Preface
Back then, Zhao Na, who had a beautiful temperament, had outstanding acting skills, and was known as the "Four Golden Flowers" with Maggie Cheung, Liu Xiaoqing, Lu Wei and others.
originally had a great future, but she married Zhu Yanping and Du Zhiguo, both of which ended in divorce.
The two emotional wounds not only destroyed her career, but also made her despair of men, and since then she has been taking care of her son alone.
Time has passed, and now at the age of 66, has she ever regretted it?
Why was Du Zhiguo so mean and ruthless to her back then?
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The flash marriage Du Zhiguo was broken up by Du Chun
In 2002, Zhao Na met Du Zhiguo in her hometown of Qingdao.
Du Zhiguo led a team to shoot here, and the two met at the crew gathering.
Although Zhao Na was not as glamorous as when she was young, her temperament was still outstanding.
It is not easy for her to raise her son alone, Du Zhiguo not only sincerely admires her strength, but also falls in love with her at first sight and loves her goodbye.
And Du Zhiguo at that time also left a good impression on Zhao Na, steady and introverted, which made people feel more friendly.
Both have experienced failed marriages and know how difficult it is to find a good partner at this age.
But they each have children, so they don't dare to rush.
In this way, the two began to contact frequently.
Finally, on the day he left Qingdao after filming, Du Zhiguo plucked up the courage to express his heart to Zhao Na and asked her what she thought.
Zhao Na, who hesitated at first, was also moved by Du Zhiguo's sincerity of "making you happy forever".
After careful consideration, she accepted Du Zhiguo's confession.
After two years of running-in, in 2004 they simply held a wedding and began to live together.
Du Zhiguo is a man who attaches great importance to his family and can take care of people.
He likes to grow flowers and grass at home and create a small garden.
This coincides with Zhao Na's hobby.
The two middle-aged people also understand the value of feelings, and the two take care of each other and are intimate.
For a while, they lived very sweetly and became a model couple in the entertainment industry.
Zhao Na felt that this was a complete home, and she experienced a warm feeling after a long time.
However, Du Zhiguo got married without telling Du Chun, afraid that his baby son would not accept his stepmother.
So he didn't hide it for long, and Du Chun knew that his father had already remarried.
Du Chun was already in adolescence, and the shadow of his parents' divorce in the past had not yet come out, so he strongly opposed this relationship.
Under his vexatious targeting every day, Zhao Na could not gain a foothold in this family, and Du Zhiguo, who could not bear the pressure, could only choose to divorce.
Zhao Na, whose marriage broke down, once again despaired of her feelings, and she no longer dared to easily believe in the so-called sincerity.
She was originally rejuvenated by love, but the failure of this marriage hit her hard.
Du Zhiguo soon reorganized the family again.
Zhao Na stopped on the emotional road and lived an ordinary life.
This can't help but remind people of her first marriage, which is really distressing for her.
Career is going well, first marriage Zhu Yanping
In 1976, Zhao Na graduated from high school in Qingdao and went to the countryside to participate in training in response to the country's call.
Two years later, she was admitted to the Shandong Repertory Theatre with excellent conditions and grades.
This move changed the trajectory of her ordinary life.
In the troupe, Zhao Na absorbs performance knowledge like a sponge every day, and does not miss any opportunity to exercise.
This made her take a fancy to the leaders of Bayi Film Studio and handed her an olive branch.
Zhao Na was overjoyed and came to Beijing with great expectations and began her life in Bayi Studios.
Bayi Factory also values Zhao Na very much and arranges many good roles for her.
She didn't dare to live up to her expectations, worked hard every day, fought night for each role she obtained, and frequently repeated her thinking until she interpreted the character to the extreme.
In 1980, Zhao Na starred in the movie "Dadu River" was released, and her superb acting skills won unanimous praise from the audience.
"It's so beautiful", "This girl is so good"... The audience praised one after another.
followed by starring in "The Death of the Marshal", which swept the country, and many people predicted that she would be the next Siqin Gaowa.
For a time, Zhao Na became a popular star in the entertainment industry.
But just when her career was in full swing, she suddenly chose to retire at the head of the "Four Golden Flowers".
No one knows what happened to her to make such a decision.
Later, people learned that it was because of love.
When filming "Death of the Marshal" that year, as the heroine, she and the actor Zhu Yanping fell in love because of the play.
This is the first time she has worked with such a mature actor, and she is nervous and excited.
And Zhu Yanping was also attracted by Zhao Na's youthful and gentle personality and gentle and beautiful appearance.
During the filming of several months, the two went from being unfamiliar to being familiar, and at the same time, their relationship also sparked.
Soon after the filming ended, they entered the marriage hall and applied for a marriage certificate.
A year later, Zhao Na gave birth to a son, and the happy family made her decide to retire to the background and turn to a clerical job, so that she could have more time to be at home with her husband and children.
On the other hand, her husband Zhu Yanping's acting career was not smooth, and he gradually lost confidence after failures.
This marriage, which is like glue on the surface, has gradually cracked in the dark.
Relationship breakdown and divorce ends
In 1985, in order to improve her professional level, Zhao Na entered the Beijing Film Academy for further study.
Here, she was nurtured by a good academic Xi atmosphere, and made great progress in all aspects.
However, the consequence of this is to snub the family.
The son has been weaned, so he handed it over to the old man to carry him, and he travels back and forth between Beijing and Shandong every month.
Gradually, her husband Zhu Yanping became more and more dissatisfied with the changes after her successful career, and the contradictions between the two began to spread gradually.
Zhu Yanping was later transferred to work at Emei Film Studio in Sichuan, and the couple began to live separately.
In 1987, Zhao Na finally finished filming her masterpiece "Eight Women Cast into the River" and hurried home.
Unexpectedly, as soon as I went home, I had a big quarrel with Zhu Yanping, and Zhu Yanping had a tough attitude and insisted on divorcing her.
Zhao Na was emotional for a while, and directly signed her name on the divorce agreement.
After the divorce, she regretted it, she wanted to redeem Zhu Yanping, but it was too late.
In desperation, she chose to leave Beijing Bayi Studio and return to her hometown Qingdao with her son to live.
In this way, Zhao Na missed the peak of her career as a popular actress and could no longer recover.
This failed marriage has become a turning point in her life, and perhaps ordinary people can achieve another beauty.
Make ends meet and start selling alcohol
Zhao Na, who left Bayi Studio, became a single mother.
With no job and no savings, she was in pain, but she had to struggle to support her son.
After being introduced by her fellow countrymen, Zhao Na went to Shenzhen to promote Tsingtao Beer, because the commission for this work is high.
The former female star suddenly became a beer girl, which made her feel deeply ashamed.
In order to make money, Zhao Na traveled all over the hotels and hotels in Shenzhen, selling her products to the bosses one by one.
Selling alcohol during the day and working part-time as a waitress at night, the days of living on the streets made her see the cruelty of society.
She didn't dare to let her son see her embarrassed appearance.
Only when she cries alone in the middle of the night, will she vent all the grievances in her heart.
Fortunately, hard work pays off.
A few years later, Zhao Na finally gained a firm foothold in Shenzhen through her own efforts, and she also had time to accompany her son.
She vowed never to let her son live as hard as she did.
So she continued to work hard to accumulate and prepare to reach new heights.
At this time, she met her second husband, Du Zhiguo.
Zhao Na finally melted her true heart and walked into the marriage hall again with hope, not wanting to end up in failure this time.
She never thought that Du Zhiguo kept saying that he loved herself, but he would leave her because of Du Chun's opposition.
Since then, she no longer believes in the so-called love.
epilogue
66-year-old Zhao Na is actually much younger than her actual age.
Although his face is no longer beautiful, he is elegant and generous in his gestures.
Once upon a time, she was a well-known female star on the screen.
But the ups and downs of life made her fall from a smash hit to a trough, and she became a beer salesman directly.
Fortunately, with her unremitting efforts over the years, Zhao Na stood up again.
She founded her own business in Qingdao, and now she has left Vanity Fair behind and is living a safe retirement life.
She would often fly abroad to visit her son and grandson, and when she was idle, she would hang out with friends.
Her son has also grown up to be able to take charge on her own, which has allowed her to relieve her of all these years of worry.
Although life has been bumpy, she has also experienced ups and downs, but this kind of tenacity and optimism is a model worth learning from Xi.
She used her 66 years of life to interpret what is the meaning of life.