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Preface
"I'd rather be a beggar in the United States than return home. ”
This sentence came from the mouth of CCTV host Cao Qing, this unattainable job should have a good future, but it was ruined by her.
Cao Qing chose to marry a Chinese-American at the peak of her career, but after marriage, she was abused and subjected to domestic violence, which can be said to have made Cao Qing fall to the bottom.
So why did Cao Qing, who was born and raised in China, resolutely choose to destroy her future?
Cao Qing's life changed
Cao Qing is a typical beautiful anchor in everyone's hearts, and she can be said to have left a deep impression on the audience in front of the screen.
Everyone believes that such a talented and good-looking woman will definitely have a good future in the future.
However, in the summer of 2015, Cao Qing's life changed dramatically because of the appearance of a man.
By chance, Cao Qing met her future husband Tu Zhongheng, an American medical worker who also had his own hospital in the United States.
As we all know, the medical industry in the United States is very promising, and the salary package is excellent.
Tu Zhongheng himself has a doctorate, plus he works as a family doctor, and his family is very wealthy.
The two met at a party, and Tu Zhongheng was deeply attracted by Cao Qing's talent and conversation at first sight, and then launched a crazy pursuit.
Because he was very wealthy in his hands, Tu Zhongheng began to attack Cao Qing in this regard, and he was very generous.
In this way, Tu Zhongheng narrowed the distance with Cao Qing with material contributions, and Cao Qing began to gradually embark on an irreparable path.
Cao Qing was moved by Tu Zhongheng, in addition to the strong economic conditions of the other party, Cao Qing was also moved by Tu Zhongheng's sincerity, and at the same time wanted to follow him to go abroad to see the world.
But what you must know is that Tu Zhongheng is almost twenty years older than Cao Qing, and there is a huge age difference between the two.
Next, Cao Qing made the most important decision in her life.
Cao Qing decided to try it with Tu Zhongheng, and after confirming the relationship, Tu Zhongheng frequently planned the future life of the two in front of Cao Qing, and Cao Qing was even more sure that the man in front of him was his lifelong partner.
When Tu Zhongheng put forward the idea of getting married, Cao Qing decisively agreed, because she was deeply attracted by the diamond king Lao Wu, who was 20 years older than her.
In 2015, 37-year-old Cao Qing resigned from her job at CCTV and held a vigorous wedding with Tu Zhongheng, inviting celebrities from all walks of life on the spot, and also using a Chinese-style wedding to marry Cao Qing in a sedan chair.
But in fact, the wedding of the two of them was not blessed by relatives and friends, and there were many opposing voices around them.
Cao Qing's parents feel that this marriage is very unreasonable, because of the disparity in age and the gap in social experience, the opposition is extremely strong.
But Cao Qing resolutely ignored everyone's opposition and entered the palace of marriage with Tu Zhongheng.
After getting married, Cao Qing followed Tu Zhongheng to the United States, but the reality was not the "perfect" that Cao Qing imagined.
From the witnesses to the officiants, they are all top celebrities in the political and business circles and the entertainment industry, and even those who oppose it mistakenly believe that Cao Qing has found true love.
Cao Qing was looking forward to it, after the two went to the United States, instead of living the rich life they imagined, they also hid unknown secrets behind them.
The husband shows his claws
When the two first arrived in the United States, Tu Zhongheng was quite good to Cao Qing, and he also fulfilled what he promised when they were in love before, giving Cao Qing a rich material life.
Cao Qing also successfully obtained a green card because of Tu Zhongheng, and then she felt that she was an American and moved towards her ideal life.
However, after a few days of affluent life, a tragic reality arises in front of us.
The fuse of the contradiction was because Cao Qing wanted a child, but he and Tu Zhongheng had been preparing for pregnancy for a long time, and Cao Qing still had no signs of pregnancy.
Halfway through, Cao Qing also found that Tu Zhongheng was easily short-tempered, and even had a strong desire to control and possess Cao Qing.
What happened next was a bolt from the blue for Cao Qing.
Because there was no reaction to preparing for pregnancy for a long time, Cao Qing went to the hospital for an examination, and the result was that there was no problem with herself.
So under repeated questioning, Tu Zhongheng admitted to Cao Qing the fact that he couldn't have children, and said that he had long lost his fertility, and pursuing Cao Qing was also deliberately concealed.
Cao Qing couldn't accept it, in her heart, it was like a bolt from the blue, in addition, next, Cao Qing's life also changed greatly under Tu Zhongheng's control.
Because Tu Zhongheng lives a very frugal life, and the videos he buys in his life are all cheap videos, after the conflict between the two, he controlled Cao Qing's life.
Tu Zhongheng used various means to control her social interactions, did not allow her to contact her family, and did not allow her to go out for any activities.
In addition, even the daily diet only gives Cao Qing rice, and he will be grumpy and punch and kick Cao Qing.
This kind of life is too different from the life Cao Qing imagined, and she is completely disappointed in Tu Zhongheng.
Since then, Cao Qing's body has also changed, and she couldn't bear it anymore and made an unexpected decision while her husband was not at home.
Court
Cao Qing asked for help from her friends online and expressed Tu Zhongheng's abuse of her in her life.
She said that she did not use sanitary napkins at all during her menstrual period, and in addition, she had lost nearly 20 pounds due to malnutrition, and she looked skinny.
In addition, it turned out that Cao Qing had been in the United States for more than a year, and the green card in her hand was only temporary.
Tu Zhongheng quickly responded to the matter after learning about it, he said that what Cao Qing said was one-sided, and Cao Qing had always been clothed to reach out and open his mouth.
In addition, Tu Zhongheng's next move is to show his true face in front of the public.
Tu Zhongheng sued Cao Qing in court for "marital infidelity" fraud, and the two insisted on their own words, obviously it was difficult to distinguish between right and wrong.
In 2017, both of them applied for a public trial, which caused a lot of sensation at the time.
Cao Qing wrote down all of Tu Zhongheng's evil deeds in the lawsuit, and Tu Zhongheng in turn accused Cao Qing of being very difficult to serve.
Next, the judge proposed that Cao Qing could be divorced and returned to China, but Cao Qing's response was incomprehensible and even unexpected.
Cao Qing said that she didn't want to divorce, and at the same time hoped to save this marriage, so many people were puzzled and even suspected that Cao Qing's experience was fabricated by her.
The two have not divorced for a long time, and even Cao Qing's parents have comforted her, and Cao Qing is still bent on going her own way, hoping to live a good life with Tu Zhongheng.
Until the end, Cao Qing did not agree to divorce her husband, and wanted to reconcile with Tu Zhongheng, in her heart, as long as her husband can change his mind, things will have room to turn around, but this is not the case.
Her lawyer gave her a lot of advice, and everyone around her hoped that she could break free from the swamp of marriage, but Cao Qing's decision was chilling.
Even in front of the media, Cao Qing said that she would rather be a beggar in the United States than return to China, netizens seem to have been used to such a drama, and they have accused Cao Qing in the comment area, and she is to blame for these encounters.
Cao Qing originally wanted to use the reputation she had accumulated from her work at CCTV to put all the pressure of public opinion on Tu Zhongheng, but the truth was not what she thought.
Now netizens are all pointing the finger at Cao Qing, and even poking at her sore spot in every sentence, and even scolding netizens after becoming emotional.
Cao Qing's experience has aroused social concern, and this transnational love and this legal turmoil have caused netizens to think deeply.
epilogue
Today's Cao Qing is still living in the United States, and she has never divorced Tu Zhongheng, no matter what, this is her own choice.
It's hard to imagine that the female anchor who shines on CCTV has ended up where she is now, and people can't help but sigh that fate makes people happy.
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