The first love in a young age is always unforgettable.
For Jin Dong, the girlfriend Sui Junbo he met in college was the first warm sun in his life.
At that time, Jin Dong had just been admitted to the Central Academy of Drama, full of enthusiasm and ideals, and began the road of drama Xi. It was the first time to live away from his family, and everything was new to him.
In school, Jin Dong met the beautiful and lively Sui Junbo. The two young teenagers quickly fell in love, and it didn't take long for their relationship to be confirmed. The appearance of Sui Junbo made Jin Dong's college life more sweet and romantic.
They would soak in the library together, Jin Dong would concentrate on preparing for class, while Sui Junbo would sneak around behind Jin Dong and hand him a cup of hot milk or stuff a small dessert.
Sometimes Sui Junbo would also take Jin Dong to the campus lake for a walk, laughing and playing while telling interesting stories about their classes today.
For the young and vigorous two, it is already a great happiness to be able to see each other every day. They spent a carefree college time together, which was the best bloom of youth.
However, the good times did not last long, and when the two graduated and stepped into society, the change of environment and rhythm also affected their original relationship. Running around for their respective acting careers, the two gradually drifted apart in the days when they got together less and left more.
In the end, I had to face the reality and chose to break up.
Although this relationship ended in a breakup, for Jin Dong, it was the best memory of his growing up. Sui Junbo appeared when he needed company the most and became his irreplaceable first love.
In 2006, a TV series "Sad Mother and Son" became a turning point in Jin Dong's life. In this play, he met Jiang Shan.
Jiang Shan is 9 years older than Jin Dong and is an excellent actor with mature acting skills. What's even more rare is that she gave Jin Dong a lot of guidance and help, and the two established a deep friendship in their work.
Perhaps it was Jiang Shan's mature and gentle personality that attracted Jin Dong, and after many collaborations, the two gradually developed ambiguous feelings.
At first, Jin Dong hesitated. After all, Jiang Shan is not only older than him, but also has a daughter, and is a mature single mother. However, the little secrets at work and the heart-to-heart fit in the middle of the night are quietly narrowing the distance between the two hearts.
In the end, Jin Dong plucked up the courage to confess his heart. Unexpectedly, Jiang Shan gladly accepted. Despite the 9-year age difference between the two, that can't stop them from falling in love.
A pair of "sister and brother love" began. Jin Dong will take care of Jiang Shan's daily life carefully, and Jiang Shan will also look at Jin Dong with gentle eyes, just like looking at his other half.
They would cook food together and go out to the movies. Jiang Shan would occasionally take Jin Dong home and cook him a few hometown specialties. When Jin Dong tasted the dishes made by Jiang Shan, his eyes were filled with happy smiles.
After 5 years of cohabitation, they have been in love with each other and supported each other. Even if the arrival of Jiang Shan's daughter brought some trouble to the two, Jin Dong was willing to take care of this little girl, thinking that when she grew up, he would understand his mother's choice.
However, the little girl's opposition was far beyond the imagination of the two. Finally, this deep but helpless relationship ended under the pressure of reality.
When they broke up, both of them were heartbroken. Jiang Shan knew that this was the person she loved most in her life, but she was powerless to get it back. And Jin Dong also understands that some bonds are destined to be difficult to overcome.
But those 5 years of sweet time will always be condensed in the softest and warmest place in their hearts.
If Jiang Shan is the star of Jin Dong's belief in love again, then Li Jia is the North Star to which his heart belongs.
In 2010, the two met in the play "Youth Never Say Die". Li Jia is 3 years older than Jin Dong and is an actor with superb acting skills and mature intellectuality. may be too similar in life experience, the two hit it off at first sight and quickly became acquainted.
Li Jia also had a failed marriage during which she was forced to give up her career, which made her cherish her current job very much. And Jin Dong has gradually grown up in the ups and downs in the past few years, and he sees life and love very clearly.
They don't just talk about the world, but really understand each other and support each other. Li Jia will hand Jin Dong a thirst-quenching drink when he is tired, and Jin Dong will also give Li Jia a warm hug when she is sad.
Once, Li Jia received a message from her ex-husband and fell into confusion and self-blame for a while. It was Jin Dong who carefully discovered that something was wrong with her, patiently confided in her, and listened to her inner struggle.
"Don't blame yourself. Jin Dong patted Li Jia's shoulder, "I'll accompany you." ”
A simple sentence seems to have something to rely on. Li Jia's eyes rekindled the light of hope, she knew that this person would be with her all the way.
After work, the two will also make an appointment to go out to take pictures of beautiful scenery. They share a hobby of photography and can spend all day looking for beautiful images by mountain lakes.
Three years later, they finally confirmed their relationship and tied the knot. As a fateful partner, Li Jia put down her acting career and devoted herself to her family, becoming Jin Dong's most firm backing.
And Jin Dong's career has reached its peak with the full support of his wife, and the happy life of both children is even more enviable.
However, what really makes this marriage strong and lasting is the inner fit of the two. The two who have experienced the hardships of life know how to support, understand, and cherish everything they have now.
Li Jia is Jin Dong's bosom friend in this life, and it is also where his heart belongs. From choosing Jiang Shan to Li Jia, Jin Dong's concept of love has undergone a subtle change. This actually reflects his maturity and thinking about love and life.
When he first chose Jiang Shan, Jin Dong was still a young man. What he values more is the emotional foundation established by the two at work, and Jiang Shan's mature and wise personality is also in line with his beautiful imagination of love.
But when this relationship cracked under the impact of reality, Jin Dong gradually understood that love without a realistic foundation was difficult to maintain. The age gap between him and Jiang Shan, as well as the existence of Jiang Shan's daughter, are all gaps that this relationship is unable to cross.
So, when he met Li Jia, a woman who also had a failed marriage, Jin Dong's concept of love began to change. He is no longer simply obsessed with love itself, but on the basis of understanding whether the life values of both parties are compatible, he devotes himself to delivery.
Compared with Jiang Shan, Li Jia has a better understanding of his life in the entertainment industry, and the two are like-minded. Outside of work, they also have more topics and hobbies in common.
This lays the foundation for a solid relationship later on.
When Li Jia once again gave up her career to focus on her family, Jin Dong also felt that she should take on more responsibilities. He did his best to achieve greater success in his career and provide a steady stream of strength for this fateful fate.
The various life circumstances after marriage have made the two feel the inner fit, which is a more stable cognition of love.
Now they have both children and a happy home life. This is in sharp contrast to the feelings that lived together for five years but were ultimately invincible to reality. It is enough to show that after experiencing the ups and downs of life, Jin Dong has found a partner who truly knows his fate.
Of course, his feelings for Jiang Shan also made Jin Dong understand the powerlessness and pain of loving someone. From this helpless separation, he is also growing. This pain was not in vain, but became the driving force behind him to cherish the person in front of him even more.
In life, it is not easy to meet the other half of your soulmate. Jin Dong, who experienced pain and confusion, finally became a winner in love. He chose his fateful wife Li Jia, who shared the joys and sorrows, and got along with her, went through the ups and downs of life, and spent the rest of his life together.
This is the best gift that love can give them.