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Jiang Kun: Adopting an orphan despite my wife's opposition was the most correct decision in my life

author:Literary and artistic weekly

Jiang Kun's daughter Jiang Shan has shown an amazing singing voice since she was a child, and often sings in front of relatives and friends. When she was 13 years old, she appeared on the stage of CCTV's New Year's Day party and sang on the same stage with the singer Zhang Yusheng, and became famous for a while.

Jiang Kun: Adopting an orphan despite my wife's opposition was the most correct decision in my life

Next, multiple entertainment companies compete for her, and the road to success seems to be in sight. However, the good times did not last long, and after entering the circle at the age of 14, Jiang Shan gradually lost herself, and her grades plummeted.

She was obsessed with acting and had no intention of learning anymore.

Jiang Kun, as a father, was in a hurry and woke up his daughter's reason many times, but she turned a deaf ear. The two had a big quarrel about this, and Jiang Kun sent his daughter on the plane to go abroad with red eyes.

However, the wayward Jiang Shan did not repent of this, she returned to China without authorization after studying abroad for less than two months, and still insisted on developing her entertainment career. Jiang Kun didn't quarrel anymore this time, and directly sent her on the return flight.

Jiang Kun: Adopting an orphan despite my wife's opposition was the most correct decision in my life

After several times, Jiang Shan finally understood her father's hard work, completed her studies in the United States, and got on the right track after returning to China.

In 1998, Jiang Kun participated in a charity performance held by a welfare institute. After the performance, the orphan proposed that the artists each bring an orphan home for a week, so that they could experience the warmth of family.

Among the orphans, Jiang Kun's gaze was fixed on a little boy with a thin body and sparse hair. He offered to take the boy home, and the child readily agreed.

The child's name was Xie Tan, who was only 6 years old at the time, and was a frequent visitor to the welfare home. He was ruthlessly abandoned by his biological parents as soon as he was born, and lived a life of exile since he was a child.

Jiang Kun: Adopting an orphan despite my wife's opposition was the most correct decision in my life

Jiang Kun was originally a very soft-hearted person, and he naturally poured infinite love and pity into Xie Tan. The two lived together for a very pleasant few days, and they both felt reluctant to give up on each other.

A week passed in a flash, and the staff of the welfare home came to pick Xie Tan back to the hospital. This time, Xie Tan cried and refused to leave, and asked Jiang Kun to be adopted by him.

Jiang Kun also made up his mind at that moment, and immediately signed a document to adopt Xie Tan. Soon, his wife, Li Jingmin, rushed back from the United States and was furious when she learned about it. Jiang Kun had to patiently explain that he wanted her to be sympathetic to the poor child's plight, and Li Jingmin reluctantly accepted this fact.

After Xie Tan changed his name to Jiang He, his relationship with his adoptive mother Li Jingmin was a little rusty at first. Li Jingmin was quite complaining about this sudden adopted son at first, and often ignored his existence.

Jiang Kun: Adopting an orphan despite my wife's opposition was the most correct decision in my life

Until one day, Jiang He suddenly had a high fever, and his cough couldn't stop, and he was finally diagnosed with severe bronchitis. The doctor told him in a serious manner that the disease could be life-threatening if left untreated.

Li Jingmin was so shocked that she cried bitterly, she stayed in Jiang He's hospital room all night, and she didn't dare to blink her eyelids.

In order for Jiang He to recover, Li Jingmin almost squeezed out the family's savings. She called in the best specialists and used the most expensive medicines.

During the long course of treatment, she insisted on taking care of the child herself, and she could not even maintain a normal diet and sleep.

Jiang Kun: Adopting an orphan despite my wife's opposition was the most correct decision in my life

Finally, with the efforts of the doctors, Jiang He's condition stabilized. This life-and-death experience gave Li Jingmin a feeling of true maternal love for him.

Jiang He is lively and active, always naughty and mischievous, and his academic Xi grades have never satisfied his adoptive parents. Jiang Kun and Li Jingmin have hired countless enlightenment teachers for him, but unfortunately with little success.

Finally, one day, his friend Niu Qun came to the house as a guest, and accidentally saw that Jiang He was very agile in climbing up and down, so he suggested that he be sent to learn acrobatics. Jiang Kun suddenly realized that this was a good opportunity for Jiang He to learn and Xi.

In 2002, at the age of 11, Jiang He was sent to an acrobatic school in Shenyang to begin his penance. The course is very hard, you need to Xi start learning from the basics such as standing, somersaults, etc., and every time you practice Xi sweating, Jiang He can't help crying bitterly.

Jiang Kun: Adopting an orphan despite my wife's opposition was the most correct decision in my life

But he also realized that this was a life-changing opportunity, Jiang Kun and Li Jingmin had high hopes, and he had to persevere. For this reason, his adoptive parents specially bought a house in Shenyang and often visited him to give encouragement.

Under their noses, Jiang Ha gradually grew into a brilliant acrobat. His aerial turntable performance was once on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala of Beijing TV, and Jiang Kun was in tears when he saw it.

Although there was a rebellious period, under the careful guidance of his adoptive parents, Jiang He gradually developed an optimistic personality. In the end, he successfully joined the Guangzhou Military Region Warrior Acrobatic Troupe and shined in front of everyone.

Jiang He has not been accompanied by his relatives since he was a child, and his life in the welfare home is very lonely. Although his adoptive father Jiang Kun and adoptive mother Li Jingmin regarded him as their own, he always had illusions about his biological parents.

Jiang Kun: Adopting an orphan despite my wife's opposition was the most correct decision in my life

One day after the adoption, Jiang He tentatively asked Jiang Kun to find his biological parents. Jiang Kun was silent after hearing this, and Li Jingmin even angrily asked him if he was dissatisfied with his current life.

Jiang He explained that he was just out of curiosity, but his adoptive parents could not hide their disappointment.

In order to appease Jiang He and make him aware of the hard work of his adoptive parents, Jiang Kun still issued a missing person notice. Although nothing came of it in the end, this process made Jiang He understand that Jiang Kun and Li Jingmin were the greatest parents in his life.

Since then, he has become more filial to his adoptive parents and often comes home to visit. Now Jiang He himself has started a family, but he still remembers who gave him hope when he was abandoned.

Jiang Kun: Adopting an orphan despite my wife's opposition was the most correct decision in my life

He often visited his elderly and frail adoptive parents to help them with trivial matters in order to repay them for their many years of parenting.

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