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My husband Li Jianhua and I have been married for ten years, and we are living a very happy life. My husband is very good to me, although he is not very good at words, I can feel his love for me from every bit of him.
I have a younger brother named Zhang Xiaoyang, he just started working four years ago, he is a typical person, he often spends money lavistly, and every time the money is spent at the end of the month, he will come to me to ask for living expenses. I treat this brother-in-law like my own son, and I will always support him.
Last month, Xiaoyang told me that he had already talked about a girlfriend and was ready to get married. But he was short of money, and the down payment for marriage was still hundreds of thousands of yuan. He said to me, "Sister, can you do me a favor and lend me some money, I'm really in a hurry here, what do you think?"
I listened to my brother's request, and I was very embarrassed. This down payment of hundreds of thousands of yuan is also a lot of money for our family. I thought about it for a while, but I still couldn't help but want to help him: "Xiaoyang, don't worry, my sister will find a way to handle it, you go and prepare for other marriage matters first." ”
After I answered Xiaoyang like this, I sat in my room and fell into deep thought. This amount of money is indeed not small, and our family's savings add up to 500,000 yuan. I knew that my husband would be against lending his savings to his brother, but I couldn't help but want to help Xiaoyang achieve his marriage.
Xiaoyang thanked me again and again, and promised me that he would pay back the money as soon as possible. I hung up, still nervous. When my husband finds out that the family's money is gone, he will be furious.
Sure enough, two days later, my husband looked at our passbook and his face instantly darkened: "What's the matter? Where did all our savings go?" I see my husband like this, his heart is very weak, and he can't speak.
When my husband saw me like this, he was even more puzzled: "Where did you take the money?
I had to muster up the courage to tell it all: "Husband, I'm sorry, I lent money to my brother Xiaoyang, he is going to get married, and the money is not enough, let me lend it to him first." I really couldn't help it, so I lent it out first, don't worry, I will communicate with him and try to catch it back as soon as possible. ”
When my husband heard me say this, his face turned green with anger: "How can you lend out all your family savings without consulting me? That's our hard-earned money for many years! You're too irresponsible, aren't you?"
I saw my husband so angry, and I felt very uncomfortable, and defended: "I'm also anxious about Xiaoyang, you know that he has always been very close to me, and I want to help him fulfill his wish, can you understand me?"
"Considerate, you're embarrassed to say it!" My husband was even more angry, "This is our hard-earned money, and it's not your own, you have no power to control it!" I am the master of this family, how can you handle the family's savings without asking me? I really misjudged you!"
I was yelled at by my husband, and tears came out: "Husband, I'm sorry, I didn't think it through, but I also have good intentions, do you dislike me so much?"
"I can't trust you anymore!" My husband looked very disappointed, "From today onwards, I will only pay 7,000 yuan for living expenses to you, and I will handle the rest by myself!"
When my husband said this, I became even more sad: "Husband, why are you like this? You have handed over all your salary to me for the past 10 years, didn't we say that I will manage the housework? How can you not trust me?"
"It's useless for me to trust you, you don't even plan to discuss with me and dispose of your savings without permission!" My husband said coldly.
At this point, we were both angry and locked in a cold war. I felt very sad in my heart and felt that my husband was too inconsiderate of me. But thinking that I did make mistakes, I should discuss with him first, and I shouldn't dispose of the family's money without authorization.
After two days, my emotions finally calmed down. I realized that it was useless to quarrel with my husband, and I should still reflect on my own problems. So I decided to go to my husband to apologize and hope that we could reconcile soon.
I knocked on my husband's door, and he saw that it was me, and his face was still ugly. I plucked up the courage to say to him, "Husband, I'm sorry, but I was wrong, and I shouldn't have not consulted you when dealing with important things at home." I was too anxious about Xiaoyang's affairs to think about it. I sincerely apologize to you and hope you can forgive me this time. ”
Although my husband still looked displeased, his tone had softened: "Forget it, I also said something serious to hurt you." It's just that in the future, you have to discuss more with me in matters at home, and don't make your own decisions anymore. ”
I nodded: "I know it's wrong, I promise to discuss it with you next time, and we will still decide the family affairs together as before." Can you continue to pay me the full amount for management?"
My husband was silent for a while, and finally said, "Okay, I'm sure you will correct it in the future." Let's build this home together. ”
On the night when my husband and I reconciled, I suddenly received a transfer reminder from my younger brother Xiaoyang. He transferred 500,000 yuan to me, and it was the 450,000 yuan I lent him earlier with some interest. I was stunned and immediately called Xiaoyang:
"Xiaoyang, why did you suddenly return the money to me, did something happen?"
When I heard Xiaoyang say this, the big stone in my heart finally fell to the ground. I smiled and said, "Silly brother, just pay me back the money, and you don't have to pay interest." Knowing that you got married well, my sister is also very happy. If you have any difficulties in the future, just tell me, but you must also learn to be independent. Well, you can bring your new wife to the house for a good meal!"
"Okay sister, I'm going to come to visit!" Xiaoyang said happily.
I hung up the phone, ran to my husband excitedly, and showed him the transfer record on my phone: "Husband, look, Xiaoyang has paid back all the money! And added interest! He has successfully married a few days ago!"
My husband was also shocked: "What's the situation? Didn't you say that it would take at least a few months to get it back?"
I hurriedly explained what Xiaoyang had just told me, and my husband suddenly realized: "It turned out that it was just our misunderstanding to lend him money, he himself made money later, and you didn't really fund him." It seems that we did have a big quarrel before. ”
I nodded, and said with some self-reproach: "It's all because I didn't think it through, I should have discussed it with you first, and I made it my discretion to make you worry in vain." I'm sorry husband, I will never do this again. ”
My husband hurriedly waved his hand: "It's also that I'm too quick to say anything serious to hurt you." If we encounter anything in the future, we still have to calm down and discuss it well, so that we can understand the other party's suffering. ”
When my husband said this, my heart was very warm. I smiled and shook his hand: "I will be more attentive to your feelings in the future." Thank you for always being so tolerant of me. ”
My husband also chuckled: "We have been husband and wife for so many years, and it is no longer a problem to understand each other's tempers." As long as we are considerate and supportive of each other, there is no problem that cannot be overcome. ”
I nodded and said sincerely, "Husband, I will always rely on you with you." No matter what difficulties we encounter in the future, we will definitely go hand in hand. ”
"Yes, I will always protect your mother and daughter. My husband said softly.
We looked at each other and smiled and kissed each other. These days have cleared the gloom, and my husband and I have a deeper relationship than ever, because we understand the value of mutual understanding.
A few days later, Xiaoyang came to our house with his new wife as promised. As soon as I opened the door, a beautiful and lively little girl followed Xiaoyang to stand outside the door, and he said to me with a smile: "Sister, this is my beloved wife Xiaofang!"
I hurriedly went up and hugged Xiaofang's shoulders: "Please come in, please come in, my dear sister Xiaofang!" Xiao Fang was a little shy, but soon smiled as well.
Xiaoyang saw that her husband also shook hands with him warmly: "Brother, let you laugh, thank you for letting my unreasonable brother take up so much of your funds." My husband laughed and said, "It's all a misunderstanding, don't take it to heart." ”
So we started the long-lost family feast in laughter. My husband and I frequently went to the kitchen to help out and make sure that every dish was satisfying for Xiaoyang and Xiaofang.
This meal was eaten exceptionally happily, as if it swept away the unhappiness of the previous days. I looked at my husband, then at my brother and his beautiful bride, and I was glad that I had such a harmonious family. I will always cherish my husband's love for me and the mutual support between me and my family.
In the days since, my husband and I have returned to their former sweet and peaceful life. During my husband's work, we also made video calls every day, chatted about interesting things, and reluctantly said goodbye.
One day at noon, my husband suddenly invited me by video with a mysterious smile on his face. I answered with some doubts, and my husband said, "Honey, I have a surprise for you!"
I was confused and watched my husband point the camera at his desk, only to see a beautiful brown gift box on his desk. "What is this?" I asked curiously. My husband smiled but didn't say a word, and motioned for me to open it and look at it myself.
I couldn't wait to unpack the box, and inside lay a delicate white gold necklace with a letter "" on the pendant of the necklace. This is the English initials of my husband, and I covered my mouth in surprise: "Husband, this is too expensive, when did you buy it?"
My husband said proudly: "A few days ago, I passed by the jewelry store after working overtime, and I thought I wanted to buy you a surprise." Our relationship has gone through ups and downs and is stronger now, and I want to give you a small gift to represent my love. ”
I said excitedly, "Husband, I like it so much! Help me put it on and see the effect!" My husband smiled and picked up the necklace and gestured to the camera: "I'll go home and put it on for you in a while." Let's celebrate at a fine dining restaurant tonight. ”
I happily agreed. After hanging the video, I can't wait to share this surprise with my good sister Xiaofang. She was happy for me, and at the same time laughed at the fact that we were like a pair of young people. I teased her shyly, but my heart was so sweet.
After work, I dressed up and waited for my husband to come home. As soon as he saw me, he admired my beauty and hugged me in his arms and kissed me. Then he solemnly put the necklace around my neck and fastened the buckle for me with his own hands.
I ran to the mirror to admire, the letter pendant shining at my collarbone. "It's really flattering. My husband said with a smile on the side. I happily turned around and kissed him.
We had a romantic dinner in the restaurant. My husband also lit candles and ordered my favorite dishes. We ate and chatted until late at night, and on the way home I leaned on my husband's shoulder, feeling extremely happy and content.
Every year on my wedding anniversary, my husband would give me a new piece of jewelry as a gift. Looking at these ornaments given by my husband, I felt his sincere love for me. And when he puts on a new gift for me, I also give him an affectionate kiss to celebrate another year of sweet time.
My daughter has grown up and is now in college. Every time I come home from vacation, she says that we are like a pair of friends in love. My husband and I couldn't help but smile at each other and hold hands affectionately. Even after 20 years, we are still glue.
There will inevitably be misunderstandings and gloom on the road of life, but as long as we understand and tolerate each other, we can resolve all contradictions. My husband and I will keep our original intention in mind and continue to walk hand in hand. I believe that in the years to come, we will continue to live happily in the habitat of love.
Just a month before my daughter was ready to give birth, I suddenly fainted at home and was rushed to the hospital. The doctor diagnosed me with acute leukemia and had to start chemotherapy immediately. This sudden bad news plunged my husband and I into an unprecedented panic.
"Husband, I'm sorry I made you worried. I said weakly as I lay on my hospital bed. My husband held my hand with tears in his eyes: "Honey, you will be fine, we will overcome the disease." ”
I have been in the hospital for the first few months. The side effects of chemotherapy gave me a splitting headache, and sometimes I couldn't even see my husband's face. My husband was by my side every day, feeding me and telling me happy things to make me laugh. With him, my pain was half alleviated.
At this most difficult moment, my daughter gave birth to a pink and cute little boy. The nurse pushed my daughter and newborn to see me, and I stroked my little grandson's soft cheek, my heart overflowing with hope. I made up my mind to live and watch this little life grow.
Sure enough, when I think of my family, the results of my treatment have improved significantly. After a month of recuperation, I was finally able to be discharged from the hospital and go home to recuperate. My husband drove to pick me up, and when he saw that my face was much more ruddy, he was so happy that he couldn't close his mouth.
I relied on my husband's careful care, and most of my body recovered quickly. One day I went out to bask in the sun, and suddenly I saw a kind-faced old man practicing Xi Tai Chi in the yard. I went up to talk to him, and it turned out that he was my neighbor and a retired old teacher.
When he saw that I was in good spirits, he invited me to practice Xi Tai Chi with me every day. I readily agreed. Gradually, spending an hour a day practicing Xi boxing became my Xi habit. This not only strengthened my physique, but also allowed me to meet many elderly people of the same age. I feel like my life is alive again.
Although my husband and I are old, the ups and downs we have experienced over the years have only strengthened our relationship, like a ripe wine. I believe that we will spend every day together until the last moment of our lives.
Spring went to autumn, and a few years passed in the blink of an eye. My husband and I are both seventy or eighty years old, and we are gradually feeling the ruthlessness of the years.
My husband's health is deteriorating, and I can't do it anymore. After discussion, we decided to move to the Happiness Home, where professional medical staff can take care of us and our children can visit regularly. As we packed up all our life's memories and moved them out of the cottage where we had lived for decades, I couldn't help but shed sentimental tears.
There are many elderly people of the same age as us living in the Happiness House. Although they were suffering from physical illness, they were all warm and harmonious with each other. I often talk about my wife's anecdotes to make everyone happy, and other elderly people will tell me about their struggles when they were young. The caregivers here are very patient, and my husband and I are gradually Xi to the new rhythm of life.
I do my best to take care of my wife's daily life. Every morning, I would carefully help my husband wash and dress, and then push him to bask in the sun and walk in the yard. I'll let him take a nap at noon, and we'll talk until we fall asleep in the evening. I hope he will be happy for the rest of his life.
My daughter's family comes to visit us every month. My grandson is now in middle school, and every time he comes, he excitedly tells us interesting things that happened at school. Looking at his young and lively appearance, my husband and I will also think of the bits and pieces of our youth, and we can't help but smile.
In this way, in the company of our relatives, my husband and I lived peacefully in the Happiness House for two years. Until one day, my husband passed away peacefully in his sleep. When I found my wife out of breath in the morning, tears rolled down my wrinkled face. The husband walked peacefully, with a satisfied and calm expression. I know that he has completed the journey of this life.
My husband's funeral was simple but solemn, and my children and I did our best to fulfill his last wish. As I laid down the wreath, I looked at my wife's familiar face and whispered "goodbye" to see him go back to heaven.
After my husband left, I missed him very much, but I also felt that his soul would always be with me. In order to commemorate him, I held his favorite calligraphy and painting class in the small lounge of the Happiness House. I recited my wife's favorite ancient poems to let everyone feel his temperament. It has also become one of the great joys of my life.
I began to regain my youthful hobbies, learning Xi cook, paint, and grow flowers, so that my life was full of optimism and vitality. My daughter often comes to see me and brings her grandson to cook my favorite dishes, and we have a great time. I will also tell my little grandson the story of my wife and me when I was young, and feel the ups and downs and joys of life.
I know that I will be able to spend a little more time with my children and watch them grow up until I am also on my final journey. Life is like a book, and this year it has turned to the back cover. I believe that my wife will be waiting for me in the spirit of heaven, and we will meet again.
In the days after my wife passed away, although I missed him, I also tried to live my life happily and fully. I would participate in various activities organized by the Happiness House, singing, dancing and making fun of each other with other elderly people. We are like a big family, caring for each other.
One day, the Happiness House arranged a spring outing, and we took a tour bus to a scenic suburban park. I took a deep breath of fresh air and looked at the plants and flowers, and I couldn't help but feel much more relaxed. It reminds me of the good old days when I was young and went on outings with my wife.
There is a small lake in the park that reflects the white clouds floating in the sky. The benches by the lake are full of old people. I also found a place to sit and watched them wait patiently for the fish to take the bait.
Suddenly, an old man excitedly shouted, "The fish has been hooked!" I hurriedly looked over, only to see the fishing rod in his hand shaking violently, and a crucian carp with the mouth of a bowl jumped out of the water. The old man laughed, quickly reeled the line, and a beautiful trap hung the big fish.
"That's amazing!" I exclaimed. The old man said happily, "I have been fishing for 60 years, and it is rare to see such a large crucian carp." Good luck today!" I watched him smile and couldn't help but laugh along.
This rekindled the love of life in my heart. I started to think about taking up some hobbies to enrich the fun of life. I remembered that my wife liked to play chess the most when she was alive, so I found a few old people to learn to play chess and chess together. I had a terrible start and was often beaten by my opponent in three or two. But gradually, I became more familiar with the various games and tactics, and I was proud to win a game or two once in a while.
In addition to playing chess, I also walk in the park, sketch, and practice Xi tai chi. Sometimes I also do social dancing with a few old friends. Although we are no longer vigorous, we are still in a good mood when we dance. I feel so much younger again.
I go to the hospital regularly for check-ups, and although the deadline is approaching, I am still in good health. Every day I am grateful for the time God has given me, and I want to live a wonderful and satisfying life without regrets.
My daughters and grandchildren would come to visit me often. Last year, my little grandson also went to college, and every time he came home, he would bring me souvenirs and gifts. Watching them grow is a source of great relief and pride.
In this way, with the care of my relatives and new and old friends, my later life was rich and colorful. I will always live a positive and optimistic life, like a warm little lamp, lighting up the hearts of everyone around me. At that last moment, I can also leave the world peacefully, go to the place where my wife is, and start our new journey in the afterlife.
Life is like a wonderful drama, although there are joys and sorrows, but every moment is worth celebrating and recalling. The most precious thing in this world is the little things you spend with your loved ones. I am grateful to God for giving me this wonderful life and learning to cherish the present and love life. I believe that my wife will be happy and proud of me in Heaven.
Time flies, and I'm 90 years old. Although I am not very mobile, I am able to take care of my daily life and help other elderly people with limited mobility as much as I can.
I would take turns visiting the bedridden elderly in the wards, listening to them talk about their thoughts, playing chess with them, and chatting with them. Sometimes I would push my wheelchair and take them out into the yard to bask in the sun and get some fresh air. I hope to bring them a little bit of joy.
Even though I am physically weak myself, taking care of others makes me feel that I still have value and a meaning to exist. It has also become one of the joys of my life. I often feel that the most precious thing in life is to serve others and give love.
One day, I came to the hospital room of Uncle Lin, a bedridden old man, as usual. He has been bedridden for three years. I peeled an apple for him and talked to him. During the conversation, I noticed that he had been in poor spirits lately and asked him what was wrong.
Uncle Lin said that his son had not come to see him this month, and he was very lonely and disappointed. He had a serious illness, and his son sent him here, and he has rarely been in touch since then. I also felt sad to hear him say that.
"Uncle Lin, your son may be very busy. But you have to know that you must have an irreplaceable place in his heart. I comforted him and said, "I'm sure he'll come to see you next month." When the time comes, you tell him that you miss him very much, and I am sure that he will understand you. ”
Uncle Lin listened to my words, and finally had a smile on his face. I also encouraged him, and every month I would come to see him, chat with him, and play chess. Uncle Lin gratefully shook my hand and said that with a good friend like me, he would not feel lonely.
Sure enough, Uncle Lin's son came to see him next month. Uncle Lin happily told me that he told his son his thoughts, and he blamed himself very much and promised to come back next month. I was also sincerely relieved to see the scene of the father and son being reconciled.
I hope that through painting, I can bring a little joy and comfort to their lives. I also reminisce about the good times my wife and I spent while painting, and I feel grounded and satisfied.
Life is like a long journey, even if the journey comes to an end, you have to laugh at every day. I know that Heaven will appreciate the love I give to others, and that this is the noblest part of my life. When the time comes, I will be smiling and blessing everyone around me.