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My husband and I have been married for 5 years and have been living happily ever after. I am a primary school teacher, and my husband works in sales for a foreign company, and we are both very busy, but we will find time to go out to the movies and travel together.
In the past year, my husband's work pressure has become more and more intense, and he often works overtime until late before returning home. I was also busy preparing for classes and grading homework, so we didn't get together much and didn't have much time to communicate. Gradually, small things can cause quarrels.
The other day, we had another big fight over a trivial matter. When I came home from work that day, I found that my husband was working overtime again, and the room was in a mess. I called him and he said he needed to finish a big project today and would be back in the evening. I couldn't help but get angry: "Can't you tell me in advance? The house is so messy, I still have to cook and wash dishes, and you don't help, you only know work!"
My husband was also angry: "Isn't this for the sake of my family? You can't just think about yourself and understand my difficulties, right?"
I was even angrier and hung up. After that, I sulked and cleaned up the room and made dinner, but my husband still didn't come back. I think he's too selfish, always putting his work first, and he never thinks about my feelings.
At 11 o'clock in the evening, my husband dragged his tired body home. I didn't say anything with a cold face, and my husband didn't speak, so I went straight to the shower. When I saw him like that, my heart burned like a fire. Later, as we lay in bed, my husband tried to talk to me, and I turned my back to him.
"I'm sorry, I'm too tired today to help you with your chores. My husband said cautiously.
"You're going to say you're sorry!" I couldn't help but yell, "When are you going to put your family and me first?"
"Am I not doing it for the good of my family?" My husband also raised his voice, "I work so hard, you should be grateful!"
"Gratitude?" I sneered, "You never cared how I felt!
I grabbed my pillow and slept alone on the couch in the living room. After thinking about it, I felt that the problem between me and my husband seemed to be getting worse and worse. We have maintained good communication since we got married, but this argument made me realize that there was a misunderstanding between us in terms of work and life.
When I arrived at my parents' house, my mother saw my red and swollen eyes and immediately knew what was going on. "What's wrong? Is your husband bullying you again?" Mom said worriedly. I nodded and told her all the ins and outs.
"Well, it's inevitable that there will be quarrels between you husband and wife. Mom sighed, "But you can't keep running back to your parents' house, the two of you need to communicate well and solve problems." ”
"I've put up with him for a long time!" I said angrily, "He never thinks about me, how can I communicate with him? I have to let him know this time that I mean it!"
Seeing that my emotions had not calmed down, my mother no longer persuaded me, but just patted me on the shoulder and told me to rest.
When I returned to my parents' home, I felt extremely lonely and aggrieved. Every night when I lie alone in a cold bed, I miss my husband's hugs. During the day, watching the children play happily, I also think of my husband, and we used to talk about having children soon.
A month passed quickly, and my emotions gradually calmed down. Although I am still angry with my husband, I miss and worry more about it. We've been together for five years, after all, and I don't want to end the relationship just like that. So, I mustered up the courage and decided to go home and have a good talk with my husband.
My hands trembled as I continued to read my husband's letter. In the letter, he said that he had lived a month with a lot of self-reproach and guilt, and had been reflecting on his attitude towards me. He realized that he was so focused on his work that he neglected his family and my feelings. He said that I was the most important thing to him and that he could not lose me. At the end of the letter, my husband begged me to come home and give our relationship a fresh start.
After reading the letter, I burst into tears. I know that there is still love between us, but the pressure of life has been too much lately, which has led to some misunderstandings. At this time, the bedroom door suddenly opened, and my husband walked out.
"You're back!" My husband said excitedly.
"Hmm. I nodded with red eyes, "I read your letter." ”
"I'm sorry, I've been so selfish during this time. My husband came over and hugged me tightly, "Can you give me a chance to start over?"
I also hugged my husband and cried: "I'm also at fault, I shouldn't run away like this, but I should communicate with you well." ”
"It's me who I'm sorry for not making you feel safe and important. The husband blamed himself and said, "From today onwards, I will put you and the family first, and we will start again together, okay?"
I nodded, and my husband stroked my hair gently. At this moment, I felt like we were back together.
"Good morning, dear. My husband said to me with a smile.
"Morning. I couldn't help but laugh too.
We chatted over breakfast and the atmosphere was harmonious and warm. I noticed that my husband has changed a lot, he listens to me carefully, and takes the initiative to help me wash the dishes and laundry. I felt more fulfilled and happy than ever before.
In the evenings, we go out to eat together and take a walk in the night. I leaned on my husband's shoulder, and he put his arm around my waist just like we did when we first fell in love.
"Honey, let's work together to rebuild the happiness of the family, shall we?" My husband said to me gently.
"Okay, I will also be more understanding and supportive of you. I replied with a smile.
After returning home and reconciling with my husband, I felt that our relationship was slowly repairing. My husband has learned more ways to express his affection, and from time to time he will buy me flowers and take me out on dates. He also pays more attention to communication with me, often takes the initiative to ask me how my day is, and then listens carefully.
One night, we were eating takeout and chatting about what had happened recently.
"My dear, the company is going to send me to Beijing for a month business trip recently. My husband said with some embarrassment, "It's a challenge for us, but if we do it well, we will also have the opportunity to be promoted." You say, should I go?"
I thought about it for a moment and said, "Go ahead, it's important for your career development." We can video call, and I'll give you my full support. ”
"Thank you for your understanding. My husband looked at me with relief, "I'll finish my work and go home as soon as possible." ”
In this way, my husband went to Beijing on a business trip, and I was waiting for him at home alone. During business trips, we have video calls every day to chat about interesting things. Sometimes looking at my husband's tired face on the screen, I also feel distressed.
A month later, my husband finally finished his mission and went home. He said to me happily: "My dear, you are waiting for me at home alone, I successfully completed the task assigned to me by the company this time, and the boss said that he would consider promoting me!"
"Great! Your efforts have paid off, and I'm so proud of you!" I gave my husband a big hug.
In the evening, we happily celebrated my husband's achievements. My husband smiled and said to me, "My dear, without your support and understanding this month, I would never have been able to complete the task." We will be the best team!"
"Yes, we will encourage each other, understand each other, and build a happy home together. "I also say from the bottom of my heart.
We raise a glass to celebrate and toast to a better future for our families. I am confident that after this test, our relationship will be stronger and enter a new phase of happiness.
After my husband came back from a business trip, I found that he became more mature and steady, and cared more about his family and me. One weekend, he offered to go shopping at the supermarket together.
"Honey, it's been a long time since we've been to the supermarket together, I want to buy some fresh ingredients with you to improve the food, is that okay?" My husband asked for my opinion.
"Of course that's good!" I happily agreed.
So we drove to the supermarket, my husband pushed the shopping cart, and I picked out the ingredients I needed. During the grocery shopping period, my husband consulted me from time to time.
"Are these tomatoes fresh? Shall we buy some and go back to make a salad?"
"Honey, do you want to buy some prawns that you like to eat?"
I found that my husband became more and more considerate of me and took care of my feelings, which made me feel very happy and satisfied.
At checkout, my husband insisted on paying the bill. "I'll pay for it this time, so you can choose the ingredients carefully. My husband said softly.
When I got home, my husband offered to go to the kitchen. "You sit and rest, I'll show you my cooking skills tonight!" He laughs.
So I sat at the dining table, looking at my husband's back in an apron, washing and chopping vegetables, and my heart swelled with a long-lost sense of happiness.
"Baby, dinner is ready, come and try my handiwork!" My husband put a few dishes on the table.
"It looks great!" I exclaimed. We had fun eating and talking, and I felt like we were as sweet as when we were newly married.
After dinner, my husband took the initiative to clean up the dishes and chopsticks and the kitchen. After that, we snuggled up on the couch and watched TV. I leaned into my husband's arms and felt very warm and reassuring.
"My dear, I feel very blessed to have you. I looked up and said to my husband.
"Me too, I feel blessed every day with you. My husband kissed me tenderly on the forehead.
In this way, under the careful care of my husband, I feel that our relationship is becoming more and more stable and happy. Until one day, my husband received a phone call, and his face suddenly became ugly.
"What's wrong? Is there something wrong in the company?" I asked with concern.
My husband sighed and said, "It's not the company's business, it's my sister who has an accident, she is sick and hospitalized in the field, and the situation seems to be very serious." ”
"What? Then let's go see her!" I said anxiously.
"But I'm so busy with work right now that it's hard to leave. My husband was embarrassed and said, "But I'm also worried about my sister's situation." ”
"You can go with confidence, my sister is the most important. I understand my husband's difficulties, "I will take care of myself, you can do your best to take care of your sister." ”
"Thank you, dear. Then I'll go to the airport to book a ticket right away, and I'll be there early tomorrow morning. "My husband hugged me gratefully.
"What? Didn't I hear you say that your sister has amnesia and hasn't contacted you in years?" I was amazed.
"Yes, we've been separated for more than ten years!" My husband said, "Maybe it's this illness, she suddenly remembered the past and remembered me! You say, is this providence?"
I could hear my husband's excitement and say happily, "Great! You've finally found your sister, and I'm so happy for you!"
After hanging up the phone, I sat on the edge of the bed and burst into tears. I understood what it meant to my husband, who had finally rediscovered his long-lost family.