In 1989, shortly after Lü Liangwei married Zhou Haimei home, he was complained by his old father:
This daughter-in-law you married only gets up every afternoon, and she doesn't cook food, so how to serve me.
When the great filial piety Lü Liangwei heard this, he was also very angry in his heart, and the daughter-in-law he married back was so unvirtuous, how could he be worthy of the ancestors of the Lü family, so he immediately rushed to the set to find Zhou Haimei, and said to her in a commanding tone:
Can you put down your work and concentrate on taking care of our dad?
When Zhou Haimei heard that she was going to give up her job as an actor, she was so angry that she quarreled with Lu Liangwei on the spot, and the two had a cold war for a long time.
And dawn is also this time, secretly on Lu Liangwei's head, buckled a "green" hat.
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Born in Hong Kong in 1966, Zhou Haimei was a descendant of the "Guarjia clan", one of the eight surnames of the Manchu Qing Dynasty, who was born in Guangzhou.
In zhou haimei's words, if she lived in the Qing Dynasty, how could she enter the palace to be a nobleman, and if you think about it carefully, with Zhou Haimei's posture, it seems that it is not a problem to mix a noble concubine in the palace.
But when she was a child, Zhou Haimei never thought that she would be hooked up with the word beauty.
When she was a child, she lived with her grandparents on a small island in Hong Kong, and every day in addition to making trouble at home, she followed her aunt, who was 4 years older than her, to go out for crazy runs.
In the eyes of adults, Zhou Haimei and XiaoYi are simply the "Chaos Demon King" in the family, and everywhere they go, they are always chickens flying and jumping, a mess, and grandpa and grandmother are very headaches.
When the parents saw the situation, they took Zhou Haimei back to their side overnight, and made up their minds to rectify their daughter's wild son.
But Zhou Haimei did not think so, she still ran to the orchard with her friends to steal fruit, played football with boys, fought, and did not think of herself as a girl at all.
Such a life of hanging ErLang Dang, Zhou Haimei continued until the age of 16, after entering puberty, she began to learn to dress herself like other female classmates.
When she took off the heavy glasses on her face, Zhou Haimei found that her eyes were so beautiful, and when she changed into a good-looking hairstyle, her father was stunned, was this still the Zhou Haimei who had beaten the male classmate's gums and bled?
In 1985, her father secretly enrolled her in the Hong Kong Beauty Pageant without zhou Haimei, and Zhou Haimei, who was notified, refused both in her mouth and in her heart, but her father told her:
Everyone is only 18 once, especially girls, and you should make a good memory of your 18.
Zhou Haimei listened and nodded, she felt that her father's words were very reasonable, so even if she was a hundred unwilling to choose a beauty in her heart, she still plucked up the courage to stand on the stage.
The preliminary round and the rematch were very smooth, Zhou Haimei almost did not have much strength to fight to the final, but her heart was not happy, she originally thought that the preliminary round was brushed down, who thought, actually lasted until the final.
On the stage of the final, the other players were trying their best to win the first place, but Zhou Haimei was like no one else, still with that big grin and full of indifference.
As a result, she was brushed off as she wished on the grounds of "too boyish", and at the moment of elimination, Zhou Haimei, who stood on the stage, smiled happily than those players who successfully advanced.
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After losing the election, Zhou Haimei was still immersed in the joy of not having to compete, but she was told by her parents that she would return to school to continue her studies, which was a nightmare for Zhou Haimei, who has always been greedy.
At this time, Wireless threw an olive branch to her, and it turned out that as early as when Zhou Haimei was on the stage to pageant, Wireless saw Zhou Haimei's distinctive temperament.
Between completing her studies and entering the training class, Zhou Haimei did not hesitate to choose the latter, but her parents were worried that she was too young to suffer losses, and resolutely disagreed with Zhou Haimei's choice.
For two years, if I can't be the heroine after two years, I'll go home and study.
When her parents saw that she had already decided, they didn't want to say anything more, so they could only let their daughter sign up for the wireless training class.
And Zhou Haimei is also very competitive, just arrived at the wireless got the opportunity to cooperate with Andy Lau, Liang Chaowei and many other big names, a "Yang Family General", let Zhou Haimei taste the sweetness of filming for the first time.
At that time, Lu Liangwei had already made a name for himself with the role of "Ding Li" in "Shanghai Beach", and even the old owner Wireless gave him three points of courtesy and arranged a beautiful difference for him to train new people.
In this way, Lu Liangwei became Zhou Haimei's boss, and more coincidentally, the two also took on a play called "Small Island Storm" at the same time.
When the company brought Zhou Haimei to Lu Liangwei's face, Lu Liangwei was stunned, he couldn't believe that there was such a good-looking girl in the world, the so-called love at first sight, probably Lu Liangwei's feeling at that time.
Since the heart has moved, the action naturally has to keep up, so when this TV series has just begun to be filmed, Lu Liangwei has begun to pursue Zhou Haimei.
Finally, after the scene was filmed, Zhou Haimei was also touched by Lu Liangwei's sincerity, and the two tried to talk about love with the idea of being in love for the first time.
In 1989, Zhou Haimei and Lu Liangwei got married, that year, Zhou Haimei was only 23 years old, and she did not know how to write the word "virtuous wife" at all, so there was the scene at the beginning of the article.
Lu Liangwei is a child who grew up suffering hardships, in the early years, in order to escape the war, his family fled to Hong Kong to make a living, and Lu Liangwei is a migrant worker who is bullied all over the street.
In the end, it was hard to blend into the wireless, and it took more than a year of hard work to get today's achievements, so in his heart, everything he has now is not easy, and his parents are even more difficult.
But Zhou Haimei, who is spoiled and habitual, where understands his suffering, in her opinion, Lu Liangwei let her give up her beloved acting career, that is, not to think about her, not to love him.
Therefore, the contradiction between the two is getting bigger and bigger, and even finally talks about divorce, but the two were in Las Vegas in the United States when they registered for marriage, so the divorce procedures are relatively troublesome.
When the two of them had an iron heart to divorce, they could not find time, just like that, after dragging on and on, they dragged until the gentle and amorous dawn appeared, and after that, Zhou Haimei's heart was even less on Lu Liangwei's body.
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Less than a year after marrying Lu Liangwei, Zhou Haimei and Li Ming cooperated in filming a "Back to the Time of Unmarried", and it is precisely because of this drama that "Bright Love" was born.
At that time, Zhou Haimei and Lu Liangwei were already inseparable, and she and Dawn had already developed a good feeling for each other when they filmed "Duty Bound", so this time she and Dawn did not hold on to each other.
The two people who are entangled outside the play and love unscrupulously, but they forget the existence of Lu Liangwei, so when the scandal of the two spreads throughout the streets and alleys, the rumors of "Lü Liangwei's domestic violence Zhou Haimei, violent beating of dawn" also did not go away.
Afterwards, Zhou Haimei was scolded by Dawn's fans to have no place to look at herself, and although Dawn also appealed to fans not to embarrass Zhou Haimei, it did not play any role, and everyone still could not accept the ambiguous relationship between Zhou Haimei and Dawn.
Just when Zhou Haimei was scolded and could not lift his head, Lu Liangwei stood up, saying that he and Zhou Haimei had long been divorced, not as everyone had heard.
Regarding the rumored beating incident, Lu Liangwei said frankly many years later:
I didn't do it, she was happy, just let her go, I was a man who could afford to lose.
Lu Liangwei's words seem to confirm the ambiguous relationship between Zhou Haimei and Li Ming, although Li Ming and Zhou Haimei have always been ambiguous.
After jumping out of the gentle trap of dawn, Zhou Haimei was preoccupied with work, whether it was to help Jacky Cheung shoot the MV, or to play "mental illness" in Stephen Chow's "Truant Weilong 3", etc., Zhou Haimei did her best to complete it.
It is said that before that, the "ghost director" Xu Ke also specifically found Zhou Haimei and invited her to play a role in the movie "The Undefeated East of the Smiling Pride".
Unfortunately, during that time, Zhou Haimei accidentally had a car accident, so she regretted missing the opportunity to cooperate with director Xu Ke.
In 1994, Zhou Haimei had the honor to participate in the Jin Yong drama "Yitian Slaughtering Dragon", in which she played "Zhou Zhiruo" not only charmed a large number of Jin Yong fans, but even Mr. Jin Yong personally received Zhou Haimei and said to her in a serious tone:
If I had known that Zhou Zhiruo was so beautiful, I would have written Zhou Zhiruo's ending better, so that she and Zhang Wujie could be together.
It can be seen that at that time, Zhou Haimei's appearance was very high, but it was such a beauty who amazed Jin Yongdu, but he had a scandal with his personal swimming coach.
Lin Weiliang is a mixed-race beautiful man, because of his great stature, he once starred in third-level films, but even if he was naked in "The Queen of The Demon Street", he could not let the audience remember his name.
Finally, with a skillful swimming skill, although he won the favor of Zhou Haimei, his sincerity was questioned by the outside world, and everyone speculated that he just wanted to take advantage of Zhou Haimei's popularity to ascend to the position.
In the face of outside doubts, Zhou Haimei seemed to have woken up, so her and Lin Weiliang's scandal quickly pressed the pause button, and Lin Weiliang did not know what the reason was, and many years later, he shaved his hair as a monk and ran to Jiangxi to devote himself to cultivation.
Perhaps in Lin Weiliang's heart, after experiencing the cold and warm of human feelings, after experiencing the heat and cold of the world, only the quiet place of the Buddhist family is the most stable and stable destination.
After the story of Zhou Haimei and Lin Weiliang was turned over, her scandal with the Japanese married actor Nagase Masatoshi swept in, and this time, Zhou Haimei was directly reported by the Japanese media as a third party.
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In 1997, zhou Haimei, introduced by a friend, went to Japan to shoot underwear photos and met Japanese actor Masatoshi Nagase, and according to rumors, the two were rumored to be too close in the process of cooperation, which led to a scandal.
But Nagase Masatoshi was already married at the time, because of this scandal, his wife Koizumi today also divorced him, so Zhou Haimei became a third party in the mouth of the Japanese media.
In the face of the accusations of the Japanese media, Zhou Haimei was very helpless, she felt that she was just cooperating with Nagase Masatoshi to shoot a set of photos, and she did not expect to become the little three in everyone's mouth.
For the sake of her innocence, she can only bravely stand up and deny it, and firmly state that Nagase Masatoshi and his wife are not divorced, and they have nothing to do with her.
Perhaps the Japanese media just want to take advantage of Zhou Haimei's popularity to hype, after all, Zhou Haimei was also very popular in Japan at that time, but they only relied on a co-production photo to say things, obviously it still does not make sense.
What's more, Zhou Haimei was still being pursued by Wu Shirong, the chairman of the domestic Dickson Group, so between Japanese actors and rich people, Zhou Haimei would naturally choose the powerful Wu Shirong.
It turns out that Zhou Haimei's choice was not wrong, at least at the time, because with the help of Wu Shirong, Zhou Haimei's career became more and more smooth.
When Zhou Haimei brought 6 million watches to promote, Wu Shirong was not afraid of gossip and gossip to personally come to the scene for his girlfriend, and this friendship seemed to be clear to everyone.
In Zhou Haimei's eyes, Wu Shirong almost met all her fantasies about a perfect man, and the pure and beautiful Zhou Haimei also almost satisfied all the vanity of Wu Shirong, a successful man.
But the good times did not last long, but this tacit understanding between the two people came to an abrupt end because of a strange illness of Zhou Haimei.
In 1999, when Zhou Haimei was filming outside, she was accidentally infected with lupus erythematosus after being bitten by an insect, but some good media spread the cause of Zhou Haimei's illness to the boil, and even bluntly said that this was the result of Zhou Haimei's misconduct.
In the face of public opinion's accusations and pressure, Zhou Haimei once stopped all her work, and the man Who had always said he loved her, Wu Shirong, left at this time.
Only at this time did Zhou Haimei understand that he loved Zhou Haimei instead of Zhou Haimei, who had lupus erythematosus.
However, Zhou Haimei did not have time to grieve for this relationship, because during her recovery, a young man who did not dislike her illness appeared.
Zhou Jiawen was the director's assistant to ATV, and then he became a director himself, directing many works such as "Yang Jiajian", "The King of a Thousand Kings Only Reappears in the Jianghu", "The Big Mane" and so on.
As soon as Zhou Haimei switched to ATV, Zhou Jiawen was deeply attracted by Zhou Haimei's beauty, but she already had Wu Shirong by her side at that time, so Zhou Jiawen could only be silent.
Now that Wu Shirong hated Zhou Haimei's illness and left, Zhou Jiawen naturally refused to miss this opportunity to get beauty, so he worked tirelessly to dedicate himself during Zhou Haimei's illness, and finally touched Zhou Haimei's heart.
Subsequently, the media filmed the two in kowloon city in and out of the double into the picture, it turned out that Zhou Jiawen and Zhou Haimei had already built a love nest, but unfortunately, this love nest was just built soon after, the news of the two breaking up came.
At that time, Zhou Haimei and ATV only signed a two-year contract, and two years later, the contract expired, and her relationship with Zhou Jiawen was suddenly interrupted.
Some people say that Zhou Haimei met an architect who was 7 years younger than her at a bar, so she came to Beijing to love her and started a new life.
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When she first arrived in Beijing, Zhou Haimei made a lot of jokes because of the language barrier, and often answered questions in the crew, which caused everyone to laugh.
But because of the nourishment of love, Zhou Haimei never felt a little wronged, even if her parents firmly disagreed with her association with the architect.
It is said that the architect initially did not know that Zhou Haimei was an actor, because he usually never paid attention to entertainment news except painting and calligraphy.
When he learned that his girlfriend was a big star, he was stunned, but he loved Zhou Haimei too much, so even if Zhou Haimei was a big star with constant scandals, he also recognized it.
In 2008, after the picture of Zhou Haimei and actor Chen Long drinking coffee together was filmed by the media, the scandal between the two did not go away, but at that time, Zhou Haimei's side was after all an architect.
Therefore, her and Chen Long's scandal became more confusing, until the intimate action between the two was captured in the nightclub, Chen Long acquiesced to his relationship with Zhou Haimei, and said that his mother also liked Zhou Haimei.
It's just Chen Long's frankness, but he is not appreciated by netizens, and everyone accuses him of just wanting to rely on Zhou Haimei to get to the position, where there is any love.
Perhaps Zhou Haimei also felt this, so she turned around and spread a scandal with Li Guifu, who is known as "Li Zhunji in the mainland".
This time, Zhou Haimei directly ignored the rumors from the outside world, and only Li Guifu came forward to explain that he and Zhou Haimei were just a simple sister-brother relationship, not the rumored "sister-brother love".
In 2013, perhaps the architect's boyfriend could not sit still, after all, the scandal around Zhou Haimei had not stopped during this time, so Zhou Haimei boldly admitted her relationship with the architect's boyfriend.
After the two became public, the architect's boyfriend began to propose to Zhou Haimei continuously, but Zhou Haimei refused again and again, not that she did not want to marry, but she did not want to give her boyfriend an imperfect marriage.
It turned out that as early as when Zhou Haimei was more than ten years old, she was told by doctors that because the platelets were too low, it was easy to cause heavy bleeding if she gave birth, and even her life would be dangerous, so she could not have children for life.
Therefore, in Zhou Haimei's heart, she is an imperfect woman, she does not want to leave regrets for her boyfriend's life, and the architect boyfriend has proposed marriage many times without success, and finally decided to end his relationship with Zhou Haimei.
In 2016, 50-year-old Zhou Haimei returned to singleness again, and in the face of media interviews, she generously said:
I don't want to get married, and it's fine not to be married and infertile.
Perhaps in Zhou Haimei's heart, love or marriage is all happiness pinned on others, and only the identity of an actor can give her the most needed sense of security.
Therefore, even if she has grown old, she has never stopped filming.
In 2017, she collaborated with Deng Lun, Yang Zi and others on "Fragrant Honey Sinks Like Frost", and the queen of heaven played by her in the play is sinister and fierce, which makes people shudder.
In 2018, she partnered with Zeng Shunxi, Chen Yuqi and many other small fresh meats, and once again starred in the Jin Yong martial arts drama "New Yitian Slaughtering Dragon", but this time, she played not Zhou Zhiruo, but Zhou Zhiruo's master "Extinction Master Tai".
Time flies, the past is like smoke, and now Zhou Haimei has passed the peak of her appearance, leaving us with only those good memories.
At the beginning of 2021, Zhou Haimei and her ex-husband Lu Liangwei co-starred in an action movie "Return from Armor Removal", this time they have been divorced for 30 years, it seems that after the precipitation of time, the two have released their previous suspicions, even if they can't be husband and wife, they can still be friends.
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Throughout Zhou Haimei's brilliant love history, since her debut, she has only been married once when she was young and beautiful, and although she has had many boyfriends after the flash marriage, she seems to have lost confidence in marriage and is always anesthetizing herself with self-righteous love.
Zhou Haimei, who has never been afraid of love, is very afraid of marriage, she is afraid of walking into the siege of marriage, she is afraid of being a heroine in a bad marriage, she is afraid that she can't protect a childless marriage, maybe this is also the reason why she indulges herself.
To this day, she is still a person, eating and sleeping alone, working alone until midnight, a person recalling the bits and pieces of the past, and a person looking forward to the beautiful love coming again.
From an emotional point of view, a person's first marriage is crucial, meeting a suitable person to accompany a lifetime is the most beautiful and comfortable thing in this life, on the contrary, it is easy to make people have a pessimistic idea that life is short and happy, so we must cherish the first time in life.
【Text: Yaxin】
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