How to treat a child who lies in bed in the morning when the weather is cold? Try these methods, one cure the other

In winter, how do you wake up your baby?

Many parents have used all kinds of killer tools, such as the method of pulling curtains, lifting the quilt, the roar of the lion in Hedong, the method of Tang Seng breaking and reciting, etc., the effect cannot be said to be no, but it is quite a toss, and the child is also very disgusted.

If you want your child to get up obediently, you not only have to have a way, but you also have to know why the baby doesn't want to think about it.

1. Why do children always want to lie in bed?

Many parents will find that their children can't scream no matter how much they cry during the week, but on the weekend, they get up earlier than the chickens.

The reason for this is related to the fact that the child did not wake up during the week, such as doing homework too late, or playing too excited to fall asleep, and unable to get up in the morning.

Another reason is actually related to the child's psychological state. Just like adults, when I think about going to work tomorrow, I feel bad and don't want to get up in the morning. Children too, when they think of going to school, they will also be psychologically stressed and don't want to get up.

A mother said that her daughter, every morning to get up is the same as fighting, grandparents and parents take turns, from seven o'clock in the morning, when they get up at eight o'clock, they don't have time to eat, but on the weekend, you want to sleep lazy, she has not yet arrived at six o'clock to get dressed and ask you to play with her, so annoying.

I once chatted with my daughter and asked her why she got up so early on the weekend, and the child said that he could play more early in the morning. When asked why she couldn't wake up from Monday to Friday, she said she didn't want to go to school, so she didn't want to.

In addition, some parents usually have bad living Xi, sleeping late and getting up late is the norm, and children also learn to be adults, do not sleep on time, and cannot get up in the morning.

Therefore, when the child is lying in bed, the parents should first self-check, whether they also have this problem, parents many times, they should set a good example for their children.

2. 5 ways to "wake up", don't use it

What is the "lethal wake-up" method? It is the process of cutting off sleep in an intense way. For example, using too loud noises, non-stop noise, and rough touching of the other person's body to deprive them of a sense of safety in sleep, etc., are all lethal ways to wake up.

This rough way can have very bad effects on children, such as poor emotional control, impulsiveness, irritability, low mood, crying, etc.

The following lethal wake-up methods, parents, please keep in mind, don't use them!

1. Hysterical wake-up calls

If parents fail to wake their children over and over again, they are likely to rush into the child's room in a rage and yell at the child to get him out of bed.

The child is deprived of a sense of sleep security and is awakened from his sleep with the howling that comes with the fright. In this way, both children and adults will affect the mood of the morning.

2. Lift the quilt to wake up

Some parents will run into the child's room, without saying a word, just lift the quilt, and the child will be awakened by the sudden cold and at a loss.

3. Rough shaking to wake up

Seeing that the baby does not care about themselves, parents do not have time to call them over and over again, and directly start to shake, shake or slap roughly, which can easily cause anger and aggressive behavior in children.

4. Constant nagging wake-up

Seeing that the baby doesn't get up, some parents run to the room again and again, calling once every three minutes, calling once every five minutes, and as a result, the child should be reconciled, and then turn his head and go to sleep again, the more he screams, the more he can't afford it.

5. Noise-making wake-up calls

Seeing that the children are indifferent to the words of their parents, parents begin to use tricks, from time to time to make the home ping-pong, or turn on the stereo at home, play a loud music, the child is woken up by the noise, and the probability is also a "get up".

3. 7 tips to get your child out of bed painlessly

If you want your child to get up obediently and not be late, the method is very important, and the following are 7 tips for you to recommend for you to make it no longer difficult for your child to get up.

1. Make a schedule with your child and stick to it

Ensuring adequate sleep is the premise of helping children maintain a good mood, parents can set a good sleep time according to the age of the child, and then work with the child to develop a schedule and ask for strict compliance, to develop a good routine.

Waking up early starts with going to bed early, and parents should take the lead.

2. Use light to wake up

Parents can put a dimmable lamp in the child's bedroom, ask the child to gradually turn on the lamp when he gets up, and then quietly walk away, and the light will wake up the child for you. If you don't have such a lamp, slowly pulling the curtains can do the same.

3. Use the aroma of breakfast to wake up

The good aroma is easy to stimulate the human brain, and the sensory function of the brain can also be awakened. Therefore, parents may wish to prepare their children's favorite breakfast, milk and other foods, and use food to wake up their children.

4. Use music to wake up

Parents can prepare some soft and comfortable music in advance, such as the sound of birds and the sound of running water, and play it next to the child's bed when they are about to get up, and pay attention to the volume not too much.

5. Wake up with a gentle stroke

You can give your child a sober stroke: pat the back, pat the buttocks, rub the belly, so that after a few minutes, the child will wake up naturally, and he will be in a good mood and will not lose his temper. Stroking to wake up is definitely an excellent way for babies to get up painlessly and without bothering their mothers.

6. Smart alarm clock wake-up method

Now there are many smart products on the market, parents can choose an alarm clock with their children, and then set the time to sleep and wake up with their children, some alarm clocks can be set privately, such as setting sleep time, setting interesting wake-up music, stories, etc., so that children are attracted by the sound and get up happily.

7. Let the child bear the natural consequences of waking up late

If you get up late, you don't have time to eat breakfast, and you have to be criticized by the teacher when you are late, you can try to let the child experience and bear these things.

Many adults will lie in bed, not to mention children, parents must pay attention to ways and methods, with some small wisdom to treat children in bed, so as to help children develop good work and rest Xi.