In 1998, Jiang Kun brought back a skinny little boy from the welfare home, and he named the child Jiang He.
As soon as the incident was exposed by the media, it caused a huge social controversy.
"Shocked! The old artist brought his illegitimate son home openly. ”
"Who would have thought that Jiang Kun would actually bring his illegitimate child home."
Hearing the news media reports, his wife Li Jingmin, who was far away in a foreign country, couldn't believe it, but still decided to go home to find out.
The moment she pushed the door open, her face turned gray in an instant, and her hand holding the door couldn't stop shaking, and she couldn't believe her eyes.
After several explanations, Li Jingmin learned that this was Jiang Kun's adopted child.
After more than 20 years of companionship, Li Jingmin has long known her husband's personality, and in her mind, Jiang Kun is poor and good alone, and good is good for the world.
Maybe it's the vow he made when he was young, or maybe it's the company of his wife for many years, Jiang Kun's love for Li Jingmin is like flowing water.
Because of this, Li Jingmin revealed affectionately on the show: "I have never regretted marrying him for 45 years." ”
01
Secretly carried out underground affairs
Jiang Kun, who has been interested in cross talk since he was a child, became an educated youth by chance, and in the years when he was a young man, he met 17-year-old Li Jingmin.
Two ambitious young people hit it off at first sight, one can speak and the other sings and dances, they talk about life and ideals.
The relationship also gradually deepened in this, and slowly Jiang Kun and Li Jingmin fell in love.
Jiang Kun and Li Jingmin when they were young
But the team explicitly forbade young people to fall in love, so the two got along in their own unique way.
During the performance, they communicated and exchanged like normal friends, and no one could have imagined that these two young people were actually having an underground affair.
Jiang Kun and Li Jingmin have been in love in secret for eight years, and it was not until Jiang Kun entered the Broadcasting Art Troupe that the two were able to fall in love like a normal couple and get married.
Mr. and Mrs. Jiang Kun with their daughter
The days after marriage were very fulfilling, and in 1979, Li Jingmin gave birth to a healthy baby girl for Jiang Kun, and Jiang Kun named her Jiang Shan.
The arrival of his daughter made Jiang Kun realize that the burden on his shoulders had become heavier.
One day after dinner, in a casual chat with his wife, Jiang Kun expressed his plans for the future to Li Jingmin: "Wife, I want to go to other places to work hard, for my daughter, and for you." ”
Li Jingmin heard her husband's thoughts and knew that he wanted to get a good life for himself, so he didn't say much, just told Jiang Kun not to be tired of himself.
Li Wenhua and Hao Aimin (left) perform on stage
In this way, Jiang Kun went to Beijing to develop under the guidance of his master Ma Ji, but on the day he left, a mother stood alone on the platform with swaddling clothes in her arms to watch the train leave.
Who knows that this difference is several years.
Over the years, whenever he saw thousands of homes lit up, Li Jingmin's eyes would always have a look of envy.
But she never complained to Jiang Kun, and Li Jingmin only conveyed her thoughts about her husband through letters.
Jiang Kun also misses Li Jingmin, but unfortunately he can't become famous, and he is not embarrassed to take his wife to his side, so he can only go to the mailbox every day to see if there is a letter from his wife.
The two infatuated lovers maintained their relationship through a small mailbox in this way, and looking at the photo of their daughter sent by his wife, Jiang Kun's face was instantly covered with a smile.
Fortunately, Jiang Kun quickly became famous, his career improved, and after the vigorous training of his master Ma Ji, he successfully appeared on various stages to show himself.
In the end, Jiang Kun shined in the first Spring Festival Gala in 1983, and in the Spring Festival Gala in the next few years, the audience and friends can almost see Jiang Kun's figure.
Jiang Kun, Liu Xiaoqing, and Wang Jingyu discussed and hosted the first CCTV Spring Festival Gala
In order to let his daughter get a good education and let his wife live a good life, Jiang Kun, who has become famous, took his wife and daughter to his side.
At this time, Li Jingmin knew that she was not looking at the wrong person, she treated Jiang Kun with sincerity, and Jiang Kun also responded to herself with affection.
While Jiang Kun's career is developing, their daughter Jiang Shan has also grown up, looking at her father performing on the stage, Jiang Shan is very envious.
Jiang Shan, who is a big ghost, asked her mother to teach her to act, and although Li Jingmin, who was born in quyi rap, has dabbled in performance, she is far inferior to Jiang Kun.
After some "coaxing" of Jiang Shan, he began to teach her to sing, who knew that Jiang Shan's musical talent is not shallow, and a song can be sung solo as long as she teaches it once.
Years of training coupled with Jiang Shan's musical talent, she soon had outstanding performance in music, and Jiang Shan felt that she was a musical genius.
It's a pity that she has never had the opportunity to express herself, which makes Jiang Shan very annoyed, she began to pester Jiang Kun, often clamoring to show her musical talent on stage.
Every time Jiang Shan is coquettish, Li Jingmin sees it in his eyes, and his happiness is also soaring at this moment.
Jiang Kun, who couldn't resist his daughter, reluctantly agreed to her.
Who knew that Jiang Shan's display would become famous in the circle, and the audience vied to applaud this ten-year-old girl.
Jiang Shan was immersed in this atmosphere of being liked, and slowly, she was obsessed with fame and fortune, and she only wanted to enter the circle for development, and she was not interested in her studies.
That day, Jiang Shan took back the bottom-ranked report card from the school with an indifferent face, and Jiang Kun, who has always been gentle and elegant, rarely lost his temper: "Starting tomorrow, you won't sing anymore, hurry up and give me back to school to go to your school." ”
Jiang Shan looked aggrieved and felt that her father was ruining her bright future.
Although Li Jingmin was distressed, she didn't say anything, because she knew that blindly indulging the child would only harm the child.
At this time, Jiang Shan was in adolescence, and she was rebellious and went to other places alone to seek development, but unfortunately she was still found by Jiang Kun.
In order not to let the fame and fortune in the entertainment industry affect Jiang Shan's study, Jiang Kun directly sent her to study abroad.
It's a pity that Jiang Kun's hard conscience was not understood by Jiang Shan, but his "oppression" aroused his daughter's rebellion, and Jiang Shan's heart was full of resentment towards her father during that time.
In desperation, Li Jingmin stood up, she took the initiative to go abroad to accompany her daughter, and at the same time wanted to ease the relationship between their father and daughter.
It's just that I didn't expect that when I returned to China, a family of three suddenly became a family of four.
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A poor child
After becoming famous, Jiang Kun maintained a care for the society, and he would go to the local welfare home from time to time to do charity.
That year, he participated in a charity event as before, and unlike before, Jiang Kun met an eight-year-old boy in this event.
The little boy's name is Xie Tan, a poor man who no one wants, and Xie Tan is the only one who is silent in the lively activities, and he looks out of place sitting alone on the small bench.
Jiang Kun's heart was touched, and he couldn't bear to see Xie Tan alone, so he proposed to adopt this little boy, so there was a little man in his family, and Jiang Kun named him Jiang He.
Li Jingmin, who learned the news, was extremely angry, she was angry that Jiang Kun adopted the boy without consulting her, and she was even more angry that he made this decision regardless of his actual situation.
Li Jingmin is worried that Jiang Kun, who is nearly half a hundred years old, and he will not have the energy to take care of the children.
But Jiang Kun decided to raise this child, just because the child called him "Dad" with joy: "He's just a poor child." ”
8-year-old Jiang He is very sensible, he knows that Li Jingmin doesn't seem to treat him very well, thinking of the days when no one loved him in the past, his eyes couldn't help but moisten: "Dad, Mom, I want to live with you, I don't want to leave this home." ”
Li Jingmin saw Jiang He's pitiful appearance, although he was reluctant, his heart was already a little loose.
"In fact, it's not difficult to raise another child, it's just more than more pairs of chopsticks and multiple people."
In the end, under Jiang Kun's soft grinding and hard bubbles, Li Jingmin could only agree to let Jiang He live with them.
Jiang Kun caused Li Jingmin's dissatisfaction in the handling of this matter, but the child did not do anything wrong, he just wanted a warm home.
Although Li Jingmin has some mustard in his heart, he has accepted that Jiang He has to do what a mother should do, not to mention that Jiang He's mouth is also very sweet, and every time he sees her, he will shout "Mom".
This matter also reached Jiang Shan's ears, and she had a grudge against her father, but in the matter of Jiang Kun's adoption of Jiang He, she felt that her father was very great.
Having given up self-improvement for the sake of fame and fortune, Jiang Shan suddenly realized that her previous self was a little ridiculous, especially compared to her father's behavior.
Before Jiang Kun called her daughter, she often chose to refuse, and after witnessing her father's greatness, she also began to try to call Jiang Kun.
The relationship between father and daughter slowly eased after Jiang He arrived home, and Jiang Shan even often invited her younger brother Jiang He to visit abroad.
Slowly, Jiang Shan eliminated the resentment she once had against her father.
In the following days, Li Jingmin and Jiang Kun raised this poor child together, but this child who grew up in a welfare home only likes sports but does not like to study.
This made Jiang Kun very distressed, but fortunately, his friend gave Jiang Kun a suggestion: "Why don't you send him to learn acrobatics?" ”
Jiang Kun thought about it carefully and felt that this was also a way out, so he sent him to art school.
Jiang He did not disappoint Jiang Kun, in the days of learning acrobatics, Jiang He trained day and night, just to not disappoint his father and mother.
Li Jingmin and Jiang Kun also knew how eager this kid was to prove himself, and Jiang He didn't go home every time he had a holiday, but stayed in school to continue training.
Sometimes, Li Jingmin is worried that Jiang He is not doing well, and he will go to school to visit his son.
The hard work paid off, and finally Jiang He practiced his acrobatic skills, and with the help of Jiang Kun, he got the opportunity to perform on the same stage with his father.
Jiang Kun said cross talk at his own rhythm on the field, while Jiang He performed acrobatics on the side, and the scene immediately burst into thunderous applause as soon as the performance of father and son ended.
It's a pity that such happy days didn't last long before they were broken, because every abandoned child wants to know who their biological parents are, and Jiang He is no exception.
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The choice of an adopted son, Jiang Kun's support
Although he grew up in Jiang Kun's family, Jiang He's heart never forgot his biological parents, Jiang He wanted to know why his biological parents abandoned him, and he wanted to find them to ask them clearly.
In this way, Jiang He started a journey to find his relatives, and his move caused quite a stir at home.
His father, Jiang Kun and Li Jingmin, can understand him, after all, this is human nature, and the couple gave Jiang He some encouragement and some help.
But her sister Jiang Shan is not so easy to talk to, she feels that her parents have raised Jiang He for decades, and at this time he wants to find his biological parents, isn't it ungrateful.
Jiang Shan immediately came back from abroad and pointed at Jiang He's nose and scolded: "A white-eyed wolf with a wolf's heart and lungs."
Jiang Kun, Jiang Shan
Jiang He didn't explain this, let his sister abuse, he just wanted to find out who his biological parents were, and he didn't mean anything else.
In the end, despite paying a great price, it was all in vain, and he gave up after repeated failures to find his relatives.
Now Jiang He has a successful career and has formed his own family, and his happy life makes him no longer obsessed with finding his biological parents.
He just wants to do his best to honor his parents now, after all, without Jiang Kun and Li Jingmin, he would not be where he is today.
Once Li Jingmin was sick, Jiang Kun was busy, busy with work during the day, and had to rush to take care of Li Jingmin at night.
It's a pity that her daughter couldn't come over to help in time when she was abroad, so Jiang He hurriedly put down the work at hand and took a few days off to go home to take care of her mother.
The moment she saw Jiang He, Li Jingmin cried, she knew that so many years of nurturing grace had not been in vain, and Jiang He was not a "white-eyed wolf" in Jiang Shan's mouth.
Later, the matter reached Jiang Shan, and at that moment she felt that this younger brother was still very good, and it seemed that she had misunderstood Jiang He before.
After this incident, the relationship between the four members of the family became more and more harmonious, and everyone treated Jiang He as a close relative.
Jiang He gained the warmth of the family because of Jiang Kun and his wife, and on the other hand, Jiang Kun was also very relieved to look at the children he raised.
For so many years, only his wife, Li Jingmin, knows how much he has given to his children.
In the eyes of outsiders, Jiang He is Jiang Kun's "illegitimate son", but in Li Jingmin's eyes, Jiang He is a ray of light brought by Jiang Kun to his family.
Because of Jiang He's arrival, the family's laughter has become more, and at the same time, the couple has also learned a lot from raising Jiang He, and more importantly, they have witnessed the growth process of a life.
Looking back on most of Jiang Kun's life, he was born from an ordinary background but is well-known by the people of the whole country for his hobbies.
After becoming famous, he did not have bad habits, but did his best to contribute to society.
In order to let his wife Li Jingmin live a good life, he is willing to give up everything and go to other places to work alone.
Li Jingmin and Jiang Kun have been in a state of only correspondence for many years, and judging from the norm of that era, they will have a high probability of breaking up, but the result is unexpected, and the two have never abandoned each other.
Jiang Kun went from an ordinary corps propaganda team member to a well-known actor, and the change in status gap did not hinder the continuation of this relationship.
The reason why Jiang Kun can become everyone's idol is inseparable from his noble character and strong will.
It's no wonder that Li Jingmin said to outsiders: "I never regretted marrying him." ”