Text: Shen Congshi
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Meng Man, a talented woman from Peking University, is still 48 years old and has not yet married, in a program, the host Zhu Xun asked, who do you want to marry the most, she humorously said a person, and everyone in the audience laughed.
Who is the man in Munman's mouth, and what charm does he have that captures the hearts of talented women?
Unexpected answer
I believe that many people know Meng Man on the podium, she always uses questions to tell history on the podium, so that the audience takes the initiative to think, and the whole process becomes interesting and vivid, this unique way has attracted a lot of attention to her.
But it is this talented woman who has not yet married, so that many people are curious about what she wants to marry, in a show, Zhu Xun directly raised the audience's question, if you travel to ancient times, who will you marry? Meng Man said without thinking: "Monkey King."
The audience laughed when they heard it, and no one could have imagined that Meng Man would say this name.
Meng Man then added: "Sun Wukong is brave and intelligent, and he also has a never-say-die spirit. ”
She used humor to resolve this question, she likes the feeling of freedom more than who to marry, and she often uses the "elk nature" to describe herself, in order to show her attitude towards life, and she is full of independent femininity.
In her view, the only way out for women is not only marriage, they can also choose a different life, they can go to a bigger and broader world, rather than being limited to firewood, rice, oil and salt.
Why Meng Man has not been married so far is also related to her experience since childhood.
Books as a companion
Meng Man's parents were both teachers, and in such a family environment, books were her best companions when she was a child, and her parents would often talk to her about the contents of the books, which allowed Meng Man to receive a good education from an early age.
When everyone else was out running wildly, she swam in a sea of books, and she loved the ups and downs of the stories in them, and often lost track of time, which also made her parents happy, and she read only a handful of books in her age.
She has read a variety of books, is very interested in literature, history and other categories, and often talks about it, and others call her "little talent".
Until junior high school, Meng Man still maintained the Xi of loving reading, but after the third year of junior high school, this Xi made her grades the bottom of the class, it turned out that her Chinese grades were very good, but seriously biased, and the overall score was not high.
After the parents learned about it, they were ready to change the status quo and help get rid of the "addiction", so they put the books that Meng Man usually read in a room and locked them.
But that didn't stop Monman from craving to read, and she would secretly unlock the door while her parents were away, but her actions were eventually discovered.
Seeing Meng Man, who was hungry for knowledge, her parents explained earnestly that they supported her to study, but she should focus on her studies, and if she abandoned her studies because of extracurricular books, the gains outweighed the losses, and hoped that she would balance the relationship between reading and studying.
Meng Man took her parents' words to heart, and she worked her studies, and her grades have also improved significantly.
Time flies by, and after passing the college entrance examination, she was admitted to the Central University for Nationalities, and her parents did not interfere with their daughter's major, and finally she chose history according to her own interests.
In the four years of college life, Meng Man did not dare to relax easily, listened carefully to every class, and went to the library to study history the rest of the time, invested a lot of time and energy in this aspect, and did not have the heart to block love.
Every year Monman was awarded a scholarship, and with her outstanding performance and excellent grades, she became a graduate student at the university.
She became more obsessed with history, learned about historical stories and people in detail, and hoped to draw strength and wisdom from them, and as she absorbed her knowledge, she also made up her mind to write a glorious stroke in the history books.
But the more she studied history, the more she could feel her ignorance and insignificance, and the desire for knowledge in her heart became stronger, in order to pursue higher academic achievements and knowledge, she chose to continue her studies and became a doctor of Peking University.
After returning from school, Meng Man became a talent sought-after by universities, and finally she chose her alma mater and became a teacher, which is also a dream ever.
On the podium, she usually uses humor and unique ways to mobilize the atmosphere in the classroom, so that the originally boring history has an interest in learning, and under her narration, history becomes more vivid and interesting.
Meng Man's classes were often crowded with students, and many students from other majors came to her, and her fame grew, and she was finally discovered by the program team of "Hundred Lectures".
But this talented woman's emotional history is blank, and she has no idea of getting married, so she doesn't care, but her parents are very anxious, and in 2019, regardless of their daughter's wishes, they forcibly announced a marriage proposal.
They don't ask the man for all the conditions, they only ask for compatibility with their daughter, which at first glance seems very simple, but when you think about it, it's not.
This kind of fit is completely personal subjective will, not wealth, education and other rigid requirements, and the resonance of the mind and soul is the most difficult, which is why the host asked Meng Man who he wanted to marry.
epilogue
Today, Meng Man is still not married, in her own words, "love is love", if you don't love, there is no need to force it, before love comes, you should put your time and experience on your hobbies.
Meng Man, who has been elected vice president of the All-China Women's Federation, is telling everyone that marriage is not a reason to bind individuality, and that everyone has the right to choose.
We often say that you have to marry someone who is good in itself, not someone who is good to you, such people know how to love, how to give, how to cherish, and how to maintain a relationship, and they can also feel love and care, respect and understanding.
Yes, we are not married, let alone unmarried, we are born to pursue happiness, not to marry or not to marry.
There are many ways to be happy, everyone has the right to choose, everyone has the right to live their life, and they can do whatever they like.
Although Meng Man is not married, her life is still full of fun, fulfillment and meaning, who can say that she is not happy?
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