Hello everyone, I am your old friend Rainbow, and today I would like to share with you some thoughts about marriage and family.
As a father, when my daughter embarked on the road of marriage in life, I resolutely chose not to pursue material vanity and cumbersome rituals, but hoped to pay attention to her happiness with my heart.
Don't want a bride price, just want your daughter to have a good life
Some parents ask for a bride price of 200,000 or 300,000 yuan as soon as they open their mouths, and they pursue the vanity of money, but forget that the most important thing is to see their daughters live a happy life.
As a father, I know that marrying a daughter is not about making her part of a property transaction, but about wanting her to be truly respected and happy.
Regardless of the financial situation of the man's family, I will not ask them for a bride price. If the man's financial conditions are not good, I will even take the initiative to give my daughter some help, because marrying my daughter is to give her a happy life, not to hand her over to a financially capable family.
I am willing to use my love and support to compensate her for the financial difficulties she may be experiencing, because that is what I care about the most.
Simple and intimate wedding
Some people say that a woman only marries once in her life, so the wedding must be solemn. However, in my eyes, a wedding is not about showing off and being a formality, but about the intersection of love and happiness between two people.
So, when our daughter gets married, we don't have a big wedding party, and we don't notify our friends and family. There are no cumbersome rules and rituals, just the simplicity and warmth of our small family.
We'll discuss it together and choose a fine dining restaurant that would be perfect for a simple meal. Because for us, a wedding that is too extravagant is just a formality and has no fundamental meaning.
We save money from the wedding to cover our daughter's living expenses after marriage or for her honeymoon, so that she and her husband can start their beautiful life.
Love and support trump material things
I am convinced that the best gift a parent can give to a child is not material pursuits, but love and support.
As a father, I hope to be able to tell my daughter with my actions on the occasion of her marriage that I don't care about the bride price and the wedding feast, I only care about her happiness.
We should put care and support for our children first, rather than being bound by the vanity of society.
I believe that only by truly paying attention to the happiness of children can they find true love and happiness in their marriage!