Li Sisi's parenting reflection: Can you accept that your child will not go to a prestigious university?

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Can you accept that your child doesn't go to a prestigious university?

Li Sisi feels that the recent relaxation of parenting comes from learning to loosen oneself, and also from the expectation of more dimensions of the child's future.

In the past, she thought that self-discipline was anti-human and made you willing to do something boring, but now she knows that self-discipline is actually about doing something that you think is valuable.

Li Sisi's views and methods of educating his two sons have also undergone some changes. She used to think that learning Xi was a way to hone her will and Xi her skills, but now she feels that learning Xi is more than just memorizing, reading aloud and taking exams.

It turns out that Sisi's two sons spend most of their after-school time as a re-Xi and pre-Xi in class, and now, she will support her sons to do something they like. Will give them a period of time to dispose of themselves.

I personally approve of Li Sisi's changes in parenting concepts and methods, I don't know if you approve of it. Some people think that I would rather let my child not go to a prestigious university, but let him live a healthy and happy life. However, now many parents do not think so, and many parents are forcing their children to learn Xi.

This kind of forced education will lead to all kinds of problems later in the child. Some children, although successful, have many psychological problems. For example, he is selfish and ungrateful, believing that his success is the result of his own efforts.

Some children are not interested in learning Xi, and their initiative to learn Xi is not high, and under the pressure of their parents, they have a tendency to be tired of school or even depressed, and the gains outweigh the losses.

I think that learning Xi is important, but learning Xi is not the only way out for children, if children do not have the talent to learn Xi and are not interested in learning Xi, there is no need to force them to learn Xi.

Parents can discover their children's shining points, cultivate them according to their children's interests and hobbies, and let their children learn Xi in confidence, so that the effect will be better.

This is my experience and feeling as an educator who has been engaged in education for many years, I wonder if you agree?

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