as Tong Dawei, only a month younger than him. Looking at Guan Yue's crystal clear eyes, Tong Dawei had an inexplicable heartbeat and made up his mind to pursue her.
But the results were beyond his expectations. Guan Yue did not accept his pursuit at first, and even politely rejected his confession. She thinks that Tong Dawei is already famous, and as an actor, he is mostly a flowery person, and his love for herself is just a fresh passion.
She didn't want to be a plaything for anyone's ambiguous emotions, so she resolutely rejected Tong Dawei.
But Tong Dawei was not discouraged. Guan Yue's refusal seemed to inflict his desire for conquest even more. So in the next two years, Tong Dawei launched a crazy and careful pursuit of Guan Yue.
He would wait for her to get out of class at Nortel's teaching building, buy her favorite snacks and drinks for her at the campus shop, and deliver his carefully selected gifts on time every holiday, expressing his sincerity to her again and again.
One day two years later, it was Guan Yue's 24th birthday. After school that day, Tong Dawei stood at the door of Nortel again, handed over a small bag containing a birthday gift, and asked affectionately: "I know that in your heart, I used to be just an irresponsible boy."
But I've been here for two years, do you still think so? I really love you, Guan Yue. Can you promise to be with me this time?" Xu is Tong Dawei's sincere pursuit for two years finally moved her, Guan Yue blushed and nodded slightly, and the two entered a sweet relationship from then on.
His father miraculously woke up and successfully entered the marriage hall with Guan Yue
Tong Dawei's father was seriously injured in a car accident when he was 6 years old, and he has been in a vegetative state for 20 years. Over the years, Tong Dawei has been unable to let go.
He would often sit alone in front of his father's bed in the middle of the night, whispering about what had happened over the years.
One year, Tong Dawei learned acupuncture while filming a costume drama. He remembers articles reporting that acupuncture had miraculous effects on brain injury and paralysis rehabilitation.
A hope arose in his heart - whether he could make his father wake up again, so he began to teach himself professional acupuncture techniques, and even did not hesitate to test his own body, and began to give his father acupuncture treatment every day after confirming that it was safe to operate.
I don't know how long it took, maybe a month, maybe a year. On an ordinary afternoon, Tong Dawei completed acupuncture for his father as usual, and whispered in his ear about the recent events.
This is undoubtedly a miracle! My father, who had been in a coma for 20 years, finally woke up! Tong Dawei hugged his father and cried bitterly, and the whole family fell into great joy. The love with Guan Yue finally saw hope at this moment, and the two decided to take advantage of this happy event to hold a wedding.
In 2007, Tong Dawei and his girlfriend Guan Yue, who had been in love for many years, entered the palace of marriage.
A double harvest in his career, and a happy threesome in life
After marriage, Tong Dawei became more dedicated to his pursuit of acting career. With the support of his wife Guan Yue and his family, he chose more in-depth scripts and characters, and filmed many well-known TV series such as "Our Youth with Nowhere to Place" and "Apple".
With his solid acting skills, he quickly became famous in the circle, and in 2007, he won the "Best Popularity Award" that year for the TV series "Struggle". This is undoubtedly a great affirmation of his acting strength.
At the same time, with the encouragement and support of her husband, Guan Yue gradually realized her dream of acting as a student. She chose to leave school and officially joined the entertainment industry.
Relying on her excellent acting skills, Guan Yue has also starred in many well-known dramas in a few years, and has gradually accumulated popularity in the circle. The husband and wife have me, I have you, happily climbing the road of acting, and the hardships they have experienced have become nothing with mutual support.
Now Tong Dawei and Guan Yue have entered the eighth year of marriage. In the eight years of getting along, the two experienced three births and had two daughters and one boy. A family of five is happy and warm.
Not long ago, they finally saved enough money to buy a 200 million yuan courtyard house. On holidays, reuniting with parents is the happiest thing in this family. Seeing that his father, who had been bedridden for many years, also had a smile again, Tong Dawei sincerely felt that there was nothing more important to success and happiness in life than his family.