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Wang Yan, who married into a wealthy family, made a comeback!
In the hit drama "Yi Nian Guan Mountain", she played the gentle and righteous Queen Zhaojie.
As his wife, she and the family behind her wholeheartedly supported Emperor An to ascend to the throne;
As a mother, she devoted herself to raising her son;
As the queen, she cherishes the righteousness of her family and country and saves the people from dire straits.
But in the end, she was rewarded with the betrayal of all her loved ones.
The son's threats and slander, and the husband's murderous intentions...... made her despair, and when Ren Ruyi (played by Liu Shishi) came to the rescue, she refused, and finally died in the fire.
Qing Gege in my childhood is already my white moonlight.
Unexpectedly, Qing'er returned as a queen, but her appearance can still fight.
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Although everyone was pleasantly surprised to see "Qing Gege" again, it also made many people speculate that there was something wrong with her marriage.
Why did you suddenly act again? Looking a lot haggard, the dream of a wealthy family is shattered, and he pays off his debts for his husband?
Back then, Wang Yan became popular all over the country with the role of Qing'er in "Huanzhu Gege".
It's a pity that she is one of the first batch of "young marriages" in the entertainment industry.
Wang Yan, who married into a wealthy family, had no intention of becoming popular in her career.
After becoming pregnant and giving birth, she gradually faded out of the entertainment industry and was content with her husband and children.
But in recent years, this stable life seems to have begun to waver, and the filter of the wealthy has been broken little by little.
"There is happiness, sadness, and suffering, and the relationship for more than ten years is very complicated. ”
More direct evidence is that her son disrespects her very much and will beat her.
With her husband Wang Zhicai's negative news, he was frequently exposed to debt crises.
The 1.5 billion mansion overlooking the Forbidden City was also auctioned for creditor's rights.
The starting price was 1.12 billion, and no one bid.
Wang Yan, who once retired from the entertainment industry, has become more and more ambitious to return.
has participated in many TV series, although she is not the protagonist, but every role she plays is outstanding.
She also successively operated short videos and joined the team of live broadcast sales.
Some netizens left a message saying:
Qing Gege finally woke up to the fact that women still have to have a career. ”
Wang Yan replied: "I've been awake." ”
seems to be a passive life, but in fact, it is her active choice.
Even in a wealthy family, Wang Yan has been exploring the career she loves.
She never gave up on growing up, never lost herself, always remained rational, and she knew what she wanted.
I agree with Wang Yan's words:
Because everyone's order is different, the words happiness value meaning, they themselves are diverse. ”
Marriage is not the only option in a woman's life.
Each stage has its own choice, you can be the so-called wealthy little wife, or you can be a careerist in life.
The important thing is that no matter what kind of identity you are, it is the highlight of your life.
Life has given us lows and pains, but also highs and happiness.
This good life in life has to be "earned" by oneself little by little.
If you can always maintain a sober and open mind, you are destined not to become fleeting fireworks.
There is a quote in "Becoming Jane Austen":
"Don't lose yourself in front of anything, even if it's dogma, even if it's someone else's gaze, even if it's love. ”
Regard family as the whole of life, and family is the starting point for them to think about everything.
As everyone knows, women can pay for the family and change for the family, but they can't lose themselves for the family.
In the TV series "The Next Stop is Happiness", Yang Xiaoyu, who got married and had children, gave up his career for the sake of his family.
Even during pregnancy, she still doesn't ask her husband for help, cooking, tidying up housework, and picking up and dropping off children to and from school, all of which she takes care of.
However, after she found out that her husband was cheating, she didn't even dare to mention divorce.
Because she knew that there would be no way back if she made trouble, she preferred to endure it and face her betrayed husband with a smirk.
Faced with her best friend's persuasion, she could only shout helplessly:
"Why do you keep forcing me to divorce? I don't want love anymore, I just need to raise my children. ”
A simple sentence reveals deep helplessness and sadness.
Yang Xiaoyu used to be a shining woman, but after marriage, she was trapped in family chores and had long lost the ability to make money.
Divorce is very simple, but the difficult thing is that without financial resources, she may not even be able to fight for custody of her children.
The days when her palms were facing up made her lose her right to speak and not have the courage to take the step of divorce.
This is not only a bridge on TV, but also a reflection on many real marriages.
Just like Liu Mintao in the past.
At the best age, she gave up her career without hesitation and married love.
But the script of life did not lead to happiness as she presupposed.
At first, her husband would happily give her living expenses, but as time went by, the disgust and disgust on her face became more and more unconcealed.
Endless waiting filled the void in her marriage, and she lived as a vague virtuous helper, waiting for her was a cold answer: "You don't care." ”
Later, because of an unaffordable ice cream, the fantasy of love and the fig leaf of marriage were completely shredded.
The past 7 years of marriage have surfaced in Liu Mintao's mind over and over again.
No work, no respect, no love, no ego...... She finally decided to divorce.
The husband was disdainful: "Without me, you can't even eat." ”
Liu Mintao didn't want to argue or entangle, she chose to take the child away and leave the house.
It's a bit brutal, but that's how reality plays out.
"I raise you" sounds romantic, but it is actually the most poisonous love story.
Obviously, for women, stopping self-growth after marriage is sometimes fatal, and they are also doomed to be passive in marriage and love.
Once you meet someone who is unladylike, you will only make yourself miserable for the rest of your life.
Yishu once said, "No one will be the safe haven you think you will be in this life and this life." ”
No one but yourself can act as your long-term meal ticket, and no one will be your safe haven forever.
I've heard a quote like this:
"It's never age and identity that traps a woman, it's patterns and ideas. ”
And those women who live well are never limited to one side of the family.
No matter what status they are in, they can have a more colorful life.
Xi Mengyao has two labels: gambling king's daughter-in-law & international supermodel.
In the Asian supermodel world, her status and popularity are very high.
After getting married, compared to having her back to a wealthy family, Xi Mengyao is undoubtedly wise and sober.
She did not live a flat life of a wealthy family, but had her own plans and yearnings.
She has her own space.
On social platforms, Xi Mengyao shares the daily life of her small family.
She can also pursue her own career.
During pregnancy, she insisted on live broadcasting, participating in various endorsement activities, and going to the Cannes Film Festival.
Twelve days after giving birth, she turned around and quickly came back and worked actively.
When she was pregnant with her second child, she also beat heavily with pregnant women in order to shoot magazine covers.
Before, someone photographed Xi Mengyao going to Peking University to study EMBA.
From being a supermodel to marrying into a wealthy family, Xi Mengyao has experienced a lot, but she has also been moving forward.
It is hard to find a wealthy family when you meet them, but your own growth and insight are the things that will not be taken away.
In the present and in the future, even if there is no wealthy family, I believe she can shine.
People are diverse, and only by releasing their many facets can they live happily and earn respect.
Therefore, women should not give up on self-growth at any time.
Do you still remember Guo Keyu in "Goodbye Lover"?
Leaving that unsuitable marriage, she seemed to be a different person.
The red lips are slightly opened, the pink peach blossoms, and the eyebrows are full of lightness and brightness.
Regaining her confidence, she appeared in front of the public with a better attitude.
She continued to film and participated in many film and television shootings, such as "Sanyue Has a New Job", "Grandma's New World" and so on.
In addition to acting, she also regained her love for music and returned to her identity as a singer.
Devoted to a broader world, Guo Keyu has become more and more relaxed and comfortable.
Taking off the tightly wrapped "red scarf", she was reborn, as if she had found her original self.
In the consumed life, Guo Keyu completed self-salvage, allowing her to play with ease.
If you want to live happily, listen to the voice of your heart.
The key called happiness cannot be given by others, so you can only give it yourself.
There is a sentence in "Pink Bear Rescue":
"The world will see you the way you treat yourself, and you're not taking good care of yourself. ”
Don't blame yourself because of the eyes of the outside world, don't give up hastily because of hardship, and don't be anxious and lost because of the ups and downs of fate.
A woman will only feel happy and free if she is true to herself and always true to herself.
When you know how to love yourself and appreciate yourself, your life can be regarded as the real beginning.
Or regain control of your life, reinvent your life, or embrace the uncertainty of life......
If you don't like labels and prejudices, then use your ability to fight back and use your strength to break them.
It is an advantage for women to be beautiful, and it is their ability to live beautifully.
At any time, don't forget to improve yourself and pursue a better version of yourself.
Fearless of the world's eyes, glow in your own little world.
Light up the "attention", may we be able to look forward to the glory of our lives, be open and at ease, and love ourselves for a lifetime.