I bought 6 hairy crabs and gave 4 to my parents-in-law, but I didn't expect my wife to give the remaining 2 to my parents-in-law.
As a daughter-in-law, I know that my mother-in-law and father-in-law are particularly fond of eating hairy crabs, so I would like to express my respect and gratitude with this heart.
My parents-in-law accepted my gift very happily, and my mother-in-law smiled and said, "Daughter, you are such a good boy, you know that it hurts people."
However, it didn't take long for me to come across a situation that I didn't even expect. My husband and I discussed that we would cook lobsters together tonight, and my parents-in-law seemed to give them hairy crabs to eat very deliciously, which I had selected in the supermarket for a long time.
I was stunned at the time, and now I felt a little aggrieved, the gift I chose, obviously for my parents-in-law, how did it become a gift from my husband to my parents? Doesn't this make me very faceless? But when I saw my husband's satisfied smile, it was not easy to attack, so I could only endure this breath.
The hairy crab that my husband gave to my parents began to smell in the pot, and my husband's parents praised it again and again.
At this time, my husband's sister came out of nowhere and said that she also wanted to share some hairy crabs, which made me feel a little uncomfortable.
I stood up, frowning slightly, and I tried to show a smile: "Don't worry, we have other food, let's enjoy it later, don't be in such a hurry."
His sister hung her head aggrievedly and did not speak.
I watched my husband's expression gradually become serious, and I felt a little guilty in my heart, am I too careful? Between my lover's family and my lover, should I be more tolerant? But thinking that this is a gift from my in-laws, I feel a little unwilling.
It was my mother-in-law's birthday two days later, and I thought to myself that in order to thank her for taking care of me, I would have to prepare a great birthday dinner.
But things were unexpected again: just as I was preparing the stew, my mother-in-law suddenly came up to me and asked me if I had prepared my father-in-law's favorite chicken fir mushrooms.
The mother-in-law frowned, got up and went to the kitchen. I froze in place, feeling a little uncomfortable. I felt like the meal I had prepared wasn't enough to satisfy her, which made me feel stressed and frustrated.
I didn't blame my husband, but I slowly began to feel a little resentful of him. I felt very aggrieved, so I didn't give me any face, so I turned the gift into a gift from him.
My temper gradually became irritable, and my attitude towards my husband became more and more cold. Every time he acted, I felt angry and aggrieved.
These little things began to ferment slowly in my heart.
Again and again, I inadvertently found that there were more and more contradictions and differences between us.
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It's been a long time, but I've always been haunted by my husband giving away the hairy crab I gave to my parents-in-law.
I don't understand, why did my husband do this, didn't he know that the gift I gave to my parents-in-law was out of sincerity and gratitude, and he was simply creating embarrassment and embarrassment for me!
This incident became a thorn in the gap between me and my husband, and I feel uncomfortable every time I think about it. There is noticeably less communication between us, and even when we are together, we often fall silent.
At the same time, my parents-in-law also noticed the conflict between me and my husband, and they always advised me to think more about my husband.
They don't really know how much this affects me, and sometimes I really want to say to them that it's not a small thing.
But I know I'll have to be patient. After all, we are a family, and there will always be bumps and bumps in this marriage.
Maybe I need a while to calm down and sort out my emotions. After all, there is no doubt that my husband and I must have an honest conversation.