Parents will encounter confusion and challenges on the road to parenting, especially for first-time parents, who have no experience to speak of. In this process, we are often confused and helpless, and do not know how to educate our children. However, it is worth noting that there is an "Internet celebrity father" who has successfully circled millions of fans with his unique parenting experience and has been appreciated by CCTV. He is Sanshi, who is known as "the most patient father on the whole network", and his naughty and cute daughter Xiaoyu. They let people see the way they live together in harmony through hilarious videos of everyday life. Now let's take a look at the parenting experience of this "Internet celebrity father", hoping to bring you some inspiration and reference.
A tooth for a tooth allows the child to feel the consequences of the grind
Xiaoyu is a complete "grinding ghost", walking slowly to school, and not coming out of class for a long time. At the beginning, in the face of his daughter's procrastination and friction, Sanshi felt helpless, and tried all kinds of methods to no avail. In the end, he chose a unique approach, which was to let Xiao Yu experience the consequences of the friction firsthand.
For those children who like to procrastinate like Xiaoyu, many parents are often angry or keep urging. However, this approach is often counterproductive. Instead, let your child feel the consequences of procrastination. Just like Sanshi's father, let Xiaoyu personally experience the taste of being late because of friction, so that the children can deeply understand. At the same time, in daily life, guide children to learn good time management and cultivate good Xi habits. And as an adult, you should always pay attention to your role as an example, and don't set a bad example of procrastination for children.
Respect your child's nature and support their ideas
Xiao Yu is an imaginative little girl who often has all kinds of whimsical ideas. For example, she would use sunflower seeds as durians, prick the peel of grapefruit in the shape of a centipede, and even "set diamonds" in rice bowls. Whenever Xiao Yu did these strange things, although Sanshi always had a disgusted expression on his face, he always maintained a patient attitude, played with his daughter, and never blamed her for doing this. This kind of behavior can be described as the highest level of parenthood.
One of the reasons we often like children is that they have a rich imagination and the courage to do it. In the world of children, there is no such thing as "whether this is in line with popular thinking". They have their own unique way of thinking, and they are willing to embrace all kinds of weird ideas and then put them into practice. Therefore, we should give our children enough respect and support when we face them. Just like Sanshi's father, he is willing to spend time and energy on some things that seem "boring" to adults, such as counting ants with children and doing strange crafts. As parents, we should protect their innocence and respect their "childishness", so as to better stimulate their potential.
Give your child quality companionship and lead by example
Excellent children are accompanied by their parents, and the quality of this companionship should be very high. Xiao Yu is innocent and dares to think and do, which is inseparable from the care and companionship of her parents. When Xiao Yu is mischievous, her family will always laugh and tease her. When she practiced Xi Latin dance at home, her father would accompany her by wearing grandma's square dance clothes and accompanying her to practice Xi. Although the whole family often fights wits and courage, it is noisy and noisy, but it is very warm, and every time I see such a picture, it always makes people feel that this is the real "home".
In real life, how many fathers are unwilling to sacrifice their entertainment time after work to spend time with their children? We often see a lot of "widowed families" on the Internet, when parents come home, they pay attention to mobile phones and TV, and they are not willing to play with their children for a while. Even some parents are by their children's side, but their minds are not on their children, while swiping their mobile phones, while dealing with their children, how can they let their children be close to you?
To sum up, if you want to be a good parent, the most important thing is to lead by example and give your children high-quality companionship. Like Three Stone Dads, they are able to respect their children's nature and ideas and support their creativity and imagination. They are also able to spend time and energy with their children, whether it's doing boring things or playing together, and do their best to meet their needs. In the process, they are also able to lead by example and set the right example for their children.
As parents, we must not only focus on our children's education, but also learn from them. Parenting is not a simple skill, it needs to be practiced and experienced by parents themselves. Every family's situation is different, so there is no one standard answer. But we can find some common experiences and inspirations from these successful cases, and then practice them according to our own family situation.
Finally, we should always pay attention to the development of our children and see their words and deeds as a manifestation of family upbringing. I hope that everyone can take action, not just to preach, but to create a warm and harmonious growth environment for children through practical actions.